What is the difference between a cis man and a trans man?

Understanding Gender Identity: Cis Man vs Trans Man • Understanding Gender Identity: Cis Man vs Trans Man" is an informative video that breaks down the difference between these two identities. Learn about the concepts of gender identity and societal expectations to better understand and respect individuals for who they are.

00:00 • What is the difference between a cis man and a trans man?
00:20 • What is a Cis Man?
00:49 • What is a Trans Man?
01:25 • Why Does This Matter?

[Me_AV]

The Y chromosome. That is the difference.

[gothgirlgod]

I definitely appreciate your upload! And the information you are trying to give. But I do think your definition of a Trans man and what the word trans means is a bit troublesome definition to Trans people who have Gender dysphoria.

Your definition states that Trans its about purely the identity and the feelings that you don't quite fit what your born as.

But- the real defining factor is: Someone who has intense gender dysphoria their whole lives even before truely knowing what that means.

By stating that its all based on the choice of just a feeling of identifying. Basically means just anyone can be trans. Or think they are. Just picking a label shouldn't be the defining factor.

Which I mean no disrespect by stating such. Ive heard from different individuals, who have now started to call themselves Transsexuals because that they are often hurt by the fact that the term "Trans" and "Transgender" has been so misconstrued to such a degree that many people who truely do not have Gender Dysphoria have gotten to a point where they kinda convinced themselves that- they are genuinely trans.

That hurts cause people who don't need that specific treatment route are getting these things done with such. . . Misinformation and no understanding of what being Trans really means. It takes away alot for people with actual Gender Dysphoria. Cause they have fought for Trans rights in the past just for some people to come and pick up trans ideology and literally turn on those elder Trans individuals and tell them they are wrong. And that they are not vailded. And they are not always respected either.

But the root issue is something else and the healing won't come from taking that route if they don't genuinely have real authentic Dysphoria.

I 100% believe that if someone is genuinely Trans they can't be swayed or talked out of it and they won't have any doubts of that at any point.

I understand these journeys are personally and incredibly difficult, and I do care and validate feelings and understand what struggles are going on. And this was posted with the greatest intentions and I can tell your trying to educate and post in love and understanding.

But at the end of the day- If someone doesn't feel like they like themselves as a woman and decide to be trans (thinking they are trans) its only gonna cause more hurt for them.

Being trans shouldn't take away your assigned birth. It should be a part of that persons journey.

If someone says- "I am a man and always was. Im a real man."

It takes away from the whole point. Your trans cause you transitioned from one side to the other. That shouldn't be something your ashamed of! If you are a trans man with actual dysphoria, you being a woman is still apart of who you are!
That doesn't mean your not Trans! You are.

If your not content with the reality of your biology, you never will be fully happy. Cause your trying to fit a impossible standard.

If you love yourself, and don't let others define your value or identity. You will be self content and feel much more free.

Every Trans Man with actual dysphoria is a Woman.

And Every Trans Woman with actual dysphoria is a Man.

Its just a fact. And its not a hateful one! Promise!

You can be both and content with both. Happy with both. While living in reality and understanding that- you can be a much happier Trans individual. 😊

Like own your whole journey.

Don't let others misgendering you or misusing your pronouns bother you. ^-^ If your happy in your transition. Its cause your doing it for YOU. And no one else. And therefore, what they say should not invalidate how you feel.

If your living your best Trans life for others benefit, Or to have everyone recognize you a certain way, and you don't feel happy or content with your identity unless everyone else does.

Then that sadly may be a sign your not really Trans.

Or your actually Trans and just- Putting your journey's value on other outward sources. It should come from within.

Happy Pride month!

I hope that you find truth to whatever you are going through and find the legitimately right path for you.

If you don't have Dysphoria and your not happy or comfortable where you are at- I promise you- Its okay to be a Tomboy and still be a female. You can be female and like stuff outside societys standards.

I promise you, you can be happy as a man who also likes stuff that is usually precieved as stuff for women in society.

Those things don't matter. I promise you, that you can be happy in your own skin without that label if you don't have actual Gender dysphoria.

This is me cheering you on!