🏳️‍🌈 how to come out (best tips & tricks)

how to come out to your parents
#comingout #parents #gay

[RJO]

Let me add a 6th way. Email them a link to your video. :D

[flute]

I have attempted to come out 2 separate times. The first time was when I was 10 and I basically told my mom that I was both “100% straight and 100% gay like how Jesus is both 100% man and God” but my mom basically laughed in my face and told me that I was straight. The second time was when I was 14 and one of my brothers outed me to my mom as bi before I really got the chance to prepare what I was going to say. Since it happened like that, it was a disaster ending with my mom and brother telling me that I was just confused and hypnotized. That interaction in particular messed me up for years and tbh, I’m still not fully over it. I am doing better now and am working on a plan to move out and be fully out by the end of the year (my New Year’s resolution) wish me luck and thank you Chris for helping me give more confidence to be myself since I found your channel.

[jm]

Chris, you are moving from twink cute to grown man handsome and I like it. You never looked better.

[Imthatguykayden]

I think I’ve been dropping subtle hints since birth 💀💀(good luck to all who are coming out you’ve got this!💙💙💙)

[ArtsyBananaSplit]

My mom knows I’m bi, my brother knows, two of my exes know, but i think im trans and this is really helping me

[Lxuiicas]

I hate how us gay/LGBT people have to come out and be nervous or hide from our family/friends.

Being gay or liking the same gender should be normalized by now.

Straight people don't have to come out cause it is already modernized, and being Gay has been around for years, It didn't just pop up and became a trend out of the blue.

Society needs to change this STAT.

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[bloodywerewolf]

1. Good advice.
2. AMAZING Heartstopper shirt

EDIT: since I saw the shirt i went and put almost all the Heartstopper official merch onto My wishlist 🏳️‍🌈

[DaeganWalsh]

The best thing you can do (if you’re scared) is wait until you have a boyfriend that you think is great enough to bring home. Let your family know “this is my boyfriend” or “by the way, I have a boyfriend”. Somehow it was easier for me to say that I have a boyfriend rather then saying “I’m gay/bi/pan/lesbian/etc”

[bradb]

Very helpful information, thanks. But, the Heartstopper sweatshirt would be your 6th suggestion. 😅😂❤

Just love for you and Bret!

[Gabriel_Strelow]

When I came out to my mom, she cried a lot, but she accepted me because she loves me; we talked, and she told me she cried because of how my life is going to be harder because of me being gay, how I could suffer from a hate crime for example and be murdered. Our parents usually just want what's best for us, so we need to be empathetic with them in situations like that, because they just don't want us to suffer. I love my mom, and she loves me too ❤️

[TheBeebee]

Good advice, especially the backup friend or family members! There's strength in numbers ❤

[svn]

I’m Soo grateful that you dropped this vid today: ON MY BIRTHDAY! Because I’m bi and don’t really know how to come out to my parents. I’m 15 so it’s hard for me to come out. ❤

[BenIThink]

My subtle hints are the most subtle things ever💀 my dumbass thing my parents will catch on

[Jeonginismymannotyours]

Did you use heartstoper as an example 😂 bro I saw that- the part where nick came out to his mother and they hugged 😂❤

[Hannah-LeeHart]

Its actually really scary because how do i just say “Oh dad my pansexual and like all genders no matter what, but things will just be awkward.

[RioBahiaWilliams]

I have 3 adult sons (31, 28, 21) and a grandson. We've always told them that under no uncertain terms should they ever question our love, loyalty, acceptance, or friendship. Love is 100% unconditional so if they are gay, straight, trans, whatever, not an issue. Currently none have come out, we have no expectations of any particular preference, so if they come out late, or never do because they need not, that's perfectly fine. 💜💜💜

[wellschr]

#6 Your Mom asks you if you are gay. Stealing the dramatic moment away from you. 😅

[Gemini-vw]

I came out before my 41 st birthday by writing I am gay on a pink cake

[mossion]

Often, at least one of the parents "know" or "suspect"
And also, often, there is a family member already gay.
But i agree with you on the suggestions

[pasdpasse]

Number 0: make sure you're financially independent and preferably to live in a first world country that is generally more accepting. I failed miserably this rule