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[Jojo-tfzp]

Oh yes, the scariest moments I've been in were with conservative men that I could tell were attracted to me but didn't see me as a full person for one reason or another. Run!!
Debate is not worth all that.

[StefanTaf]

I am a crazy radical feminist and can absolutely confirm

[littlemiss_legal]

Every time I see such situations i IMMEDIATELY think about the bird in cage analogy by Trevor Noah’s mother

[HighMaintenanceMinimalist]

Tolga's manipulation tactics were pretty obvious. How many times did he need to remind her that he had options in the pod and she didn't? He complained yo the guys about feeling suffocated, yet we saw no clinginess on her part. He's very toxic.

[thelocalartisanguide]

I am surprised a liberal woman would want to be with a conservative man. In the pass I was able to date a semi-conservative man but now I need to be with someone with the same values. I feel you need similar goals to be successful in your relationship. It's just not worth it.

[meli]

I am from Germany and I know really good his type of men. He see it as an challenge. He said about Hannah „she is childish“ he felt superior over her and shillah does not make her smaller. When he said „I need more time to choose between you and the other one“ and she said back „but myself I need also to make a decision“ he was completely irritated about that phase because she made a huge statement. So he chose her because the other, Hannah, was safe.
I feel really sorry for shillah because myself in a men dominated industry I know how hard it is to let your guards down and to open yourself up for a man in general.

[Krys]

They don’t want the boring ”plain Jane” type of conservative women they like the liberal women who are sexually appealing. However once they get together with them they expect to change them and that’s when the problems start happening…..

[hannahlouisa]

Hi, I don't know the show, but now I am intrigued. I had a conversation with my dad about the fact that women in my generation are more and more liberal, while men become more conversative. And my dad, himself a conversative man didn't understand why I would date conservative men. I am a overthinker and by that I mean, I think about the future. So what if, I decide to marry a man with such a different understanding of the world? With values would we teach our children? What happens if I end up in a riskful pregnancy and have to consider abortion? To me there are just to many What-ifs I am to afraid to answer ...

[Igel-jxbn]

I see it the way you do, but I also have one big point. Sheila wanted to win. When she saw herself in competition with Hannah, or at the beginning a rather unknown second woman, that is what corresponds to her nature, wants to get what she wants. From this point on she started to put pressure on Tolga to make a decision. But that doesn't make his gaslighting any better. I hope Hannah is completely out of the game and gets her true happiness. I would find it sad for her to see her return, like other Lib participants before her. Nobody wants Tolga ;)

[Die_Salzstreuerin]

I think he only proposed to stay in the show but never wanted any real commitment. I disliked him from the start because his introduction was absolutely cringe. I’m glad he didn’t pick Hannah because I can imagine him body shaming her all the time.
However, no woman deserves ending up with a guy who uses the table as mirror during conversations…. Seems like he loves himself and that’s it. 🤷‍♀️

[boochi]

Just dropped a man who considers himself a liberal that "supports women", but thinks I'm "too much of a feminist", and that the world is too woke, and people are too sensitive. He also insists that his role is to be the "man of the house", so I asked him what it means to be the "man of the house", and he couldn't explain. I've lived by myself for over 10 years. If I needed a "man of the house", I would have gotten one by now. Oh! He was married for three years, and his ex asked for a divorce.
Avoid the men who confuse you about their political and social idealogies. I think that we're at a point in the world where being "apolitical" or a "centrist" just doesn't cut it, but I wish you well if it works for you.

[Franzifii]

Oh man, when I heard this song for the first time, it gave me a lot of feelings. It's heartbreaking but at the same time comedic, just because the situation is so absurd. I'm so sorry this happened to her and also kinda happy I'm single.

[Franzifii]

Up to this point, I think he's the most toxic dude in the german pod squad. It's so weird how he's just not feeling it any more all of a sudden, without ANY good reason. I get a little nauseated when I see him. I hope she'll make it out safe because he gives me the VERY STRONG feeling that he's an abuser.

[ceptember.]

What about that Black couple that left right after getting engaged?

[gailalbers]

Togla- i had to laugh so much when you said that - I love your anslysis : you say exactly what I say - it’s my first time watching any live us blind show. I think it’s faszinating . I actively dislike Togla - I think he’s a sadist . My phantasy is that he is a queen and only does this so he can appease his family, and the way he is - how he feels suffocated, when Shilah really does nothing I can see.

[perrierjouet]

I think Tolga is a bit narcissistic personally. Not a fan of his at all.

[blueblack]

That is an interesting take but as a turkish woman you are a bit off. He looks for a typical turkish woman who is feisty but homely. That is just typical in turkish society

[reuvenshuval]

This is not true. False . Like most information on the Internet it is just a opinion. Be very skeptical what you read .