UPDATE Tricked My Ex Into Admitting Her Affair & She Lost Her Mind, Then Burnt Bridges... AITA

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Story 1:
UPDATE: AITAH for tricking my ex into admitting to her affair
Story 2:
My best friend is dating my abuser and wants me to reconcile with him so I kicked her out of my home.

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[GCRedditStories]

Story 1: UPDATES 4:03 7:44
Story 2: 10:34

[justaboringvegetarian]

2: I would lay everything out in one final message: "You are dead to me. Do not call when he abuses you."
And block. Since she knows where OP lives, it's best that she moves and doesn't tell anyone where.

[ComaLies]

Story 2: so called bestfriend is going to contact Op in a few months/years when her ex starts to mistreat her. Kudos to OP for sticking up for herself

[DrgnLdyLizzie]

"He can get forgiveness from Jesus and whoever else he wants to. He'll NEVER get it from me, and while he 'moves on' with his life, I'm stuck dealing with the trauma HE caused simply because he could."

FFS. People like OP's friend and family make me so mad

[juliearmfield]

Story 2. Nta. Wow i dont even know what to say.

Karma will come around to each and every one of those nasty people.

[MazzaEliLi]

The abusive partner/false best friend story: OP it is worse than you think. Thanks to your abusive/self righteous parents & your false friend the abuser that you eluded for years has now found you again. If at all possible change all passwords & phone numbers & bank account details & even your social security number move. Wishing you well. All of these people are sadists. Please do not revert to being a masochist. Protect yourself but work on those trust issues. Be strong. The world is full of better people than these. Get out there & find better people. You can do it.

[juliearmfield]

Story 1. Nta. Cheaters are always going to manipulate lie and project.

One positive thing is that they didn't have kids and he only wasted four years not 20.

[johnowen]

"Dating your abuser?"

Everybody, in and out of this story, that keeps avoiding calling him a rapist is starting to annoy me. That should be OP's answer every time somebody says "he's changed". "Can't change the fact that he's a rapist."

[timboll]

1st story:That's gaslighting 101.
Also, i hate when people in committed relationships want to apologize for looking at their partners phone or computer when they believe something is going on. You have every right to investigate.

[Symphonia]

Does an abuser really think just because he found Jesus, it completely wipes away all his actions he’s done to this poor woman, talk about freaking delusional? And only complete narcissist blame other people for them acting like jerks.

[MizzShortai]

She has some nerve getting pissed at OP and trashing his house when she was the one cheating.
Oh man it's too good when the person who cheated on you finds out the AP has a gf and that she wasn't his only side piece lmfao.
I'm glad A's gf kicked him out. Good for her.

[Chanel]

I like when there’s an update post when you do the original post first like in this video. Some videos that start with just the new post are hard to follow

[treevenewson]

S1: violent histrionics? Massive Red flag

[wrvtuqs]

Story 1: once OP said ex would get violently histrionic I was thinking, dude why are you putting up with this at all? Absolutely NTA. Glad Karma wasn't late to the party.
Story 2: With family and a "friend" like this, who needs enemies. OP shouldn't feel alone removing toxic trash from her life. This will be the starting point of things getting better for her. Ex is a total creep who's still being manipulative. They always want forgiveness to negate their shitty behavior. Go ask God instead, because you're not getting any here.

[TroutSouls]

“I know it’s wrong to go through her phone” well it’s wrong to cheat and hide it, you don’t deserve “privacy” after that

[Number-vtfl]

I'm a very petty man, so this pleases me.

[jacearmor]

S1: NTA. She messed around and found out.

[ElecticalCheetah]

Last story: yeah he ex is only using the friend to get close to op, when op refuses at each moment he will show his true colors when he’s at his limit and then go after op

[Marstic]

Last story: why do I feel like the abuser is going to demand they meet IRL so he can't force op into bed in hopes of knocking her up so she'll be pressured into marrying him? Then he'll keep the friend on the side, or make some messed up Sister Wives level crap

[notquiteherenotquitethere]

im sorry but cheating was the least of his issues that required him to leave her

shes violent to the point he has a "bug out bag " in case