10 Signs Your Partner Doesn't Love You Anymore - Even If They Think They Do.

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Love is a complicated emotion. Sometimes we're not sure if our partner loves us or not. In this video, I share 10 signs that will help you determine whether your partner still loves you or has fallen out of love with you.

10 Signs Your Partner Doesn't Love You Anymore - Even If They Think They Do.

[hardymind]

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[christinemunger]

I've realized my partner is a narcissist, so I'm trying to deal with the fact that he never loved me. He just loved what I provided for him...narcissistic supply. A bitter pill to swallow.

[V.Hansen.]

1. Don’t make an effort to spend time with you
2. They don’t involve you in their life
3. Don’t have time for you
4. You love them more than they love you
5. Only talk about themselves
6. Won’t talk about relationship or feelings
7. Never apologize
8. No physical affection
9. They are interested in someone else
10. Don’t say ILY

[jshep]

After 25 years I got tired of stroking the asshole's ego. Now I'm 19 years in with the man of my dreams. It's never too late or hopeless. I hope everyone commenting and comment reading finds happiness again someday.

[sicobain]

The worst thing isn't being alone.... It's being with someone that makes you feel alone. I am married but when I tried to talk about my feelings, he walks away and calls me too sensitive. I don't know why he wants to keep me if he doesn't show love for me.

[robzplace]

People can only fake it for so long. The truth always comes out in the most painful way...

[leroyhudson]

This is why I would rather spend the rest of my life alone, than to deal with the B.S. of being in a relationship.

[superstar]

Most times things fall apart because there is less fun and more fighting. Over time feelings are gone because the person only reminds you of stress and not peace.

[jeaniephillips]

You can never love a narciisist...they are selfish, controlling, harsh in word, and users!!

[jo-annsmith]

This video is so accurate, I'm starting to feel physically ill for realising that this is my marriage that's being used as an example 😭💔

[angelamartzen]

I think what's most important here is to identify what love really is. It's trust, honesty, respect, loyalty, kindness, consideration, patience, and communication. If you don't have all these things with your partner, then it's not really love. There is going to be good times and bad times. Your relationship is going to go through many different phases. But if you don't maintain these core values, then the relationship will start to fail. And everyone has their own love language but these core values are a must in every partnership, no matter what their love language is. If you have your own issues, traumas, and insecurities that are unresolved, they will have an affect on your relationship, and it's the same for your partner. Not everyone is going to be problem-free though, so you and your partner need to be able to admit to these personal problems, address them, and find a way to work through them together. There has to be a willingness on both ends to contribute to the relationship. Sometimes one of you will be going through a hard time and the other will have to pick up what the other cannot, but this is just one of the phases a relationship goes through. But in general, it cannot be one sided the whole time. If you or your partner outright refuses to contribute to the relationship in a fair and equal way, then it's never going to get better. There has to be an equal amount of effort you both bring to the table, however ways that manifests. If these things are neglected, then resentment builds and if that resentment goes too far, then there's no turning back. You won't be able to love each other the same way again. Just know that real love is a dedication for the long run. Many say that love is unconditional but this is not true, at least not in the way that people think. The conditions are these core values, you must have them. Because if you love with no conditions then you allow someone the opportunity to mistreat you. And as much as you must have these standards for your partner, you must have them for yourself as well.

[ystrw]

"Well, something I've observed about marriage is that people go into it thinking that they'll always be in love. But my experience is actually that people fall in love, and stay in love for a while, and fall back out of love. And then they eventually fall back in love.
"So people fall in love, and they think this is how their life is going to be from now on. And when they fall back out of love, they realize they don't know how to relate very well to the person they married, without that feeling. But I've found that if you wait a while, you fall back into love again. And I think that's why it's so important to marry someone you can connect with on multiple levels. That way, in the times when you're out of love, you still feel you have things in common and can go along pretty smoothly.
"I think that's why a lot of people struggle, is they don't know how to make a new connection with their spouse in an out-of-love way, and it leads to a lot of stress and unhappiness, and often to divorce. So if you fall out of love, waiting a while to see if you fall back into love is worth it. And even if you don't, if you're married to someone who is also a good friend, you can keep the partnership going without a lot of fighting and conflict while you're waiting to see how you feel."

-My father, a family counselor, giving me advice several weeks before I got married... 27 years ago. I didn't want to believe him at the time, but now I know he was right. So my advice to anyone looking to get married is, 'Are you friends? If so, you stand a much better chance of lasting through the dry spells than if you're not friends.' That, and, 'Marriage is WORK. Sometimes it's hard work. Partnerships are like that. You get from it what you put into it; and if you don't, it's time to re-evaluate.'

[Carlparishhonda]

A true relationship is not 90% sex and 10% communications. It's really 90% COMMUNICATION and 10% SEX, because sex is temporary physical action. Communications is eternal and spiritual actions without an end. Which caused love to increase an abundance of understanding about each other. Your significant other probably join a political party that you are not into. This is why communications is important to prevent IRRECONCILABLE DIFFERENCES.

[donaldellis]

My partner recently left me after 6 years. I knew something was not right as she stopped calling me by the pet name she said everyday and I would always have to be the first to say I love you and after a few months of this I confronted her and she said she has been dating someone behind my back for several months, so basically she kept dating this person until she felt on solid ground with him. So in closing it proves that more than not if you are noticing subtle changes with your partner most times there is just cause for you being suspicious and insecure

[talltree]

To love is an effort of responsibility an action which speaks louder than words.

[robertmccann]

29 yrs in, night of the last argument I apologized for the 3rd time, leaned in to kiss goodnight and the look of repulsion told me it was over. Took off my ring, moved out and after waiting/separated for 2 yrs, divorced

[logothaironsides]

If you get 1 alarm bell/red flag when dating, step back and wait. If you get another one, listen to your intuition. Dont tell yourself to ignore those, they are your intuition kicking in to protect you. Wish someone had told me that 35 years ago..

[rms]

Loved the communication piece. My significant other just clams up when trying to talk...feeling alone in a relationship is sad. Work on finding other things that bring you joy!

[lorenzohiguera]

11. If you honestly discover that you're the one making the lion's share of effort to mend or salvage the relationship, usually means their feelings for you have changed. And if those changes appear drastic and dissimilar from the past. Then you can be sure, they've lost adoring interest.

[waitwhat]

It was something said about the relationship: "It's just too hard". This was someone who would drop everything at a minute's notice to drive 3 states over for one of their friends. This was also someone that I stood by for 7 years when things were super difficult _for me_ both in my own life and due to negativity from their friends and family. I let the phone call continue like nothing was wrong. That was the last time they heard from me.