WHAT IS A GOOD WIFE? : Relationship advice

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Like women, men want a life partner who will be trustworthy, faithful and reliable. They want a wife who will stand by their side and, considering divorce rates, it's no surprise that dependability would continue to be attractive.

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[loveabides]

Thank you for your Wisdom, Miss Faye! I'm old school and I had this mentality because I watched what my mother did for my father and her children. I wanted what my parents had. What they had was beautiful. The difference is, after my mother started working, my father HELPED MY MOTHER. Also, my mother had children very young then again when she got a little older, so my older siblings HELPED HER, TOO. When I and my middle sibling got older, WE HELPED HER. My mother never came home to a dirty kitchen and dinner was already started. She really never cleaned a thing again after we grew up. My EX HUSBAND DID NOT HELP ME AT ALL. He expected all of the "taking care of everything" out of me even though I worked FULL TIME. I asked for help and all he agreed to do was wash HIS OWN CLOTHES. Are you kidding me? All this man ever did was stress me out and make me tired. I'm so pleased and thankful to be rid of him. And I WILL NEVER MARRY AGAIN on this side. NEVER! What is the benefit for the woman? Companionship? You can get that without marriage. The only thing good that came from my marriage are our two beautiful children. That's it.

[isiscastillo]

Ladies stand on your own two feet. Look beautiful for you, and work on your self-esteem. Don't give men the best of your years. Relationship is work. You can be single, happy and hold your ground. Miss Faye is giving us wisdom, so we stop being disrespected.

[ElisaForHealing]

I guess I’m old. Nothing about marriage has appealed to me for a very long time. I am happy and content with my ability to be independent. It takes too much work and there are too many disappointments in trying to established traditional romantic relationships. Best of luck to those still willing to endure the pitfalls of wanting or needing marriage. There are too many other things in life we can do to create our own happiness.

[deerhaven]

"Rejection is devine protection." Gotta' love those words of wisdom. Thank you, Miss Faye.

[vas]

Marriage is work! Commitment and dedication on both sides.

[HappyBeeTV-BeeHappy]

According to a lot of men, a good wife is a man’s slave. She’s his maid, and nanny, and takes care of his sex and support needs, and tolerates his disrespect and abuse. If he want side chics she won’t leave and let him do whatever he want. She obeys him like a child to a parent and always smiles and adores him.

But all that shyt is twisted is mommy care in my opinion. 😂

[bethlewis]

Amen 🙌🙏 Miss Faye the world needs your advice You give the best advice ever !!!
I was a good wife I kept my house spotless had dinner ready each day kept kids clean homework done ✔️ I went the extra mile Miss Faye I gave my first husband a bath for 20 years !!! However Once my kids were growing up I took some classes went back to school then started on my career ❤ now this is when things started going bad !!! I was no longer wanting to wait on my husband hand and foot but he wasn’t having it none of it he wanted me to sit home each day making him everything in my life !!!! Be careful ladies for once you start doing things like giving baths for 20 years they want that to continue Of course slowly it lead to break down of my first marriage ❤ I learned a lot about myself and I’m fine with Jesus hes my world now🙏🙌🙏 Put God first you can’t go wrong ❤️🙏❤️

[mercedesmumbela.]

I tired to be a good wife b4. It's was heavy and taxing and when I realised I was not being appreciated I left and took away all my cooking and cleaning with me!, , , , I was working same job like he was am but am now enjoying being alone. I don't have to cook and clean for anyone but me. My babies all big enough to cook for themselves. All I tell them is mommy is not having supper. And am glad there is no one to ask me why are you not eating and bugging me. Am really enjoying my freedom and I can never trade it for anything or any man, I don't who he is or what he

[jcopela]

Yessss, Miss Faye....you said that right it should be equal...I am trying to get my new Husband to understand this especially since I am the one who is sick, trying to get well, working and cooking...it has been a struggle. We are already in counseling.

[doreenmarston]

My deceased husband treated me so well. I worked for a doctor and my husband took me out to eat did the laundry and put my clothes away. My grief is so heavy for him. I love him so much. I could never find anyone like him. My only hope is I will see him in heaven. I love you Craig. Together forever.

[genxx]

The article, “The Good Wife’s Guide”, is from 1955. Yes, the wives stayed home and the husbands worked and supported the family.

[terried.briggs]

Yes, we come in together and we sit down together and rest a minute together, then we get up and cook together! It's Equal!

[williesmith]

You are so, so right!!! If, I had married the narcissist person I dated. I would have probably been in jail or dead. He was a terrible person. His rejection was God’s divine protection for me.

[Curlyblonde]

The young woman who read the Rules of What A Good Wife Does For Her Husband is reading a book that was written in the 1950s/ early 1960s. That time period coincided with heavy Valium, amphetamine usage, eating disorders and high rates of alcoholism amongst housewives in order to endure and maintain the facade of The Ideal Wife in a Happy Marriage who was submissive to her husband and denied her own needs, identity and opinions. TV shows, Women's magazines and Advice Books, Movies, Newspapers, Religious Training & Premarital Courses, along with our parents and teachers, all promoted and indoctrinated us to this male dominated ideal. However once the divorces became easier to obtain and lost much of the social stigma, along with more equitable settlements, that opened the floodgates for women to escape a miserable marriage. But looking around, these type of marriages are still out there.

[brendacrawford]

AMEN!!! My man is expectin me to be the “helpmeet “ by working

[tamichristine]

That man ain't living with his parents. He's married. Men run that game whenever they are hiding shit. Girl! He's 42.

[normahamilton]

Ms Faye:
You are always on point. I hope teenagers are listening. Not all mothers teach the kids these lessons before they become adults. Some would not make the mistakes they make in life. I wish I had this advice as a teenager.💕💕💕👏👏

[avrilskeete]

This is some straight up good advice Miss Faye. Thank you.

[debraromero]

Took me 52 yrs to figure it out, ..but when I did, it looked exactly like this.

[scorpiored]

Thank you for your guidance Ms.Faye! God bless you 🙏 ❤️ 🙌