3 Lessons for Life After Graduation

music: Blinding by Cushy (epidemic sounds)

[MDobri-syce]

I was happy once, I graduated but than, it was like where do I go from here?

The three things, I learned:

1. The path you start may not be the one you stick with long term.

2. School doesn’t define your character but should help build upon it. And doesn’t make you better than anyone else just a more informed person (this is subjective).

3. The only certainty is that no matter if my path branches off I want to remain a life long student.

[un_]

1½ month after my graduation I am still unemployed, I tried to apply to many companies but so far within that time only 1 answered and had interest on my application but in the end I was not accepted. This video has enlightened once again.

To those who are like me and is anxious
Do not think of being hired so easily after your Graduation, take your time, explore, and do the things you weren't able to do ever since you got very busy from school.

Learn new skills from the internet or something, Work on your self, Play your favorite game and rank up, Go to the gym or read books. Put in work on your own pace and always stay positive

[demiladeomolade]

John, you sincerely have been so inspirational to me going into my first year of college. You encouraged me to read daily even as I strove to keep up with school work; I really have felt more fulfilled intellectually.

[taylorstrong]

Needed to hear this! Going through a lot right now. I finished school not too long ago and entered the workforce for what I went to school for. I quickly realized this career isn’t for me, however. My mind has been spiraling because I can’t believe I went to school for 5 years for this, just to not like it. I loved what you said at the beginning about envisioning what you want, and doing your best to connect the dots. I still don’t know exactly what I want, but I do LOVE the outdoors and hiking. So, I put my two weeks in at my job and I’m going to work in our National Parks next week! Still no idea where life is heading, but I do see it already aligning more with what a want! Wish me luck 😅

[KnarbMakes]

How dare you deliver this much value in a "list video". Rock on dude, this resonated with me even though I graduated over 10 years ago.

[cesileythorson]

I'm a 32 year old mother of two who just earned my associates this year and am planning to go on to pursue my bachelor's but struggling to decide what I truly want to do. I've recently realized that I limit myself constantly, thinking I could never do this or that. Ever since I've started being kinder to myself and working on my own limiting beliefs, a whole new world of opportunities has opened up to me. I'm still not sure what I want to do yet, but inspiring and positive videos like this help a ton. Sure, these things are often obvious, but we are forgetful and also need to hear it from other people and explained in different ways. So thank you for what you do

[marcyvillegas]

Wow. John Fish does negative self-talk. This reminds me that we are human and we are harsh to ourselves. Thank you for reminding us that we must be gentle with ourselves. This video is so timely since I'm approaching graduation and started thinking of my next step. Thank you, John, for being there since my 1st year of college!!

[benwinstanleymusic]

The point about being your best friend resonated with me, I hadn't heard it talked about like this before, monitoring how you talk to yourself in your own head. Whole video was very insightful, thanks John!

[Smallsenberg]

Believe it or not, it was around the 4th quarter of my freshman year of high school when I watched a couple of your "day in the life of" videos. I know that some people think epiphany moments don't actually exist, but those videos truly caused an epiphany in my life. Prior to that, I had never done "bad" in school, per se, but I truly started investing in myself and my education. I started realizing who I was and who my friends were, but also what I was capable of. I was just in Algebra 1 at the time, but I decided to actually study for my last exam. I got the best grade in the class. Ever since then, I haven't stopped. Now I'm nearly done with my 2nd year of undergrad, and to see one of your videos pop up after so long made me experience quite a few emotions. Keep doing you. You'll do great. You taught me so much when I desperately needed it, and you showed me what I am capable of. Good luck in your future endeavors.

[jerrywang]

Thank you for the video after half a year🎉🎉🎉

[mario]

This video both destabilized and comforted me. In one way, you just remembered me that I actually don't know where I wanna be in the future, and at the same time, you showed me that somebody else had these thoughts. I'm at the last year of university (in Italy for most degrees is 3 years of a "major' and then a 2 years specialization. I'm on my third and last year of major in philosophy). I hope I'll find something that will inspires me

[haroldprabhu]

We missed you bro ❤
You have always been my inspiration.

[christianllungo]

Hello, I relate so much with lesson 2. You really have to cultivate community. I was a quiet person during college but it didn’t affect as bad as it did after college. Here’s the thing, you need CONNECTIONS to get you jobs and help you get to your chosen path. I’m currently learning it the hard way. I left my programming job 3 months ago and I’m struggling to find a new one. I’m 28 years old. It’s hard to compete against so many applicants on indeed. On the other hand, my first job was easier because it wasn’t really advertised, I just knew a friend that knew another programmer there, and they both helped me. So in summary, if you’re currently employed don’t take your professional future for granted. Always try to meet new people.

[lauracastillo]

I came across your channel while I was still in highschool (so around five years ago) you were pivotal in inpsiring the very first changes I wanted to make for myself acedemically. However, it wasn't just education you inspired in me- it was also developing a sense of responsibility that I saw in you. I am so proud of myself today and you were one of the few in my life that I aspired to be like. Many appreciations dude.

[tomhey]

Hi John. I don’t comment often but this was an incredible video. I am 22 and graduating college this semester and resonate deeply with your points and have been using them for the past few years. I think it’s the bravest thing to do is to be strong enough to actually try to get to know yourself and what you truly want out of life and ask those deep questions. For me, I want to travel and experience all these different cultures and eventually end up in the sustainability field, even though I majored in business administration. This past semester I spent in Australia, Fiji, and New Zealand. I want everyone to know once you start asking those deeper questions and pursuing your interests and desires, you meet others who inspire you to continue on your path.

[flyingpiggo]

Damn, i just graduated with my final semester being my worst, completely detailing the plans I had envisioned for myself. Really need this video, thank you

[shibiliyankk]

I really wanted to complete my master's abroad after graduating in 2022, but I couldn't do it because I didn't have the money. I didn't know what to do, so my friend suggested that I learn German, which he was going to do. However, I didn't take his advice. I still don't know why I didn't do that. Maybe it was because my father is not wealthy and learning German is expensive, so I didn't pursue it. Now I realize he would have managed to get the money if I had asked. I didn't take that risk.

After a depressing period, I decided to do my master's here, which I completed this year. It turned out to be a huge mistake. Now, I'm stuck and don't know what to do. I applied to an Italian university for a master's degree and got accepted. I thought we could sell our land to fund my education, but there was a civil case involving the land, so we couldn't sell it initially. Now that we've won the case, the buyer is saying he needs some time to transfer the funds. It's been months.

Now, I have little chance of getting a visa, partly because I've already completed a master's degree. I wish I had taken a job after graduation to gain at least two years of work experience, which would have helped my situation. I don't know why I'm writing this; I just needed to share it with someone. It's been overwhelming.

[abdulstuntin]

"Anxiety is the dizziness of freedom." -Soren Kierkegaard

[marioniangi]

Hello John Fish! I want to start by saying that I'm a big fan of your videos and they inspire me to be more organized and planned in my daily life. Your advice is valuable and has helped me a lot, especially the video about '3 Lessons for Life After Graduation'.

Even though I'm only in my first year of computer engineering, your videos motivate me to pursue my goals with discipline and consistency. Your message reminded me that success doesn't come overnight, but it's built through hard work and perseverance.

I want to thank you for sharing your experiences and wisdom with the world. I hope you continue to produce amazing content to inspire us all. Keep making a difference in people's lives, hugs from Angola!

Thank you for being an inspiration to me and many others. You are awesome!

[mitsuhafan]

hey john, as someone with graduation coming up soon, this video happened to come at just the right time! glad to see that you're doing well. crazy to think that I started watching you years ago.