Can A Muslim Woman Stay Single Forever? || Ustadh Abdulrahman Hassan #youaskedweanswered

BarakAllahu feekum.

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[falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo]

Quran 25 : 74. And those who say: "Our Lord! Bestow on us from our wives and our offspring the comfort of our eyes, and make us leaders of the Muttaqun (the pious. See V.2:2)."

[tahminarahman]

SubhanAllah I’m 24 now and want to get married, but it’s actually so hard to find a righteous brother…anyway May Allah swt grant us a spouse that is the coolness of our eyes Allahuma ameen

[saimachannel]

Quran 24:33 - “And let those who cannot find a match keep chaste till Allah give them independence by His grace.” I think it also related to those who have no means to marry to abstract themselves from unlawful intercourse. No everyone wants to marry and that’s fine. I understand it is recommended but let people choose. Especially women. Many don’t want to marry ever or not at this current time. But r pressured due to society and family. May allah grant us a deeper understanding and guidance inshallah

[sun.under]

جزاك الله خيرا
May Allah grant us all righteous spouses and offspring.

[sadafm]

Growing up with bad parents, and role models and people making "I'll beat my wife" jokes, and abusive mehrams who say "I will ask your husband to beat you with a belt" is personally what has scared me from relationships while I'm recovering from that yes, but feminism didn't hurt me, it's the abusive men in my family and around me. Yes all men aren't like that, I am aware which is why i know marriage is beautiful, but it is scary, and I hope people understand that the reason muslim women turn to feminism is because men who claim to follow shariah don't respect women either. I hope we can understand that abusive people whether emotional, physical or sexual are as big of a problem as feminism is.

[sali]

The third category is so true. A person who has no desires at all.
Alhamdulilah Allah made me a human with desires. InshaAllah will fulfill it within marriage in the correct manner

[Dawn-xgef]

Not gonna lie, as a woman, I will stay single, because finding a good man who practices islam rightfully is so hard to find. the only one I see are those who expects you to bow down to their every need, give up your fiancial independance, stay at home and give up your career and dreams. OR they are do not practice enough. Like they dont pray on time, they like to make fun of women, etc. Sometimes I ask myself, if a decent man who practices islam the best he can and is respectful to women and himself, even exists anymore? I prefer being single tbh. (Before some of you call me a feminst, I am, but I am NOT a modern feminist. Know the difference.)

[sakina]

I got married to save myself from haram and seek Allah's pleasure but I am divorced now at a young age of 24 my life was turned upside down and me and my family have been suffering from so much loss. I am now depressed trying my best to get stable in life again. Marriage is no joke and so many people marry for very wrong reasons so don't ever hasten to get married and be extremely cautious about who you marry. Try to dig in as much info as you can before marriage. I don't know if I will ever regain the strength to trust a man again and marry again hopefully Allah will help me get through.

[Gaatjenietsaaan]

Marriage is so difficult this days. Especially because some brothers refuse to move out of the parents house, there are even brothers in the house that will never be mahrams. I'm literally traumatized for the fact I lived without any privacy even though it was promised that we would move out. Everyday I was in jilbab in the house. I couldn't do anything my own way. It was hard because I wasn't used to live with parents as I left my house at the age of 17.So many rights where taken from me. But one thing that wasn't forgotten was that having 4 wives is a sunnah. Because of this I never want to marry a man my age anymore. It's better for me to go for someone +/- 5 years older.

[JC-ceuw]

Not even by choice. All my roads n options are closed. So by default I'm going to stay single forever.

[rateorhate]

O Allah, make it easy for me to get married this year. Amiin.

[ninajowkar]

Brothers are complaining in this comment section about how hard it is to find a good woman now days, due to how the rest of them have just gone astray with feminism.

What they forget is, all the injustice that’s being done toward the sisters in our community due to the toxic, immature and backward mentalities of “some men” today.

[MuhammadBinZafar]

Brothers are complaining that they are not finding good sisters.

Sisters are complaining that they're not finding good brothers.

Isn't it saddening? What are we missing?

[marroosh]

I have yet to come across a man that I could give the respect and rights he would have over me as a husband. Marriage is no joke in our religion and if marriage will not bring me closer to Allah then no thanks.

[falsesectslikeshiaarejudeo]

Quran 28 : 25. Then there came to him one of the two **nisa, walking shyly.** ...
26. And said one of them (the daughters): "O my father! Hire him! Verily, the **best of men for you to hire is the strong, the trustworthy."**
27. ... **But I intend not to place you under a difficulty.** (for in laws)

[Ummemad]

Jazakallahu khyrun kaseera
I was looking for it

[faebalina]

Q: A question on seeking marriage, how can one know if praying for something (marriage) when it has been hard and not come to pass for many years is something you should give up on dua wise and emotionally, (i.e perhaps that it may not be written for you )?I say this as it is maybe one of a very number of duas which have not been accepted (yet?) so it dawns on me occasionally that it is not someone that has been accepted or maybe I have something other in its place (e.g health)

[imanchowdhury]

Assalamualaikum. I am searching for a video for quite sometimes now but I can't recall the title. I believe it was by Ustaad AbdulRahman Hassan and he was said this statement "ignorance is so evil nobody wants to attributed with this even if they are ignorant". If anyone can kindly point me to that video, please do.
Jazakallahu khairan

[bornteacher]

Assalamualaikum www
Rsp Sir, can you explain this topic specially for woman?
Marriage is a combination of home, family and responsibility. A middle-aged woman who is not physically fit, who fails to fulfill this responsibility can be divorced. Also, forcing her to marry 70-80 year old men, and preventing her from renting a house, deliberately trying to exploit her financially, and thus trying to force a woman to marry by intimidation, all this is permissible in Islam. is? All things done by The local Darul Uloom and social workers use brokers to find female for those Old persons. they are practicing this kind of coercion. Does Islam give women the right to speak to protect their rights?
If a woman is not happy with physical relations with men, then such conditional marriage is permissible in Islam? Many women get married just to get shelter and shelter and protection, then cheat on men, in some cases men abuse women. Plz plz plz explain this topic sp. For women explain in Detail. As early as possible.

[learnthequrantobefromthebe]

How can you ask the sheikh??
Jazakallahu khair