WHY ARE SO MANY BLACK WOMEN SINGLE: Relationship advice goals & tips

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In 1970, 35.6% of Black men and 27.7% of Black women were never married, but by 2020, these percentages had jumped to 51.4% for Black men and 47.5% for Black women.

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[SKIMSPersonalStylist]

I don't know Miss Faye. If you are a single black woman, it's a blessing. Enjoy it and make the most of it doing what you want to do. The spa, gym, retreats, furthering your education, etc. Happy Mother's Day to all the moms.

[Elli-jfls]

As a white straight woman, I agree that black women are just as beautiful as any other race of women. To all the black sisters out there... please know that you are absolutely GORGEOUS !!!

[monicaDD]

I didn't believe older women when they told me that one day I wouldn't care about men and relationships. I thought they were bitter. Then one day it just happened. I feel blessed and at peace. I'm grateful that I've been loved and if it happens again great. If it doesn't I love me

[alexiusscott]

I’m a black woman. I’m 38 years old. One child and I am engaged, to a black man.

[popcorn-a]

I used to think for a long time that the 'system' was solely responsible for the disadvantages we as black people endure. However, I have changed my thinking somewhat. I agree that the system can encourage and plays a huge part in systemic discrimination, racism, institutional racism, lack of equal opportunities and so on. However, it is not the only reason for many black men's attitude and behaviour which makes it difficult for black women to be paired up with them. I have seen many times a lot of black men have been given chances to progress and advance with training, educational opportunities, etc and they deliberately refuse to engage, they turn these opportunities down, make all kinds of excuses to not participate and ultimately behave in irresponsible ways which many women will not tolerate these days. It is not the 'system' which is responsible in this context. I reside in England and a man going to the pub every night for example, instead of studying or working or otherwise not engaging in productive activities which are available is a choice and a bad one at that. No wonder many black women are choosing to remain single.

[blazebrown]

I am proud of my black good-hearted professional black male friends as well as my sons that married "good-hearted" professional black females! Love yourself married or not, each other and who genuinely Love and Respect you!

[myrafarmer]

The black man was no more oppressed, humiliated and abused by the black man and slavery than the black woman. Somewhere along the line responsibility has to be taken and make the change.

[GingerSpices]

Yes, BW should be open to other races of men. Staying single should be because you want to not because you don’t want to date outside your race. Also please stop begging BM to love you and saying “our men”.

[christelcalvin]

I am not interested in dating anyone right now. Regardless of race. I have dated different ethnicities and they all have issues. The common denominator is me in these pairings. What excites me more is this spiritual journey I am on. It gives me the butterflies that a new romantic relationship used to.❤

[yvonnej]

Because Black women have been devalued. We are now baby mama's not valuable enough to marry. We are educating ourselves and becoming empowered and selective of whom we date.

[ronalddowdell]

I'm an older black man (grew up in the 1960's), and I've watched the deterioration of black men over the years. Back in the day, some brothas were all over the sistahs for sex only...no commitment, no marriage. From that, we now have the grown children of these hook ups who have no clue as to how to have an honest relationship because this was never modeled for them. Now, we have too many young black men who don't know how to be men. They run from sistahs because the media and other brothas tell them they don't respect them or value them. They tell them that the white and latina women are better (enabling them to escape blackness in a sense). Yes, embrace your singleness. But, please pray for the brothas...they are lost because they don't know who they are or whose they are. This is happening because we've forgotten that God should be our center.

[Micha]

Praying my handsome smart black son chooses a black queen for his life partner..

[sandrawilliams]

Good Morning Ms Faye Happy Mother’s Day to you and all the wonderful and caring mothers out there.❤

[fillistine]

We have woken up! We been fed lies all this time and we are seeing the light!
A lot of them men will tell you straight they dont want black woman. We are a stepping stone. You can either divest, or be happy single. Love yourself and treat one yourself❤
Do them things you really want to do!
Black women today are HIGHLY EDUCATED. Use your gifts, lovely ladies❤❤❤❤❤❤

[donnabradford]

Being single is the bomb. I embrace my single -hood and go about my business happy.

[lisagross]

I love my peace, that is why I am single ❤

[ShenaWinchester]

I agree with what someone said about the UK, the BM are not necessarily interested, but the white men and now asian men are. They are not buying into the lie that BW are all aggressive and bitter. My late husband was white and he adored me and our son. It has made it difficult to move on, because he was my soul mate and now all I seem to attract is covert narcissists.

[sandradavis]

I don’t know about anyone else, but I never married because as a child back in the 60s, I spent my time studying bad behavior by the adults, especially the men. I decided at 10 years old that a woman does not benefit from being married. No thanks. I’m 69, single, retired, content. Not for everyone, but it works for me. Have a nice day everyone ❤❤❤❤❤

[pamallen]

Stay single if you can't find a compatible mate. Don't settle for any old man just to say you have a man.

[bubblybubbles]

Also not only black women but black people in general tend to have from unresolved trauma that we suffered in our childhood from having dysfunctional family units and things that have happened to us in society as adults rooting from racism. Trauma can be passed down through the generation. I think it would be good for many blaxk women to get counseling and do some soul searching. When you had a rough start and on top of that society is villainizing you and tells you that you're worrthless, its hard to be happy and function at your full potential.