I LOVE TWO GUYS AT THE SAME TIME? | Dear Yessica

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[DianaPerez-nlpr]

Johnny depp said if you are in a love triangle choose the second person becuz if you really loved to first person you wouldn't have fell in love with another person.

[chrisschwarzer-kater]

So great to hear that it is not only me. This is hard. And there is so much guilt. Because I never thought I could fall in love with anybody else while being in a committed relationship. It is against all my values and what I believed in. It makes me feel like a really bad person. Somebody I don‘t want to be. But at the same time I cannot but have those feelings... I just haven‘t quite found out yet how to deal with it or what to do quite yet...
I am also just so sad that this has happened because I never wanted to make anybody sad. I hate that. I hate that I am the reason for the people who mean most to me being sad.

[tamiacousins]

I’m in a love triangle rn I feel disgusted cause while my boyfriend was gone for so long I lost a little feelings for him but then I met a guy that really opened up to me and I felt touched I love my boyfriend but I love the guy I met at the same time but today rn RN their is a bad conflict happening he is calling my phone and I’m not answering cause I don’t know my answer or if I want to be with who or which one I don’t even know if I’m gonna make the right decision if I leave him for that guy then he will be sad and the other way around too

[Hi-ppmw]

The title is known as *I have a HUGE crush on someone but I'm being careful so if he doesn't like me I have my other HUGE backup crush*

[zhy]

Hi, I am currently dealing with this and it did stressed me out who to choose...

Guy 1: with him for more than a year now . We always have a great adventure and we both love to travel, He is a Musician and real estate owner . We planned together that he will help me out to build my career and we'll live in a different country. He really treats me like a partner

Guy 2 : Met him for more than 3 months now . CEO and Professor. He is very supportive and very understanding. We both love art and nature. .. He wants me to stay in the country by getting employed, he is already offering me assets to work on . He treats me like a princess

They both work alot - long and unpredictable schedules, and they are both caring, sweet and sophisticated. The worst of all in making a decision on this is what lacks the other is what the other has. 😔🤦 Oh god. Plss help . Maybe you have an advice or opinion that could help me out.

[username-eoqc]

you are like a young aunt who gives advice to me 🤣💜

[fredflagstone]

I always had a plan in place if a girlfriend ever told me she was torn between me and another guy. I would be glad to make the decision for her and leave the relationship.

[brooklynkerr]

when you and somebody else rlly rlly like each other. but then another guy talks to you who also likes you and you think he’s cute but you like the other a little bit better. and then you tell the 2nd boy accidentally that you wouldn’t mind dating him but you rlly rlly like the first boy but you don’t wanna make the 2nd sad and the 2nd boy starts sending you hearts when you accidentally tell him and now you don’t know what to do... currently my situation

[roser]

I love two guys at the same time because they both best friends. They both also like me. We all met in gym.

[jellcie]

The more I think about it the more I realize that I do deeply love the 2nd boy and I feel like we get along so much better, but I just am not ready to be with someone who caused me a lot of heart ache and I feel like being in a more stable relationship for now, so I’m sticking with 1st boy.

[vitoriasheptor]

My boyfriend from 3 years was deployed for 1 year. I never did anything to compromise our relationship. But 3 months before he came back I met this new person that treated me special, and loved like I never felt before. I love this new guy, he makes me feel excited, and pretty and young. But my boyfriend gives me all the rest, the support, and respect and our emotional connection is amazing, just not our physical.
I struggle to get physically attracted to him while I don’t with the new guy.
I love two people, should I pick the guy that has always been there for me or the new guy that gives me a new excitement.
This has been going on for 3 months and is killing me inside. My brain, my family, my friends tell me to pick my boyfriend because he will always take care of me... but my heart says to pick the new guy.
I am so lost. Plz help

[haruka]

"It's okay to love them both. I did"
- Katherine Pierce

[its.immy.marie]

I have a question for you to do “ two boys love me and I don’t know what to do because they are both my best friends what do I do “

[madhurima]

She didn't "hey Yesica" this time. She said it correctly.

[strawburrykisses]

I have a gf but then I like a boy and this has happened with literally everyone I like and I think I have contentment issues😔

[vibhajoshi]

1st guy and my boyfriend- He is of different religion but that doesn't matter in love ig. He proposed me recently even after I broke his trust and I accepted it. He was my best friend before that. He really has suffered a lot from his previous relationships and I don't wanna give him the same 😩 instead I want to heal him. He has a lot of friends and if I go I'll loose them all as well . He said that if I need support he and his friends are always there. He can't tell his family about me due to religious differences. I'll loose my image and friends if I lost him, I'll loose his pure love, as I accepted his proposal recently 2 months ago..even if I tell him he'll ask me that why did I started if I liked someone else, he'll get hurt and I'll have no answer🤷🏻‍♀️


2nd guy- He's of the same religion like mine and it's possible to have a future together. He said I'm standing with you in this critical situation. He sung a lullaby for me once and always gives me advice. But he said if my boyfriend is with me, he'll block me because he can't talk to me if I can't be his girlfriend or life partner. He's ready to marry me he's told his family about me.



OH LORRRDDD WHAT TO DOOOO🥺😩

[alyssa-annedwards]

so i have a boyfriend who I have been with for 8 months and i also have a friend who is in a same friend group that i am in. Before i started dating my boyfriend, i was asked out by my friend to go to homecoming but i said no. it was later when i noticed a spark between me and that friend and i am starting to lose feelings for my boyfriend due to some reasons. Even my best friend who introduced me to that friend claimed she saw a spark between me and that friend, heck that friend gave me a JROTC necklace that was special to him (and i wear it everyday). Help. My boyfriend and i had some amazing adventures and created memories together. I am any advice or help?

[adykey]

Well I’ve been waiting 2years to make the decision

[mateisitbalsamic]

Here’s my pros and cons list:

My boyfriend of almost a year:
Pros:
- I’m comfortable
- When we’re happy, it’s really nice
- I love him
Cons:
- We fight almost all the time
- The new guy I love
- He’s really clingy

Boy who’ve I’ve started to talk to more this school year and that I really love:
Pros:
- It’s exciting
- We have a lot in common
- He’s amazing: cute, smart, nice
Cons:
- My boyfriend
- A friend who’s also crushing on him
- I don’t know if he feels that same about me

What do you guys think?

Edit: it’s been over two months now, and me and my boyfriend did end up breaking up. i wish i could say we’re still friends but he’s not ready yet and that’s ok. nothing ever happened with person 2, and i’m enjoying my single life.

[vanessagrillitsch]

why am I even here, I don’t even have a boyfriend nor a crush and never will😂