10 Things a Man ALWAYS Has in His Bedroom... that Boys DON'T! (Men's Bedroom Essentials)

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Welcome to my bedroom! Today I have a special video for you. I am sick and tired of hearing from all the spicy senoritas that say they're tired of coming back to your place because you need to elevate and upgrade the quality of your bedroom. Who wants to get freaky in a place where it looks like a little boy lives? Zero chance for action! On that note, I'm going over a few things that men having their bedrooms that little boys don't.

Bedrooms that separate men from the boys
When you lived at home, everything you owned was in one room as a child, so it tended to get a bit chaotic and cluttered. But as you evolve and move out of the house, you have more room to spread out. Your bedroom is one of those areas where you have to ensure you don't have a lot of crap everywhere. If you do, you automatically look like a slob, and you're lazy. Get organized.
You want your room to smell fresh as opposed to nasty. Light some candles to provide a pleasant aroma, mood, and ambiance. Do not use Febreze or air fresheners.
Nothing screams "you're a little boy" than a mattress on the floor. Look responsible and respectable with a masculine bed frame. Mine has metal rivets in a great cream herringbone design. It's not over the top. Another one of the bed frames in my house has charcoal gray fabric the headboard isn't super gigantic, but it has clean lines, and the bed is elevated, adding more depth and dimension to your room.
Bedding is a quick and easy thing you can do to automatically elevate and upgrade the aesthetic of your room. Purchase some nicer sheets with some accent pillows. These additions will add a little flavor and flair to your room and express your individual style. I'm a big fan of white because it looks clean and it matches anything. Make sure your sheets are high quality and soft.
You sleep for 8 to 10 hours a night, so you need a high-quality mattress. You will wake up feeling more refreshed. My wife and I rock the Helix Midnight Lux mattress from Helix. We took a quiz to identify which mattress is the best for how we sleep. Then, we got it shipped directly to our door. Visit Helix to get up to $200 off a personalized mattress + two free pillows.
Add some sort of cool full-length mirror or some interesting wall hangings.
You need to have somewhere to sit so you don't do everything in your bed. You should only lay in your bed to (a) get freaky and (b) sleep. So you need a place to sit, work, watch TV, or put your shoes on. Add a chair to your room. I also use my chair to meditate after putting on some music.
Every single one of you should have a plant in your bedroom window. It brings life into your room, it shows that you're a sensitive dude, and it's relaxing. You could also try adding a succulent or cactus if you are not responsible for watering a plant. These types of plans are lower maintenance. Plants will bring depth and dimension to your bedroom.
Side table lamps rather than harsh overhead lighting separate the men from the boys. Lamps add softness and ambiance. Plus, you can find some really interesting masculine lamps that won't break the budget.
You're the man if your closet is clean and organized with a place for everything! But if you have a lot of chaos and clutter, you look like a little boy.
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0:29 Clean
1:04 Smells Fresh - Candle
1:49 Proper Bed Frames
2:43 Bedding & Sheets
3:29 Proper Mattress
Ad: Helix
6:14 Hanging on Walls
6:46 Sitting Area
7:37 Plants
8:30 Lights
8:54 Closets

Iamsujant
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As an male interior designer feel free to contact if any of you want to have a proper gentleman style home cos it’s alway good to have a beautiful bedroom but for you to get her into your room she’ll go first over your living room, bathroom…

Iammanuelhernandez
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Alpha missed a couple items that a Man ALWAYS has in his bedroom nightstand:
1. A flashlight for power outages
2. Astroglide
3. Clean hand towels
4. A handgun for protection against intruders
5. Notepad & Pen to capture thoughts/good ideas

texasdave
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Also in terms of color schemes I like to keep it neutral as well. Whites, greys, beiges, etc and pick a nice contrasting color to add some depth like a red, black, or blue to keep it manly. Contrast with your accent pillows or piece of art. Be subtle with it though so it doesn’t stick out like a sore thumb!

josephyarbrough
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As a mom of two kidult guys…I appreciate your videos! I can just send them links to things I try to communicate but I know they’ll only hear if it’s coming from a dude!! Great job!!

thedavisredbarnranch
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Still living at home while I get some money behind me, so unfortunately my room is not the tidiest as my whole life is in the one room, so no matter how much a clean my room, it'll always look kinda cluttered.
Can't wait for when I can finally move out, and set up a new bedroom. I've got so many good ideas, your tips always help Alpha, thanks mate! 🙂👍

MegaJSK
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The best purchase I made as a young adult fresh into my first job was a proper double bed mattress. It wasn't cheap and I saved for ages, but it was so worth it and I've slept like a sound baby every since.

SlasherXGAMES
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I’ve never been so early in my life, Alpha always comes in with clutch advice

Ethan_
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After I went through a divorce I kept the house but remodeled every bedroom. Grays and accent colors and art work, some which I painted myself. Carpet was replaced with dark hardwood. Be careful of candles because some women have allergies that may be impacted by the scent.

Remember clean weekly, dust, wipe the furniture down with damp cloth and vacuum. Fresh sheets are important.

People can smell clean and that should be the goal.

My daughter who is an architectural designer approves.

morganleblanc
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Great video Alpha, I have to disagree on the chair thing IF your bedroom is small, having a chair in a tiny bedroom will just make it seem very cluttered instead of nice.

Admiral_Fontaine
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There is a time in the last few days of summer when the ripeness of autumn fills the air, and time is quiet and mellow.

zacf
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Those lamps are awesome, where do you order those from?!

dylanlundgren
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Can someone help me find the second bedframe(Charcoal grey) in this video??
And artpiece above it?

Priva_C
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Great advice Alpha!
I always have a real wood bed frame though.
Super easy to clean and I don’t leave oil or product stains on fabric from my hair rubbing on the headboard.
She doesn’t either! ;)

wileyallen
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06:12 to skip past the pointless mattress plug.

NiGHTS
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Don't laugh but this is a trick my mom showed me. After thoroughly cleaning your room spotless. When you put fresh sheets on it, but before you put them on place a dryer sheet on the corners of your mattress and then put the sheet on. Also Place one in between the pillows in your pillowcase. Not only will your room smell fresher you'll sleep better and the ladies love it

casanovajackson
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I wear chino dockers with Ralph Lauren polo shirts tucked in I wear a dark brown leather belt. What type of a wallet do you recommend for this attire Im looking for something classy/smart/professional in dark brown leather?

-Thank you!

fbibking
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My wife and I are renovating our house and we took notice of how beautiful the color scheme is. What’s the wall paint color, if you don’t mind me asking?

PHdTVwithPhillip
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Man I gotta upgrade my bedroom. I’m only 19 but still. I live in a cluttered room because I have a ton of stuff. I still have a mattress on the floor. My room is extremely decorated and orderly but cluttered

tjboylan
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im newly single and moving out of the house and into my own place and although i do have an amazing matress, the one thing i dont have is a bedframe with the head and foot boards. i personally dont care about headboards and footboards but ill take your advice and invest in a nice frame with them so i dont make the wrong impression on that new seniorita haha thanks for the kick in the ass mate...cheers

brianfreland