Handsome Men's Game - Women's Expectations of You

[nutshell]

Guys, this is straight up facts. I’m physically attractive but always have been super insecure and needy. I have been dumped 3 times because of this. I get the girl, she finds out im not who she thought she was getting, and done. KNOW WHO YOU ARE.

[KingTotz]

You seem like a very down to earth dude. As a handsome man, you and Josten J are hands down my favorite go-tos for advice on these topics.

[GGLiEx]

can confirm... currently in this weird no mans land. i represent quite a bit. 6 ft, 185lbs lean, fashion on point. well paid etc. not having a lot of experience yet, i can attest to this weird transition. i have had this moment several times where she just went cold as she realised this incongruence between my appearance and experience level. frustrating af. everything he said here is 100% true

[gregoryrobinson]

That so true I just found out my female co worker had a crush on me I heard that I have a physically attractive but my mind don’t match my appearance

[MMKnight_]

I definitively recognize myself in this sadly. I would consider myself more attractive than most guys, but I messed up over text because I was using tons of emojis and waited a week before asking her out because I didnt want to ask her out too early…

[MentalMachine]

Being an attractive man its hard to see people as normal when you understand all this and how they view you because of how i look. And some of these people I've known for years.

[TuneinR]

This is simple but a deep thought that so many are not talking about.

[kailiente]

I've been waiting for a sequel to this series and you did not disappoint.

Lately I've allowed myself to display more emotional behavior, contradictory to what people assume I am at first, being a 6"3, 270LBS athletic guy.

I've always been a shy kid at heart that growing up has learned how to be more warm and outgoing, but often times I meet new people around my age, they verbally say they expected me to be a serious guy, although they had never spoken to me before that moment.

On another level, older and more respectable men have recommended being more reserved at times to go with what people expect of me.

It all makes perfect sense now...

[Kaizen]

Yesss!!! Need more videos from this series!

[jamesmcmccray]

I have said this for years and women have always said I look like a player ans I used to think that was an insult but it was.actually a compliment.. Iva always said that people view me a certain way but im.not that way on the inside, .now I know how my identity needs to be. My inner identity is based off how I look and how others perceive my identity

[MattyLiam]

Wow, I'm kinda blown away. This is some good shit dude! Nice.

[mihaibodrug]

Damn hit hard, it's so easy to attract women and start relationships but trying to have hold these relationships for more than 2 weeks is hard😂😂

[happymood]

Thank you! I would add the inconsistency and the disrespect in trying to make me feel less than them...

[supastar]

To be honest, their expectations are their problems if they can't in basic communication and are prone to projecting shit from their head onto you, they can simply go to hell, they will always be a nuisance to deal with anyway. Just do what you do, talk how you talk and don't try to force people in your life who didn't want to be there in the first place. That said, if you are up for hookups then by all means go ahead

[justjames]

Suffered this problem most if not all my adult life. It's teachings like yours Danny that have helped me come to terms with this huge problem. Thanks man.

[jimh]

In this age of MeToo movements. Sexual harassment, false assault allegations, and stalkers, it pays for smart men to be careful.
Yes, I may miss out on an attractive woman from time to time..
But I get to keep my money, my freedom, and my sanity. 😃

[kdubs]

Mens' expectations build spacex
Women's expectations end up with cats

Choose responsibly

[trucker]

I realized that video such as this one is teaching men : how to deal with mentally broken women.

[zakzwijn]

Can relate. Not that tall - 5.7" but I started getting a lot more attention after I started working out seriously. I also seem to have looks. Currently around 210 lbs with a normal fat percentage. Sadly I'm also mildly autistic, childhood trauma, mild asperger or a mix of these. I need a lot of alone time and my tolerance for stress is low. I want a real emotional connection, but women and their (manufactured) drama drain and stress me out and then I just want to get away from them. So no, I'm afraid 'I dont get it'. Funny thing is, I get along with kids quite well, even the 'difficult' kids.
I also refuse to cohabitate, will never marry and refuse to date single moms.

[brushstroke]

This is pure gold. You're teaching people how to be authentic and real, and that is the most attractive way we can be.