I'm 400lbs & Men Are Ashamed To Date Me | DATING DIFFERENT

NINA, 35 from Philadelphia, says dating as a 'fat girl' is extremely scary as men 'don’t respect her'. Weighing over 400lbs, she worries that the guys who do date her have a 'big girl fetish'. Nina is looking for a man who respects her enough to be seen in public with her and not be ashamed. Today, she blind dates 41-year-old Matthew, but will he accept Nina for who she is?

Videographer: Kevin Huang
Producers: Georgia Embling, Yasmin Walker
Editor: Reuben Yarwood

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[novaofsparta]

She doesn’t want her weight to define her but she has made it into her entire personality.

[erinrapin]

If my date talked about being fat the whole time, I’m not gonna lie, it would put me off a lot

[wesbesttreacts]

Goes to the gym 4 times a week, no sugar, no fast food, but 400 pounds? How is that even possible, she must’ve just started that lifestyle cause ain’t no way

[Jesus_Christ_Is_King]

Just because a man doesn’t want you doesn’t mean they are trash. Every man is not like that.

[williamkious]

Would she date a man her size? I bet not.

[hannahb]

Calling someone trash and expecting them to empathise with you and treat you with the respect and dignity you do not show them is a pretty wild take

[chauncygardner]

She’s too confrontational and overly critical. I think her verbal aggressiveness is a defense mechanism.

[TheStableGenius]

She doesn’t eat sugar, she doesn’t drink sodas, she doesn’t eat fast food. Yet, she literally had a burger with fries on this date. We can safely say that…she’s full of it 🍔

Incoming @ 4:01

[xxtechnocatxx]

"I don't do fast food" proceeds to order burger and fries💀

[amye]

As an overweight woman who was at my heaviest obese. I don’t believe an obese woman can really be genuinely happy. It just makes you feel tired, like you’re wearing a 50kg harnas literally and figuratively. You don’t feel healthy when you are extremely overweight and people who say they do don’t know what health really feels like.

[martylovellmusic.]

she's not plus size, she's overweight. Theres a CLEAR DIFFERENCE.

[anointedroe]

She literally made the entire date about her weight, a HUGE turn off.

[dee]

She keeps talking about her weight, she’s the one whose insecure about it no matter how “delusionally confident” she claims to be. Her being on social media definitely changed that, and brought her back to reality.

[einienj]

Men have personal preferences just like you do.. doesn't make them trash for not wanting to date you..

[MaiMai-ysyg]

I don’t know- it’s like she is trying to convince herself to be confident. She only talks about how fab she is, her weight, her social media and then tells him he is closed off and men are all trash. It’s like her weight is her entire personality She just gives me insecure vibes. I hope she continues to work on herself and eventually finds true happiness

[ebonykids]

There is no way she goes to the gym and not eat junk food and be this size.

[BigMamaCat]

It's supposed to be a date, not a therapy session for her insecurities.

[mizzhllywd]

Calling all men trash is going to make it hard to meet someone.

[lolacookie]

The narc/superficial convo about being an influencer would be enough for most men to walk away, nothing to do with her weight

[Scofco]

Some men don't want to fall in love with someone that will be dead before they hit 50. Doesn't make them trash. You do you though.