Stockholm Synchronization Workshop - Loneliness and Avoidance

This is the Part 1 excerpt from the Stockholm Synchronization Workshop. You will see the introduction to the workshop along with the first session held on stage. Teal speaks with the participant about loneliness and avoidant attachment relationship style. Through understanding the avoidant attachment style we can understand the root of many loneliness afflictions on this planet.

Part 2 of 3 - Synchronization Workshop - Triggered by Your Own Children

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[BlackNella]

“You never learned that somebody else was capable of considering your best interest. So you never opened the door for me to consider your need.” 🤯 mind blown.

[jamieazalea]

Once, I met someone who asked me, "What are your needs? Are you thirsty or hungry?" and I was completely blown away. That kind of consideration is favourable, especially when it's consistent, stable, and genuine.

[shea]

One of the biggest things I’ve learned recently, is that I’ve avoided people because I’ve just assumed relationships would be one sided and no one would consider my needs…that it was me or them, and if it was me, I was selfish, and if it was them, I was humiliated. There was no winning. It donned on me, radically, that in adult life with healthy people, other healthy people will consider my best interest. Relationships aren’t so scary because they aren’t one sided like I assumed. Wild.

[subtlediosa]

I love the way Teal dresses. It screams: I know me, I love me, I honor me!!

[jodam]

I cried watching this because I’m just starting to recover from a relationship I was in exactly like this, and I was the anxious one. She’s right, you feel like your hooked on drugs and recovering feels like withdrawing from a drug you’ve been hardcore hooked on. It is so hard. And very damaging to all aspects of yourself.

[superbobor]

1:17:03 "You're not getting vulnerable enough for me to care."
This applies to me 100%. Opened my eyes quite a bit.

[Kelsi]

When I first heard about Teal it was through people who were extremely skeptical, and so I also came in as a skeptic. I watched a video to see if she was as bizarre as they made her sound. But now after watching so many of her videos and synchronization workshops I feel completely differently. Even if I’m not totally in alignment with everything she believes spiritually, she is so intelligent and speaks the hard truths. I have a great deal of respect now for Teal Swan 💕

[RussMalina]

Teal, please do more work on the disorganized attachment! We so badly want a relationship but they feel to us exactly like you say, a constant terror! It's terrifying, weird, confusing, scary, hard! 😱😩😵😰😭😭😭

[putribrilliany]

i'm a woman but i had attachment style like him. all i need is total autonomy for now, and when it's time to choose relationship in my will, then i'll try to be more close and not afraid that i'll lose myself 😢

oh my god this is so PRECIOUS. thank you, teal.

[MrMusic]

This was extremely useful to me as someone with a dismissive avoidant attachment style. I felt so triggered and annoyed by the guys responses & then I realized, that's me! I'm working with my therapist on learning to feel my emotions and then express them. It's hard work though.

[MiladeOliveiraGaia]

22:15 Teal, I absolutely love how you mix psychology with spiritual teachings

[silencio]

Teal’s intermittent reinforcement video saved my life from this type of relationship (I am anxious attachment) I left the relationship and am so much happier

[m.m.]

My every relationship ever has been with a version of this man. The courage it took for him to move into a pattern of wellness is encouraging - healing, dare I say - for me.

[gitagavarem]

I was there! Incredible experience, one of the best in my life. Thank you <3

[KristyMartinez]

Teal, that was amazing. I am avoidant attachment style and most everyone else in my life seems to have had abandonment issues. I understand so much better what's been going on. It was the enmeshment that has made me this way. I couldn't see that as my issue relative to my attachment style. I am also not comfortable with having so much power in relationships like Blake said about himself. I had no idea that I could be the one who is abusive in my relationships as you described. Thank you for helping me to see where I can finally begin to work on this aspect of myself for me and for the people I really do care about. What an eye opener.

[evian.]

My German Shepard Dog suffered with separation issues and I suffered with abandonment issues. First time in life I felt loved, wanted, needed. It was a start of my healing journey. My new partner stays with me all the time. We work from home on separate businesses. My need for predictability is met and yes, my best interest is his best interest and yes, when he is away, I feel safe and secure. Thank you for the great insight.

[kristi]

That disorganized attachement thing just blew my mind! Wow! I'd be soooo happy to hear more about that from you Teal *-* !! <3

[isabellestahl]

I‘m so grateful that you uploaded the workshop! 🙏🏻 Thank you so much! 🥰

[judahlevine]

I love Teal Swan, she makes it so easy to learn.

[leighd]

The full part is on YouTube under the same title starting at about 22:00 min in with this guy on stage and is VERY invaluable. It’s therapy gold for Avoidant and Anxious attachment styles dating Avoidants! This should be required education for Avoidants, it’s so well done. Definitely check out the full video if you want more of this clip.