UPDATE Friends Tricked Me Into Breaking Up w Ex 8 Yrs Ago, Now I Want To Reconnect Tho He's Married

Story 1:
My(29F) girlfriends tricked me into breaking up with the one that got away(30M) eight years ago. I have an opportunity to reconnect with him now, should I?
Story 2:
My (M30) younger sister (F26) wants me to give an old ex (F29) closure. I'm married, and don't see how this will do any good. Why is my sister insistent on this?

#cheating #relationships #family

[redditcowboy]

Woman's Post: UPDATE 6:16
Man's Post: 7:09 UPDATES 11:57 15:28

[juanhaines]

I heard this whole saga. She did it to herself. She didn't give him a chance, she just dumped him. Serves her right. Glad bo found happiness.

[Brandelwyn]

I like how his mother who never seen any proof of her son cheating went out of her way to destroy his new relationships

[eldeano]

Every woman (except his wife) in Bo's life would rather have the fantasy in their heads come true, like some awful romcom, over his actual wants and feelings.
I like how Bo fills in the blanks that the ex purposely left out.

[TheBirdManOfAzkaban]

You left him because you thought he was a cheater... now you want him to cheat in order to get back together? Just leave the poor guy alone.

[hanooi]

Ex got ran through, poisoned her familial relationships, and lost her backup plan. No wonder why she is going crazy. At age 29, she is already staring down dying alone with her cats eating her remains.

[jimmiedmc]

Accused him of gaslighting and refused to acknowledge the laxk of evidence even 10 years ago cell phones had cameras so she was easily influenced by people she only knew for 10 min compared to someone she knew half her life...

[Fangroth]

She got what she deserved. She listened to her friends, break up with her BF and get ran through in college. Now she's a former CC rider, with her reputation ruined and get to watch her former BF married and happy with a woman who, unlike her wasn't dumb to waste her chance, to marry this wonderful man.

[rekslegiune]

So she had happy 304 life, but after finding out her EX is happily married and have a kid, now she is crying and is planning to destroy his marriage by doing some BS. So past maters girls and boys.

[theswedishdude]

so it wasn't enough to dump him and break his heart but she also instantly got with a new guy, flaunted the relationship in front of him and even started spreading nasty rumors about him. she deserves to be all alone, what a disgusting woman.

[SkillerWolfCFM]

She didnt even give a chance to him to prove his innocence. He wasnt just a boyfriend but also a long term best friend since childhood and family friend as well. IDK, to me it looks like she did want to sleep around and used those friends as excuse to break up with him. Might not be the case but it seems like it

[TheIronwil]

Zero empathy. The fact that OP didn’t even look into the matter or trust Bo speaks of immaturity and lack of caring. She said she didn’t give Bo a second thought, and defamed him to friends and family. In what world would OP think she has the right to ask Bo for anything?

[loadedburrito]

The first story happens a lot more than people want to realize

[ProudSanatani]

What is wrong with this woman 1st she threw up a perfect relationship and 8yr later when the guy is happily married and have kids she trying to destroy his family to get in with him.. Disgusting B

[ajb]

1st story, OP, serves you right. You knew Bo your whole life, and these so-called friends who didn't have proof, you knew for what 10 minutes. You got played. Leave BO Alone, don't destroy his life.

[JoyofRVing]

I like how Bo’s wife is so secured that she enjoyed reading OPs emails 😂

[McBruce]

This is an old story on Reddit. They say, the best way of revenge is to live well in front of those who put you down.

[ninjastorm]

The fact that she instantly believed her new friends who CLEARLY didn't like him over him, who she knows for years, just proves she wanted to believe the lie. She wanted to find a way to dump him without being the bad guy and chose to believe the lie. She didn't even try to give him the benefit of the doubt as a former best friend she's known for years. She just wanted to embrace a wild party life until regret and reality set in.

[Riri_]

Oh damn, I've seen the guy's story floating around a couple of times before. i didn't know the GF also posted her side of the story.
Dude is a stand up guy who respects his wife & family. The wife being dismayed with OP blocking the ex cos she find reading the emails from the ex amusing really cracked me up LOL.

[Buldogg]

How sad. He's a good man. He could've given her a life of happiness and fulfillment. Everybody would've been so happy for them. But she listened to the wrong people and now is lost. I've said this before. It seems that women are tired of being adored and protected, so they choose to party and suffer. So sad the times we live in. It seems he matured way before her, and she wasn't ready for the real world. An immature girl going to college is an easy target to toxic single bitter women. She deserves her shame. Good on Bo for moving on.