HOW TO BE A LONER (Animation)

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PLEASE NOTE this is not a real guide I'm mostly just talking about myself!
don't take my potato advice to heart pls!
also if you're wondering, I wouldn't consider myself a loner anymore but I do have loner tendencies from time to time.
I took what I learned from observing and applied it in action during College, but also made sure to keep on 'being myself'.
I think that's very important!
Hope this helps anyone out there somehow :) if not all gud we chillin'

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0:00 HONKAI STAR RAIL
0:56 HOW TO BE A LONER
9:19 OUTRO

#HonkaiStarRail #HoYoverse

[Daidus]

don't take my potato advice to heart pls!
also if you're wondering, I wouldn't consider myself a loner anymore but I do have loner tendencies from time to time.
I took what I learned from observing and applied it in action during College, but also made sure to keep on 'being myself'.
I think that's very important! Hope this helps anyone out there somehow :) if not all gud we chillin'

[highspeedrailenjoyer]

Daidus has blessed us with a yearly video

[Emerald]

Im pretty sure 99% of your audiences are already a loner.

No need to make a tutorial about it

[wakeywakeybiss]

We don't want lovers, we want daidus to upload a video

[gummy]

Theres something about your videos that just make me feel... Safe. Like im talking to a friend i genuinely enjoy hanging out with, your experiences and style of humour are so relatable that they honestly keep me going man. You probably dont realise it but your videos make a lot of people feel like they have a true friend and you should be proud of yourself for that :)

[notanexploreranimations]

big rant warning btw:
i was a "loner" for about 4 years of my life, 6th-9th grade. I can relate to pretty much everything u said except for the part about wanting to blend in. I rlly didn't want to be a loner. When I observed conversations, I got really jealous of people who could easily make friends. I wanted to stand out, but I didn't really know how, bc my aura wasn't invisible nor friendly, it was just straight up a mess. After being bullied a lot, I eventually just got really quiet and didn't bother socializing, scared every time I opened my mouth that people wouldn't like what was coming out of my mouth. I was always just trying to conform to the personality people wanted from me, which tbh seemed to just be for me to shut up, looking back on it. I have autism, which makes it really hard for me to blend in or fit in, but somewhere along the line I got caught up in this fake persona I made for myself. In this persona, I was friendly, confident, extroverted, and knew social ques. Except, I wasn't myself. I pretty much lost myself trying to mask my autism.
There were so many times where my life just felt like a play I was putting on. I figured the other person was way above me, always knowing what to say and just waiting for me to mess up my lines. Never once did I think they were just a regular normal person as well, with their own flaws and worries, perhaps even the same as mine."What should I say here to sound normal?" and "What would a normal person say to this?" was all that ever went on in my head. Sometimes my guesses worked, and sometimes they didn't. But I learned and I grew, and my little persona started to become me. I felt empty. There were even times when I sat and decided, "If my friends knew what really went on in my head, they definitely wouldn't be friends with me."
This past year I've been trying to really rediscover myself. Even though my communication and social skills were really weak, I was such a bright kid. I was actually a maladaptive daydreamer, and I wrote a lot of my stories down on paper and planned to publish them. I loved art, anime, writing, and all things science. I'm focusing on trying to regain those traits, because, they're literally my own traits. They've just been buried.
Whether or not my existence is socially acceptable, I'm trying to put aside my people pleaser mentality in the hopes that the people who will like me for who I actually am will come into view. I just wanna be the best version of myself and not have to see my autism as a handicap, but rather a trait that actually enhances me as a person. I definitely wouldn't go back to being a loner, but I still want to accept myself for who I am. thanks for listening to my ted talk

[MobileAssassin]

Man really nailed the observation part. Never did I think someone would perfectly understand what it was like to be the loner/ outcast.

[chlozentimes]

"How to be a Loner" Haha, you fool, I've already mastered this.

[amarillot.t]

I used to watch you back in my high school days and here I am today a few months from being 21 and still having everything you say resonate with me.

[HeisenbergFam]

1:54 "sometimes for some people like me being alone feels good" one of the most accurate sentences said in history, the artstyle is majestic

[Chazzdoodles]

I’ve always thought that being a loner is no good, seeing other people socializing normally and having fun, but growing up has made me realize that it’s how I find my own peace. So yeah, being a loner does have its perks sometimes lol

[JB-fyss]

Damn dude, this hits hard. I was a loner, and a couple of years back, I got my first girlfriend. We both are loners together, and we both are happy together.

[EliteSpartan]

Man the avoiding conflict thing is so true. I don't consider myself really to be a loner anymore either, but I still try and avoid conflicts at all costs 0_0

[linuschatelier]

I love this video so much. The art is simply immaculate and the topic relatable. And the Daidus the Rock persona is goofy and fitting.

[finnrobyn]

I can really relate with his experience, but I would also say that if you are in a similar situation: it is not always in your control and you shouldn't blame yourself for it either.
Being naturally quiet, shy or introverted can make it hard to find people you enjoy spending time with, but that doesn't mean they don't exist. Theres plenty of people who would love your presence and have similar interests to talk to with, but a fact of life is that sometimes you are just unlucky.
I've moved to many places and therefore went to multiple different schools in my childhood. Being naturally quiet and not the strongest at social situations, sometimes I had no friends at all, yet other times I had lovely people at my side that I still talk to til this day. If you are reading this, and are going through an experience like that yourself, might suck to hear but you might've just gotten unlucky. But that doesn't mean that it will always stay that way!

[bloxxybaddie]

your artstyle improved so much omg i love all the different expressions they're so detailed ❤

[bumperk]

Having high functioning autism myself most of what you shared lines up to what it's like going through school not being able to socialize well with others and observing how to socialize. As well as other factors. Thx for creating another great video, I look forward to your next one.

[kinseyJinn]

The "Perfect Blue" reference on 3:45 got me in tears ngl

[raziel-pg]

Man, i remember i was lonely just a couple of times due to being new or getting away from toxic friends.
Those few days or weeks of being lonely were the most BORING and sad moments i ever had in my school days. Thinking about people being lonely for most of their school days make me respect them and the ways they found to fight that boredom.
Like school seems like a hellish boring useless daily prison.
So yeah... stay safe and happy <3

[warped_rider]

One time in middle school the guidance counselor called me into her office during recess. Apparently they were concerned that I was basically alone reading all the time. I was so oblivious to my own existence I didn't realize they thought there might be cause for concern, it was just that none of my friends were in the same lunch period so I didn't seek out company. Makes me wonder how I made any friends to begin with.