How to Pick Up Girls (in under 60 seconds)

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My goal with these videos is to show you just how easy it is to get success by simply being normal and making a little bit of small talk. However, there is DEFINITELY a lot more flirting and romance you can interject in these day-to-day interactions and now that I feel I've shown you how to get started as a complete beginner, I will begin including more "advanced" interactions where I'm doing more flirting, seeding more concrete first dates, etc. - so stick around for future videos in this challenge

WE ARE JUST GETTING STARTED.

P.S. You're not ready for some of these upcoming challenges ;)

realbenjaminseda

yo for all the haters in the comments saying Ben should be filming his dates and telling you exactly what to do - how many girls have YOU approached this week? How many IGs have YOU gotten from girls on the street this week?

maybe if you took inspiration from these videos and actually talked to women, you wouldn't be in the comments trying to tear someone down who's trying to help you.

Layman

Too many negative comments. Man you're killing it this month! I could never XD

MattPryze

This was your SMOOTHEST pickup!! The woman was interested and liked you! Much respect, keep it up

theultimateartist

Cool video, My relationship of 5 years ended a month ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her.

Eltonscruggs

Yo Zeus. Don’t worry man I have been watching every video! Also was gonna say, everyone who goes out and approaches bc of these vids make sure to comment it here. That means Zeus is getting what his goal is, to start a revolution to get men out there approaching 2024!

chinmunkdesigns

Getting a number is not hard. Once again it’s everything afterwards. It’s not the time of getting her number, it’s getting to the next step and actually going anywhere with it. Tomorrow I’ll go and get a girls number when I’m out and about just to prove it. Doubt I’ll go anywhere with the number I get, but I know it’s possible to get a number easily.

Shadowgrace

Dude, this was such a good infield. We get to see your face and how you hold pauses. Amazing!

SoftwareEngineerLifestyle

I have one general question about dating. For the last few weeks I thought about the best approach and mindset when it comes to dating and having a relationship.
In summary, I came to the conclusion that it’s obvious #1 that both your looks and your character combined with “dating skills” (building up tensions, teasing, communicating your interest etc.) are important. #2 authenticity and self acceptance are also key #3 be the best version of yourself to be attractive #4 stop being dependent on other people’s attention. These points are somewhat connected but I still wanted to mention them separately.
But then I ask myself when the best point in time is to start dating if you’re still struggling with the points I mentioned above. Just like this series in this channel shows, you must practice in order to spontaneously talk to a girl.
So right now I’m honestly torn between “going out” and being active and having this achieved this foundation of the points above.

theowlfromduolingo

*_Dude, getting her instagram is nothing. She is just nice to you or she probably wants followers. Show us the real DEAL! try for an instant date or something_*

NowWeAreFree

this is easy, show us what happens after exchanging social media

AK-hihm

Great content bro, after reading your comments and watching your videos, i truly get the point of this challenge, going out and getting a girls ig might not seem a safe date of course but it is a great start to lose the fear of approaching and slowly start improving the game. The haters just make tons of excuses, next time they will just ask you to get ig and dates for them lol. I need to start doing this as well. Keep up with the good work.

davidlumend

3:35 mindset on your willingness to tolerate excuses

adamhilmiofficial

Why don’t you show the aftermath. I see you get the number or insta but can’t you try to show a date after. That’s the hard part, is meeting again. Please do, you’ve been getting so many numbers what happens after

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