How to Ask a Girl Out | Dating Tips

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If you're going to ask a girl out, it's pretty simple. Like you just have to ask the question. You have to get the number, maybe you watched the other video and you make the plans. You know, it's all about the guy making the initiative and being, you know, the initiator and being a little a little aggressive and figuring out where you want to take her and, you know, kind of putting the plan together.

It's really not that hard, you know. Once you get a little interest from her and spark her curiosity. So literally it's just coming right out and asking the question about, you know, taking her out to eat, or going to see a movie, or a show, or whatever else, you know, you guys are interested in.

If you're going to do it in person or on the phone, you know, they both end up in person. So you know, if you get the number first and then you go home and give her a call to see if, you know, she wants to grab a bite to eat, that's just as fine as, you know, asking her when you're in person, you know, the time before if you want to grab a bite to eat the next day or whatever. So as long as you are making a plan and, you know, sparking her curiosity you're going to get a yes.

There's no right or wrong way to say it. You don't have to phrase it, you know, it's what you're comfortable with. You know, as long as it comes out of your mouth sounding normal it's going to sound normal to her. So if you normally say you know, "Come on baby, let's go grab a drink." You know. If she's not completely creeped out by that she'll probably say yes.

You can over think things. I mean, I think that's what men and women both do when they're in, you know, a dating or flirting situation. Everybody tends to get inside their heads. And the thing of it is like we are both very simple creatures. We want very simple things and it's all about kind of just tuning into what the other sex wants and that is just connect with somebody.

So if you're interested and you think she's interested just ask her out, you know. Even if you're just vague about it, you know, "Let's go out sometime." Get her feedback and then plan a date, that's fine too. If she says no it's her loss.

[AceHalford]

Watching howcast is the greatest, why? Because they are serious in what they talk about and it's the greatest comedy for me.

[gloriqdi]

i actualy learn some neat stuff from howcast ! so thank you ^^

[nys]

"if she says no it's her lost" ....i know !!

[ONESHOTE]

if she says no reconstruct her will never say no again hahaha

[DemureWolf]

@413JAM It's not that we're hating... it's just that she says "you know" about 15 times in the video. The point of this video is to show us what to expect, so "you know" doesn't even apply to this.

[CHEVYbarracuda]

She asked me to see a movie.. I was like Nah cant do it right now.

[xAMxGuerilla]

@RyanJunkie Its a new drinking game, everytime she says you know, you drink ;)

[KarrieDreammind]

@daniel9975516286 well if you don't wanna do anything, don't. :P No one blames you. But then don't complain about being alone either. The point is that if YOU like a girl and want to ask her out, YOU do it, don't expect her to do it. If a girl likes you then SHE'll do what she has to to ask you out. That also happens.

[okonhwp]

i liked howcast better when they acted things out

[LoveIsSoOverrated]

howcast just wants to meet the 10, 000 mark

[dananddananddan]

11 You Know's. Wow some someone needs a teleprompter.

[MarkkTheSharkk]

If she says no its her loss? I disagree...

[SaharTurquoise]

drinking game: every time she sais you know!!!

[GDTV]

@RyanJunkie

Thats so true. Great comment. I lol'd.

[spazticwatermelon]

why doesn't howcast just combine all of these into one video?

[KarrieDreammind]

@tweeetme Then you should be more straightforward and show more interest in her body/looks than her personality. She should get the hint and respond if she's on to the same. :)

[thediversityman]

aaand you know
...you know
and you know
if i knew i wouldn't be watching tis
thats what i know

[dashduhad]

Initiator? So it's like playing sand king?

[RedTearS]

stop saying you know !! it is annoying ..

[castlezfinest]

can i ask her out to the kitchen so she can cook for us