Your guide to vasopressin bonding | Adam Lane Smith

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Your guide to vasopressin bonding, from an Attachment Specialist. Vasopressin is a bonding hormone that helps you connect to others. Men have more vasopressin receptors than women do, and that means anyone wanting to bond with men need to understand vasopressin. But vasopressin is also crucial for women. Learn about this bonding hormone and how to apply it in your relationships.

Vasopressin is a key ingredient in healthy relationships. Especially long term attachment and bonding. If you want to make your relationship solid for the long run, you need to understand vasopressin bonding. Here’s what it is, why it happens, and how to make it happen in your relationship.

This video is part of an ongoing series about attachment.

Everyone I tell about vasopressin wants to know more. So I’ve compiled this guide to vasopressin bonding and how to make it happen. If you’ve been wanting to learn more about vasopressin or if you’re just looking to connect with others in a better way, this guide will show you all about vasopressin and what it means for you.

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[gracelikerain]

I def fucked up a few past relationships because i have a hard time understanding peoples emotions due to trauma i went through but i did meet a man who was patient with me i finally started trusting him and now the relationship is progressing so maybe we were also vasopressin bonding i didnt know about this stuff i feel like he tamed me from my crazy ways and openee my eyes to my negative behaviors but imstead of judging me he showed me love and taught me how to be better 💗

[davidmartel]

Heh, never thought my longtime Trust Issues could have been contextualized in five minutes. Well worth the watch.

[TheWBWoman]

Wow! I don't fall in love until I strongly vasopressin bond. I didn't realize why I seem to fall in love differently than other woman seem to.

[charlotte]

This is genius and so important. I think that schools need to teach people how to understand themselves and other people so much more we would be so much further along as humanity. The slight understanding I now have a vasopressin explains why people may stay in toxic or abusive relationships. The cycle is dramatic & can feel like relief when it's over. Potentially bringing you closer in a bond with someone who isn't the best for you. Just a thought...

[danielletaylor]

I need more specific ideas for fun activities that build vasopressin please 😊

[eunpark]

Oh my god. This is exactly how me and my boyfriend got close at the first place. We have been playing video games together since we’re friends. FPS and overwatch games makes us work as a team to achieve certain goal!

[x-mess]

So.. is this how people trauma bond when they go thru a horrific/tragic experience together? Also, would that explain the cold mother type who is always ‘doing’ to please but isn’t capable of much affection- bc in her mind.. bonding comes through doing/acts of service?

[abraham-hicks-hub]

I'm a business woman and very high in vasopressin. Thank you a thousand times for this video. You have answered my puzzlement over having a wonderful relationship with my husband of 35 years and yet it was dominantly vasopressin bonding. (You really know your stuff Adam and yes - I totally agree - it's through trauma etc. that a woman gets high in vasopressin)

[catalystphoenixmoon]

I really enjoy these videos about Vasopressin bonding. Thank you and I look forward to more!

[margox]

I love your vids Adam!! I‘m from Germany and I remember seeing something on Tiktok u posted. I immediately knew that you are a great thinker!!

[imasking]

I had some bumps in youth. As an adult I am a significantly effective problem solver, so effective that it is advancing my career. Problem solving literally makes my brain tingle. This video is interesting insight on what may be the root of this.

[erikameir]

I don’t know how to assess if I’m having a release of vasopressin now, after watching this piece, but, I feel more hopeful and excited about potentially problem-solving with my partner. The work to become a secure though comes into place immediately because I worry that I’m not good enough to solve problems with. So as you’ve said, in other videos, go do your attachment work first. Back to that!

[teoriepenez]

Amazing video Adam, thanks for your work

[Buggzter-n-Gallade]

Questions
1) In the last year, do you have further insights on this that would change anything in the video?
2) How does cortisol and GABA change the creation and ability to utilize the vasopressin?

[Nadeamurphy]

What about for long distance relationships?

[marilynarteaga]

I want to THANK YOU. This information explained so much and gives me hope. Thank You.

[PamelaWildman-Williams]

I have always understood from my physiology lectures that Vasopressin is the anti diuretic hormone. Could you say more pls?

[Fanaro]

Could you please cite references for this topic? Ever since Dunbar expressed doubts about it, I kinda doubt it too.

[DreamieArtist]

Can we talk about humans that have downregulation of vasopressin already from childhood (even goal oriented parental units preferentially VP bonding kids instead of oxytocin), so already have a propensity to VP bonding, thus causing depression, anxiety and agression, thus leading to overuse of alcohol to increase dopamine, but over long term causing vasopressin depletion... then they run from all bondings at all because now they have neither oxytocin nor vasopressin to work with? Also the correlating liver cirrhosis and kidney disease linked to low VP?

Are avoidants as a demographic thus more prone to alcoholism, cirrhosis, and kidney disease?
Should avoidants be very careful with vasopressin depletion via alcohol consumption?

[kew]

My love just VB'ed with me yesterday! I never heard of it until today. Is this a clear sign of his genuine love for me? I'll have to research this more. Thank you for educating me on this!🙏🏾