How To Spot A Pathological Liar

How do you spot a pathological liar? You'd be surprise how this could help grow your six figure business. Here are the things to look out for:

1. Overall behavior
2. Story adoption
3. Question Dodging
4. Excessive flirting
5. Eye contact

Watch and Enjoy!
Marianne DeNovellis

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Video by Nate Woodbury

[brianmarley]

Good god. I came here to confirm my suspicions about somebody and she checks off every single box

[jeandixson]

1. Low self esteem. (The patho feels good about lying)
2. Story adaptation ( Ego flaunting)
3. Question dodger ( This is also a form of distracting)
4. Excessive Flirting (distraction)
5. Eye contact (If your looking in eyes you know something is wrong)
She goes on about nothing

[saltlifegull]

Wow, awesome video. Took notes! We live in a society filled with pathological liars and relationships with them can be very costly.

[crimsontorso]

Great video. There's a guy in my college classes who literally lies 24/7. He ticks all the boxes you mentioned in this video.

[teaspillerbitch]

I came hear because I’m a pathological liar, at my school I have a whole different life I lie about everything in the world and it makes me feel like shit I wanna stop but it’s like I’m not controlling myself it’s just like someone asks me a question and my mind automatically makes me lie I need help but can’t ask for it if I do my whole life is over I’m scared and worried for myself as every lie might come crashing down on me I’m in constant fear to tell the truth I like how it feels to fool someone but hate the aftermath what can I do and don’t just reply stop lying, I can’t it’s out of the picture...help?

[AsktheSpirits]

I am in intuitive empath. Our energy changes when you’re lying. Especially if I really know you I get a feel of that energy and I instantly know your lying.

[miathesaint]

I just found out my best friend of 10 years is a pathological liar. She done all of the characteristics you were talking about, and now I feel like I understand the whole topic a better thanks to this video

[aminahlashe]

Dealt with a pathological liar spreading rumors & making up stories about me for months at an old job over a man. It was extremely stressful & idk how anyone else didn’t notice she was lying. Almost everyone believed her

[avinashbharti]

I am not manipulative, but I always lie to get attention, my low self esteem, now all these are hurting me as hell

[Gyembo]

wow i came here and looked in the comments and first thought i was alone with this disorder, this kinda gives me closure bc i feel quite alone, none of my friends or family have this and i feel bad when i do lie but i don’t notice till later thanks for the closure for this everyone 💕💕 and i hope you reach ur goal

[ChrisKadaver]

How? Just live with one for a couple of years. Eventually you will figure it out.

[mozarth]

Do you know, lawyers sometimes have to defend a person knowing that their clients are guilty? Do you know salespeople sometimes have to close a deal knowing that the product they are selling is faulty? Do you know employers sometimes sign contracts with employees promising a raise that's never going to happen? Have you looked them in the eye while all these are happening? Those are happening every day, every moment. We have to firmly shake hands with big smiles on our face, every day.
A good liar believes his story, makes runs, approaches it from different angles and asks questions. When you believe what you are saying, it's no longer a lie. It's just like preaching god, it's a perception change. You can spot a spontaneous, underworked lie, but I highly doubt you could even sense the existence of a well versed one.
I assume a pathological liar is just someone who likes the trivial part of this. it's almost like creating an alternate reality.

[boxpin]

I’m in middle school, and I recently stopped talking to one of my friends because of how much they lie. This makes me feel a little better, because he does almost all of these things

[FlabbyA]

My (now) ex told everyone including police that he'd been hit by a car, my dad took him to ER, he told drs he'd been hit by a car. However, me and other people saw him cause the damage to himself on a wall.
He lied ALL the time about all sorts

[lucyvaughan]

This was interesting and informative, both the presentation and the comments.
It seems there are some people who lie (tell stories) but do not understand why nor do they really like their behavior. You have my sympathy. There are problems at my work with this. One person I consider pathological bullies me because I once called her out on a lie about a work matter. She also lies about stuff like how long her breaks are but she never gets called on to be honest. She is truly manipulative. A couple of others get involved in things like borrowing stories to make them their own. One has a diagnosis of some mental issues, the other had depression. The one with mental issues gets not believed, the other one, also more physically attractive, does not get called out. It is interesting to see the presentation and comments with all of this in mind. Perhaps this is a discussion we need more of in our culture.

[rogerlephoque]

My takeaway from this is "question dodging". I work with someone in hospital administration and have endured years of my colleagues's pathological lying. We communicate daily via email and phone, rarely in face-to-face meetings.. The situation is revealed most starkly when she is required to answer a question with a simple "yes" or "no" answer. The person has never, ever done so, even when the question is simple and basic in form, and sent to her for a written "yes" - "no" answer. Quite typically she will respond to my question with a question of her own, turning the situation on its head! Other, more involved questions are met by tirade of extraneous, unconnected "answers" involving people and threads that have no bearing on the matter.

[Think_Dig_Find]

I dont fully agree. Ive once created a lie that i myself believed so much i forgot it was a lie and accidentally told people about it with all the honesty and all of them believed it.

[LisaMaryification]

When I was about 9 my brother sold my cat. Then, one day he came home and told me someone shot it. I was devestated because my parents promised they'd bring our cat home one day. Soon after, I remember getting a little bird ornament from our Christmas decorations and putting it in a little cage. When my friend came over, I told her I got a new pet...a little bird. She asked why it wasn't moving and I told her it was asleep. Remembering this is really painful. I'm not a pathological liar, but because of this experience I know that intense loss as a child can make someone lie just to avoid the painful truth. That being said, once you're an adult and you're still lying, it's time for therapy because obviously, you are so full of pain and shame that you cannot function in everyday life without hiding behind your lies.

[travishaynes]

They will make sure to make eye contact while they're lying because everyone knows, most learn as children, that someone lying will almost involuntarily look away.

[HeavenlyDivineTaro]

1st 3 points are damn good points many other people didn't point out and have happened to me. Great video!
You are a human lie detector!!
Yes I feel you have to watch them, analyze everything about them and u just see the different habits people use. I said I need to play the cars game bs more again. Loved it growing up. I also feel the villain always tells their plan if you listen
Manipulators are not even in this page I feel like they're too busy out there sumbing down their lives with the lies. I'm so thankful for this video learning is fun for me. And of couese I can't stand a liar I like to spot em and go.