The HIDDEN Wound Destroying Your Love Life

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[roccocarlino]

I solved all my relationship problems in my mid 40's when I decided to follow celibacy, and amazingly everything just fell into place. My life as a middle aged man blossomed, I didn't realise just how emotionally draining it was trying to please others, but mostly my own desires! Truly, if you conquer lust, attachment and dependency, life is much more rewarding and you feel a sense of self-sovereignty.

[rosalee]

Dr Tara Swart -Neuroscientist, Oxford graduate. Psychiatrist and lecturer at MIT I believe.

[lisesin]

I blocked out negative things that happened to me as a child, and it interfered with my adult relationships until it got so bad, memories came back in flashbacks. Still working on healing the wounds and focussing on my purpose in life to bring me purpose. Love happens when we are living freely, happily, which attracts positive people.

[selinsu]

Neuroscience convinced me, no hookups

[tnmaxim]

Love listening to Dr. Tara! She has such a soothing voice and charming personality 😍

[Sezfluffy]

Inner child work is really hard. Especially abandonment .

[julieaskingforafriend]

I married a man whose mother was as crazy as my own. I was extremely immature at the time, having had no guidance on how to become a functioning adult. I figured it out on my own, and I finally started to grow. The problem was, he didn't, and he resented me for it, becoming abusive to try and hold me back. I escaped, my family and my marriage, and while I'm not whole yet, I'm working on it daily. Self-awareness is a huge part of growing into who you should have been to begin with.

[Artbynbru]

I don’t think I’ve seen Lewis laugh this much. They have great chemistry.

[tyska]

Please put her name in the title! Or at least in description (not enough;)). To good to not be known❤

[EdelweisSusie]

This woman needs to write a book with all this info in. I’d need at least 40 copies for my friends alone!!!

[ellebelle]

Why is this woman’s name not shared in the description? She’s brilliant 👏

[TwentysMedia]

You both are bantering like two young teenagers. Sooo cute

[jasonmiradoli]

When Lewis asks, and I'm paraphrasing, "if the man isn't driven by testosterone when she's ovulating, could that hurt the relationship because she isn't getting what she wants?" I wonder. Why not ask, "so, since the bad boy isn't what she wants the other 3 weeks of the month, does that hurt the relationship because that's not what she wants?" The stress on sex and bad boy for the short time she's ovulating, and the endless relationships that were created based on the heat of that time of the month, amazes me. I wouldn't partner with a lover, friend, or job that was great for me 1 week per month, but lacking the other 3. Makes no sense.

[mariamb]

Your chemistry in this video is so great ❤️ thoroughly enjoyed the laughs

[bvirginia]

The law of attraction described through biology. Fascinating

[hellodolly]

My idea of love is a friend that can actually be trusted. Not a xes interest.

[SimplyChic]

It’s wounded from lack of unconditional love and it’s been proved each relationship

[JonathonAslay]

There's an interesting contrast. On the one hand, wounds dictate our love life but chemistry (hormones) also effects our ability to bond.

[stephensegal]

Just like anything else you have to take in the good and kick the bad aside. Some of this is great, and some not so much.

[dawnfz]

Love the BSA C15! A gorgeous beastie that deserves to over winter indoors. And who wouldn’t want to sit back with a cuppa or glass of something, admiring this beautiful piece of technology ❤❤