MOM Responds To CHILDFREE LIFE!

Would it make a difference to you if someone told you that parenting is “not that bad”?? 🤔🤔🤔

#childfree #childfreebychoice #childfreeforlife

[trevagraham]

I dont want to do anything that is "not that bad".

[raichutoyou]

"Not that bad?!!" That's the best you got? Its fuckin great being childfree!

[Sincerely_SweetAesthete]

Imagine sacrificing all your time, money and energy into a lifelong experience that “isnt that bad” 😂

[mariedinkler]

If you don't want children, don't have children.. Don't question it. ALL children should be wanted and cherished.

[idontarguewithpeasants]

I don’t understand, childfree women don’t go into “Mom spaces” and tell them being childfree is not that bad or that they should not have had children. Why do they feel the need to invade ours and tell us otherwise?

[brizy___]

Women with children who try to make child-free women think that they are missing out on something are odd to me 😅 Ma’am, we all have choices. When I found out I was pregnant, I chose to have my daughter. I also chose to get on birth control and stay on birth control and make men use condoms and here we are 13 years later. Still 1 child. 😂 The key word is CHOICE(S). 😅

[noracola]

I'd rather regret not having kids than regret having them 🤷🏽‍♀️
When you grow up feeling like an unwelcome guest, you never want to take the chance that you might make someone else feel the same way.

[Rue]

HAVE NEVER REGRETTED NOT HAVING CHILDREN IN IM 50 😂

[thundergato]

I'm a 38 male, and kids are not for me. I love my freedom, sanity, and money.

[bcfortenberry]

Never regretted not having kids. The world’s on fire. Why throw them into without their consent?

[Katrn]

Each woman should do what she feels in her heart to do. I wanted nothing more than to be a mom. When I finally had my only child at age 42, after decades of trying and hoping, it was even more wonderful than I imagined! My son is 25 now, and the joy of my life. My good friend, on the other hand, never wanted kids, fought hard to get her tubes tied, and has no regrets today. Two women, two different outlooks, neither one bad. Simple really.

[wduprevil]

That hair is so luxurious. It's giving me life.

[JoshMcSwain]

Not that bad... such a ringing endorsement there

[Lastdayone]

Lol girl they’re trynna gaslight us into their misery… “not that bad” 🥴

[confectorium]

I have a mother who didn't want any and she let all that anger out on me and my twin brother. I knew others who grew up in similar situations and then I realized parenthood isn't for everyone. It is OK to be child free especially when they aren't wanted in the first place.

[lovingmeafterwe]

So many are secretly and undeniably unhappy in motherhood but they never admit it. So they hear this and think “oh it’s not that bad” when if they could turn back the clock many wouldn’t have had kids. The way our society is set up we trick women into the fantasy that kids are the goal. They get there and realize it’s anything but. I love kids but I love being able to give them back and live my own life.

[nw]

It was not a matter of not wanting, it was not being able to find a suitable father willing to go the distance. No regrets, I still get to be a great auntie

[Hollyberrystreats]

"Just try it. It might not be that bad! Its not like you'll be responsible for a whole other person for possibly the rest of your life or anything!" Great advice!

[itsLIZARD]

Waiting to have the kid to find out if you like it or not doesn’t sound like a wise idea

[amphoteric]

"it's not THAT bad--" so it's a little bad at least?? right?? 😂😂😂 yeah i think i'll pass!