297: ONE CHANGE That *FINALLY* Impacted My Unbelieving Husband // Dealing With An Unyoked Marriage

🇮🇱 HOW CAN YOU HELP SUPPORT ISRAELI CHRISTIANS?
Let's ABSOLUTELY be covering the people in Israel with prayer- but let's all support them by SHOPPING ISRAELI and sending them our business & support as they work through this atrocious event.
Shop handcrafted Israeli goods in these beautiful boxes- and support families in Israel with your business! 🙏🏼

Use code HMH20 for 20% off

Let's be there in thought & deed as we throw all our support and show the evil of this world that we will stand with Israel despite Satan's best efforts to destroy!
Brothers & Sisters in Christ at Artza Box- friends, we are all praying alongside of you! May the Lord be glorified and many come to a saving faith of Messiah Jesus through this evil. 🙏🏼📖🇮🇱

✨ SHOW NOTES:

Grow gorgeous nails- I LOVE this stuff! Use my code for 25% Off! HMH25

🌻 Follow our Flower Farming journey! @LilacVineOrchards

👩🏻‍💻 Helpful Links:

📺 Helpful Chapters:
0:00

♥ Is there something our family can lift up in prayer for you? Let us know!

Glory to God for all! 🙌

[threepeasoup]

I used to feel like my husband and I were "unequally yoked". In other words, I felt spiritually superior to him. I wanted him to lead, but I had no concept of submission. I felt like he had to be good enough first, then I would be willing to submit. As it turns out, most of what I thought I knew about scripture was wrong. I grew up in an unbiblical church. God opened my eyes to all of that and over the last few years, we've been studying the Bible and growing together in our God-given roles.

[valleyolillies]

Yep! I can relate. When Christ took ahold of me and I started reading my Bible my husband told me this was going to be the end of our relationship. And after a few years he became a follower of Christ. And now 8 years later we both live everyday for the Lord. Greatest blessing ever. Raising our 3 boys to love Jesus! Thank you

[francineshrewsbury]

Can I ask all of you sisters in Christ, please pray for my husband (BB). The doc gave him a few weeks left, stage 4 cancer. He needs Jesus. I have gone thru from A-Z just as the wonderful woman talks about in the video. Had small breakthrough last month, back to rejection. I can't fathom him dieing in his sins! This is in God's hands. Need prayer warriors. A soul hangs in the balance. 🙏🙏🙏

[carolinalarsson]

We´ve had a life changing few months and a lot of tough things happening and in the middle of all this chaos my husband got saved! It´s a miracle. He started reading the bible without my knowledge and came to me and asked me to teach him to pray. I was chocked to say the least. Now we are finally on the same page and we can share our faith and that is the best feeling ever. Thank you Jesus!

[wendysimplifiedinchrist]

This is 💯 on point! After giving my heart to Christ I went through something very similar as my husband became so angry that I was changing so much as I grew in Christ. I started standing my ground in love and refusing to participate in ungodly things and I started to show him even more love when he would say mean awful things. As I set a Christ like example in my home and turned to prayer and studying Gods word and meditating on it day and night I started to see a big change in my marriage. God is truly faithful and tho my husband isn’t serving Christ yet he is very very close and even went to church with me to see me get baptized and now respects my prayer time as I kneel every night at my bedside and my husband has even now started asking questions about the Bible and I finally had an opportunity to open my Bible and show him how to read it ( he didn’t know what the books and chapters and verses worked in reading it. He’s brand new to this and I can see The Holy Spirit directing him and softening his heart). I don’t do anything except let Gods light shine brightly from within me and pray diligently for both my husband and my daughters salvation. Both of whom are showing signs of God working in their hearts. God is so Good!✝️🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

[michellepatino]

I literally have to pause just to sob. Finally. Finally. Someone who has walked through this and gets it. I’ve only been married a year (together for 5) and he’s in his “rebellion”. He didn’t grow up in the church and neither did I but now more than ever he is resisting anything Jesus related. This spoke so clearly to my spirit and I feel such comfort. Letting go is so freeing. Thank you for sharing your testimony, God really did speak through you to me. Please pray for me to go back to my first love Jesus and keep my eyes on Him no matter how hard it gets. Pray for him and his family to experience the One who changes everyone He touches. Thank you 🤍

[JMO]

can someone please pray for me and my wife, she is not a believer. She is so caught up in the world of man and is blinded by the evil on earth. Pray for me to have patience and show her without words the testament of Jesus Christ.

[UntotheLord]

My story is similar. Once I took my hands off of it and realized it’s not my job to be his Holy Spirit and trusted God to get to His son. I focused on my relationship with the Lord and my husband is coming around. Slowly but surely.

[p.ram]

Im slowly learning how to be Biblical wife and my husband and I have never been happier. He is growing into his leader role so well. He still doesnt come with me to church even though I go every Sunday. He recently told me that with everything going on in the political climate and seeing how insane everyone has gotten, he is starting to believe that the Bible is true and Christianity is the worlds truest religion. Hes coming around, all I can do is pray and let the Lord shine through me without words.

[fergiefergie]

I have been married to an angry unsaved man now for 33 years. I have been saved for 37 years. As a typical woman I married him thinking “I can change him”. I have paid the price for over 3 decades now. Not going to lie, it been horrible. I would never ever do it over again. My 3 adult children are my saving grace. Only one has been born again. They were raised in church but two want nothing to do with God. All 3 children think I am crazy for staying in the marriage. All their friends parents (including “Christian’s “) are divorced. They always tell me “just leave him mom”. I am not a hero to them 🤷‍♀️. I have tried everything but finally handed him over to God about 15 years ago. He is Gods problem. I pray for his salvation, even though I am so weary and discouraged. I don’t even feel like it at this point but, I do. I have come to the realization that not every person will be saved. Yea okay, Gods got this but don’t lead people on with that catch phrase allowing them to think it going to happen. It may happen on his death bed but as of now it’s been 35 years of hardship for me. I’m not sugarcoating this. My husband is getting worse, as time is getting crazier, my husband is getting more and more agitated and angry. I have watched his whole face/countenance change over the years. He is not physically harming me but he mentally and verbally abused me. I’m not looking for sympathy, I made a terrible decision 33 years ago, I am definitely paying the price. I am such a joyful and thankful person and I love to help people and animals in need. I do it outside of the perimeters of my marriage. That’s my story, don’t give people false hope. Do not marry someone who is not saved!! Don’t do it!! You will regret it 😢

[christynolie]

Please lift up my husband, Dennis!!! Thank you❤

[Faunaflys]

I have never clicked on a video so fast! I have been struggling with a VERY unbelieving husband and have been looking for help! Thank you thank you thank you SO much for making a video on this. I now have this along side my prayers ❤

[sunnyskyacres]

Everything you describe is my marriage. He professes to be a Christian, but no fruit. 15 yrs of trying different things, ways, prayers and to be honest, it just keeps getting worse. Now the main arguments are about him wanting the kids and I to partake in things that are not godly, that are very worldly (sometimes demonic). We say “no thank you” and he gets very angry. I’ve just been trying to keep the peace when he is home; sometimes it goes well, sometimes it doesn’t. It’s very exhausting. I’ve been praying for so long for a change in my husband’s heart, for him to submit to the Lord and follow Christ with his whole heart. I won’t give up praying for him. God is good, no matter my circumstances. He is faithful and always provides my needs. Prayers from any of the ladies here would be most appreciated! Thank you for this video! Helps me to know I’m not alone. ❤️ God bless

[jennifermcleod]

Love your testimony. Never stop praying! I prayed for over 2 decades for my husband to be serious about his walk with the Lord. ❤

[mackbronson]

I've been a believer in Jesus Christ since 1986. Everyone has their own spiritual journey that they are on. My wife of 28 years left me and my children after using the "I don't see any real spiritual fruit in your life..." argument to allege that I wasn't in fact a true follower of Christ and she believed she had to leave in order to not be unequally yoked. At the time my grown children even took her side. 16 months later and she's an "out and proud" lesbian who dates women. But it's too late. My life and all that I worked to establish as a family is destroyed. Be very careful about how you "observe" spiritual fruit in other people's lives. You don't know as much as you think you do when you judge a person using that spiritual fruit metric.

[annengfer]

I’m asking for Prayers for our marriage. My husband has turned back to drinking and has been more abusive the last 5 years. I’m still Praying for him but no longer living with him. We have been separated for over a year now. I’m Sad but still believing. I’m working on my relationship with God. Thank you for sharing your story and Encouragement. Please keep Us in your Prayers!!!😢🙏🙏🙏

[celophi]

Why is it that there are so many believing wives with unbelieving husbands, but I rarely find anyone with the reverse? I pray and hope that my wife can love Jesus one day. It's so hard to not give up hope.

[Itwasme]

This is my life. 24 years we’ve been together and he has now been diagnosed with dementia. The dementia has softened his anger. He still has really bad days where his words hurt so deeply but not as many of those days.
I just stopped trying and gave it to God. I have to focus on my relationship with God and leave all else at His feet.

[johnny_S]

I am a young pastor and I came across your testimony and I thank God I did. You are a living example of 1 Peter 3:1-2. I needed a real life testimony to be able to share with my sisters in Christ who are in this exact position. Thank you for sharing it so passionately. May God continue to bless your marriage and family.

[childnumberone]

I'm tired of the wait. He's on auto pilot. Could care less if we go to church or not. Only cares about his fleshly desires. I feel single, spiritually. The only time he prayed daily, on his knees was when i wanted a divorce. I was literally checked out. God opened my eyes and brought me out of my hopeless mindset. Now, all i can think is why does it take a tramatic event for him to seek the Lord. I NEED a leader. I fear what God may allow to get his attention again. Not a divorse but what about a health concern . Pray for my husband and for me. He knows better than he's doing.