The Power of Your Silence

There are certain circumstances in which our silence speaks louder than words. In this video, we discuss the power of your absence in someone's life and the impact that your silence can have during a breakup.

[CoachCraigKenneth]

I cannot stress this enough…. Working through your attachment issues and becoming truly confident (secure) is the most effective way to naturally restrict your ex. THIS is the reason I created The Knowledge Workbooks and the Creative Healing Course ❤️🙌 💪

[blankearth]

“We suffer more in imagination than in reality.” -Seneca

[adamoart]

Going silent gives you clarity and allows you to focus solely on yourself. You gain back your independence, your confidence and your self worth. Sometimes you don't realize just how much a person has broken you down until you really start to build yourself back up again.

[nickf]

If you have treated some one right and they quit on you, let them walk. No questions asked, no explanation necessary, no crying, no pulling ever speak to them again. They betrayed all of your trust, and there is no going back after that.

[irmapauzuolyte]

No contact is the best thing I've ever done! By using no contact I respected myself for not clinging to someone who does not need me. It was very hard, but now I am much better. Respect yourself, people. If they do not need you, you (and I) will surely meet someone, who is wayyyy better and respects you for who you are 😊 Much love ♥️

[dennisbeacham]

Silence is the shovel that will allow you to dig yourself out of this dysfunctional relationship

[akasickform]

Trust me when I say this from previous relationships..

...If you stay in contact or become friends with your ex *you WILL end up hurting* not only any chance to repair or reconcile, but also yourself, your dignity and other people's perception of you

Once you break up, the *ONLY* thing that can happen is *MORE DAMAGE*

Do yourself the biggest respect and *DO NOT TALK TO THEM*

*IF* they come back, you *NEED* to be prepared, but *DO NOT HOLD THE HOPE THAT THEY WILL*. If you hold on to this hope, they *WILL* reject you again. *DO NOT DO IT TO YOURSELF*

They will become *ANGRY* and *RESENTFUL* even if your intentions are good.

*YOU NEED TO LEAVE YOUR EX IN PEACE.
THEY DIED WHEN THEY LEFT YOU*

[AB-dnbk]

If you have been a quality partner and someone pushes you out of their life - go and never go back. Spend time building a new house instead of wasting your time walking around one that has burned to the ground.

[MarkSmith-eddz]

For those who are suffering right now, accept it. Don’t try to fight it. Things are gone this way, don’t try to fight it. Accept it you deserve mental pace and happiness your ex is just a small part of your life.

[robincroft]

I had an ex reach out to apologize for cheating, lying and treating me like crap after 13 years .. wanting another chance with me 🤦🏼‍♀️🤣 felt good to get the apology, people need to realize that you need to keep moving forward in life and do you.. you’re the only one who can make yourself happy in life.. knowing he lived in regret for 13 years is called KARMA 😄

[Lanes]

Margaret was such a comfort. Like a long distance grandma 😊 She is missed.

[tammierusby]

Since my breakup I have been reflecting and I know where I went wrong in the relationship. I gave too much of my time and I became too comfortable. I'm working on me and healing and moving on. Your videos are very helpful and informative. Thank you

[devonways]

No contact is 100% for you. Even if you start off thinking it's to get your ex back, the space brings clarity to you and your thoughts and things start to change within you. Here's a heads up: this part can be really painful. You may try to fight the feelings because they're yuck! Please be kind to yourself and know it's okay to cry it out. Stock up on boxes of tissues and hang in there!

[devapoole]

Going silent is a gift to myself 😉 and a quiet peace of acceptance ..freeing from stress...happier because you can not control others. ..or what they decide to do.

[BambiOnIce]

I personally prefer communication over silence every time. However, if someone makes it clear that they don’t want to speak to me anymore, then I will exit as gracefully as I can

[shezsoshy]

This is facts…they always come back. I heard recently an ex who moved on married has kids reaches out to my brother because they are still friends. They keep in touch once in a blue moon. They meet up to talk and hang out every several years. He randomly said and this 20 yrs later. He still thinks of me. He thought he would end up with me. He was the one who rejected me in the end. I forgot about him and moved on. So these two people are speaking truth. You move on and some exes don’t. I’m sure he doesn’t lose sleep over it and I never keep in touch with him. But it still haunts him once in a while. So stay silent and move on. They will either come back or regret losing you.

[gionagrace]

Ohhhh no contact is the best!!!! Grieve them for a week or so and all about YOU!!! Spend time learning and growing and doing new hobbies, invest in time with family and friends, take a class, go to the gym, but worry about YOU. I have been the dumpee and the dumper. Believe me, it hurts like Hell in both situations however I can tell you that every single time ....they came back within 8 months. Some I dated again and some I said goodbye to but at the end of the day, I took away the experience of each one of those men and I truly count them all as a blessing & a lesson. Believe these 2 awesome people! They KNOW the power silence holds and so do I. People often ask...well, what if they never contact me? Then, you know that you were being protected and God has your back but he also has someone much better in mind for you plus you will have then put the focus on YOU and living your best life.❤❤❤

[jerrycheah]

SILENCE IS THE MOST DEAFENING THING YOU CAN DO

[scottstewart]

The “illusion of action”. Give them the gift of missing you.

[JamesGreenier]

Margaret is and was a gem. So brilliant. She has/had such wisdom and clarity of words. 😢