Is It Possible To Love Two People At The Same Time? | Paul Friedman

Can you really love two people at the same time? Do you think it is possible? Watch Paul explain why it's possible and you'll learn more in this video that you probably don't know before.

I'm going to try and help you answer this. Now, chances are you're a woman. Ironically, many people would think this is the kind of question a man would ask but it's not. It's usually a question that women ask and I'm going to try to help you understand this. First of all, let's put aside sex for a moment. Let's put aside emotions for a moment and let's talk about what you are and I hope this isn't too lofty for you.

I hope this resonates with you but I want to give you information that is realistic. You're a soul, you're a soul. You've heard the term soulmates. You may even be now thinking, "Oh well, I found my soulmate, unfortunately, I'm not already married to my husband but I love him too. What do I do? Can I love two people at the same time? Is it wrong?"

That's the big question, is it wrong?

You're a soul so put aside let's take a trip down the "twilight zone" if you want. Let's go into a more spiritual discussion and understand that as a soul, you have a body. You came into
this body to live out the experiences of the material world. You were a soul before you were born in this body, you'll be a soul afterwards. You will still be you. In today's world and you could Google past life experiences more and more acceptance about this idea of reincarnation.

Some religions say, "Oh, there's no such thing as reincarnation," even though it's already built into their scripture but they don't want to talk about it because they want you to prove yourself to God now and the idea of reincarnation is also an idea of another chance so
it's kind of religious political condemnation of the idea of reincarnation but it's not scientific. Let's imagine that there's reincarnation, you're a soul. You don't remember your past lives. Some people do -- it's true. Some people have gone to the extent of describing events, places that have proven that they were incarnated before as someone else. You also have a mind. You're not your mind, you're a soul.

You have a mind and you have a body but you've been around many times. Now, we
know from different scriptures that all of the Saints who have spoken about reincarnation have spoken about it in terms that describe not hundreds or scores or even thousands but millions of incarnations, a longer journey. And we've also heard from various Saints that we
tend to travel in herds. We meet up with the same people over and over. Now Buddha said, "I love all" because you were my father, you were my mother, my sister, my brother, my aunt,
uncle, my son, my daughter and so on.

Let's not confuse this with incarnation as an animal -- that's not how it works. As a human being, you stay a human being and all your incarnations but you have many of them, many of them and we have known other people in our past lives and sometimes we can tell we bump into someone and we go, "Don't I know you?" No chance of knowing them in this incarnation but you can remember in certain scriptures they call that -- let's just call it a long-term memory. It's buried, we don't have access to it. No surprise, we know we use less than 10% of our minds but we know them.

Some people we hate immediately we bump into them in there like, whoa, other people were attracted to. Guess what? We may have loved that person with all our heart, mind and soul in the past and now they pop up again after we're married and we're going, "What do I do?" Because that's all that's happening. Well, what you do is you continue to love them but
you don't have to love them as a lover. You can love them as a friend because if you had a really great relationship with them they were your friends. But in God's wisdom, he has set it up so that we could learn to love as God does love.

Who does God not love?

God loves us all and this is our evolution as human beings. We are learning to love all as God loves. Lord teach me to love as now thus love. He does. We don't say, "God teach me to have sex with everyone I come across who I have loved in the past." There'd be lines
forever because you've loved so many times. You have so many friends and you have so
many enemies so now you're tested. You've bumped into somebody for whom you feel
that connection, that draw, that magnetism and they even may still be perfect for you in many ways. It's a test because we have free will. We have volition. Free will is the ability to do what we want.

Watch the video for more.

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[moratallaanj]

I was in tears while watching this. I dunno but something might have brought me here. And surprisingly, this video with every word you said seems to be something that I never thought I needed to hear tonight. I'm not going into deeper details but yes, this video is exactly what I needed to watch and I feel like my questions that's been confusing and bothering me for the past few years have finally been answered. Thank you so much for this.

[PassionJo]

It is wasn’t sex for me it was TRUE TRUE LOVE-
I met a man in Vegas while travelling while married to my hubby

[JernejaK]

Dear @Paul,
OMG... I was trying to get an answer to this questions for soooo long. And I know it is YES.
But the explanation you gave me, a modern christian woman, in this video is not only priceless but "my inner peace saver".
I was thinking I am broken. I just couldn't stay in one relationship, eventhough I loved the man I was with. So many times because a certain man passed by.
Make no mistakes - man could dance in front of me or telling me they're unloved with me - but I wouldn't twitch my eye. But then I bumped into someone ... "Don't I know you?" I recognized them and I just wanted to be with them. Still - I loved my current partner. But I thought I don't. So I left. And still - I love all of my ex boyfriends - the same. I was almost ready to think I am not normal.
Now I know, I am. And even more (I really did not expect this (and this is my "inner peace savier")) - I know now, hoe to handle it and how to choose.
Thank you from my heart!

[JamiandCamille]

I am very emotional from this. Thank you for your words. This helped me incredibly.

[suzied]

What if you arent married but have a boyfriend and ran into an old flame lol

[kay]

Thank you for creating such a valuable video . This content spiritually resonates with me 100 %

Past life loves surely will reapear in a present incarnation.. why wouldnt they, when over previous lives we have shared a bond of trust and ofcourse love. However it is important to recognise our purpose in this life and follow our heart message, which is to devote our heart and emotions to the one who we know is a huge part of our present purpose ❤️
We can love two men .. the love will be in different ways & this where confusion, will naturally separate from fact.

Though I find it interesting how you opened the video by stating a Man would not be seeking the answers to this question that a woman would.

Ive subscribed to your channel. Maybe the answer to why a man wont be experiencing a similar conflict is in here somewhere .
Thanks once again

[suzied]

Yeah my old first love got ahold of me after 20 years. I'm currently happy and believe he's my soulmate but them old feelings came back omg. Hes not hitting on me or anything just making closure and apologizing and told me he thought about me all these years. Idk