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[boostystarman]

Oldest son who saw his mother suffer here, this song is currently the fuel for a story I’m writing about my mom getting vengeance.

[gemmagemma-wxbs]

Yup at 12 years old I was expecting to come home from school, cook and set lunch for my grandfather, clean the bathrooms with bleach on weekends, and one time my dad spit in my face in front of my cousins while I was serving them drinks. So yes, you right

[jfm]

This song is definitely viral. I'm hearing it on every platform... and I'm the youngest kid.

[SimpleMandy]

Eldest daughter that has been caregiver since 18 and now I am 42. Felt this in my bones.

[sugar_skull_mua]

Your head banging and dizziness is so relatable. 💁🏻‍♀️

[xenrusxenomorph]

Feel that rage it's literally what that song is for.

[michelleNotImportant]

I am a stay-at-home mother, I identified with this song so very much.

[killus]

I love this song and relate to the message as a femme presenting AFAB.

[missanthropy]

I’m the youngest but the only daughter. My parents definitely embody a traditional heteronormative marriage. My mom stayed at home for the first 15 years of her marriage and during that time she did most of the parenting and domestic labor while my dad worked. But my siblings and I have been grown for years now, my mom works more hours than my dad, and he does virtually nothing outside of some yard work here and there. I’m pretty sure he doesn’t even know how to do laundry. What initially called my attention to this was that as I got older, the expectation that I helped in the kitchen more, learned to cook, and clean more than my older brothers did was automatic. That and they were allowed later curfews and more freedom at a younger age than I was even though I got into way less trouble and generally behaved better than they did. Oh and my mom has noticed how much labor she has to do to make up for the lack of my dad’s and she likes to unload about it on me. But not my brothers, just me. I love my parents, but they are not perfect and this song hits HARD.

[nolongerwoman]

Yeah.... as the oldest of 5 and being in a toxic relationship with a guy and having a lot problems with my parents and basically raising my siblings while trying to please a stupid asshole of a guy and a family that didn't accept the fact i was trans... I'm not surprised that this song speaks to me on a deep level

[BeccaFaye]

It's all over my page because I have "survived 7 years of narcissistic abuse" rage.

[bidishah]

Love the Ron's dress robes appreciation going on. You guys are gonna love the reunion special for a very particular reason. ❤

[brahminsteak_]

I'm the youngest daughter, but I have a lot of rage in general and I don't mind directing it at men. So I think that works. Can't wait for this banger to drop 🔥🔥🔥

[lizziecross]

I’m the youngest, but I had to take care of my parents. It was exhausting. Now that I’m standing up for myself, my siblings and parents are annoyed with me. It’s infuriating.

[tesadityousfirey]

I had to raise my father and deal with the consequences of all his decisions; I am filled with patriarchal female eldest daughter rage!

[DikshaDivaDixit]

Trust the patriarchy to try to convince us that a song about woman empowerment could not possibly be viral 😂😂😂😂😂

[Arniqua]

I'm the eldest daughter and I feel called out 😂

[evilby]

I started caring for my dad and baby sister at 7. By 13 I was expected to miss school to nurse/watch sick family members, cook meals, clean, do the afternoon pick up, laundry for the whole house, housework, bill paying, grocery shopping ( I had to always go and put it away nobody else even had to bring the shit in). No investment in my education or support for extracurricular activities. Was made to quit because I couldn't " handle my responsibilities " and it cost money. The solution was simply " marry rich". They now have the audacity to be disappointed that I became the person they made me be. I didn't want this life but I wasn't given any other options

[Zen_the_Enby]

Psychological and emotional abuse since I was 7. I was raised in a household where my mom worked as a nurse 12 hours a day, 6 days a week and my stepdad was a “stay at home dad” which really meant he gave me tasks to do (or didn’t and just screamed at me when I didn’t do them) including raising my stepsister and half brother (who were 3 and 1 respectively at the time). I’m 15 (almost 16) now and have such a high level of unexpressed hatred for men that has ruined my life for me: I never want kids because I don’t know how a parent is supposed to act, I don’t want a husband (I have a partner who’s the sweetest person ever though, nblnb), and I already plan on going zero contact the second I’m capable of leaving. My mother isn’t a good person either, though she’s also a victim of the patriarchy. I have been assaulted by men 4 times my age and get cat called on a regular basis for being a “city girl” in a rural small town, I will sing this song as my life’s story one day while I watch the lives of those that wronged me burn… if the government can get its act together and actually punish those that need consequences.

[callofdutyblackopswmd]

Live your life as the fullest it is don't let people put you down the song supposed to be about Vikings