why i DON'T want to get married

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[SamSam-jbtr]

I am single in my thirties and it's great. I would rather be lonely then be married with

[kikigetcrazylow]

I don’t wanna get married, I feel like it’s out dated. People change over the years... I know I have. U could wake up sleeping next to a total stranger after 25 years. I’m too much of a free spirit, plus I never wanted kids. A lot of people get married with baggage you didn’t even know they had.

[ilovewhatyouhateexo]

tbh for me marriage have more negative points than positive, so when i say that i don't want to get married, they look at me weirdly and say you're too young to know what is good for you and dying alone is sad blah blah, like BRUH did i ask your opinion 😐

[jonesie]

I'm in my 30's and have never had a desire to get married. I have all of the same reasons as you. I think that many millennials are re-evaluating a lot of the bs we were programmed into thinking we have to do for a fulfilled life (marriage, kids, corporate career etc.).

[dummonkey]

The people that are married asking why a single people don't get married they need to take a look at their life and they will understand who wants to go through life fighting and arguing . Yeah some people do have good marriages but you don't see as many of the good ones as you do the bad.

[gurudra]

Love is not a relationship, love is a state of being

[visionsofamarie]

Marriage is such an eerie possessive concept to me. The thought of signing papers that signify your promise to be with someone forever and if that fails, you’re made to feel like something has failed therefore making you feel like a failure...when in reality, as you said, sometimes things and people come for certain moments and don’t stay forever. There’s no way of telling what will and what won’t, so why do we think a piece of paper will decide?
My parents separated when I was 4, so I get the same thing where people think it has something to do with my views on marriage.
I really enjoy these videos, especially this one coming from you. As women, we’re made to feel like marriage is a sort of badge of honor and I’m glad you openly spoke about your views on it despite them differing from the norm.

[blaire]

I'm 38.. no kids, not married yet I'm HAPPY and still having a GOAL to Pursue 🤷, I love being single but then my family and other people worried about a Future of mine alone w/o someone or a family of my own..

[SheilaTrueLove]

I've been married 2.5 times, and trust me when I tell you, being SINGLE is so much more PEACEFUL, and Waaaay BETTER. I DON'T have to do ANYTHING I don't FEEL like doing. That's one of the main things I LOVE about being SINGLE. I NOW have JOY, FREEDOM, BETTER HEALTH because STRESS was removed, NO MORE ACCELERATED AGING, and so much more to be GRATEFUL for. Some marriages may be o.k. but there is no such thing as a PERFECT MARRIAGE and because of that you are going to go through a lot of DRAMA, DYSFUNCTION, ARGUMENTS, Having to Put up with someone else’s MOOD SWINGS and ATTITUDES and you're going to have to do a LOT of things you may NOT FEEL like doing. MARRIAGE to me was HELL. Also, more importantly REMEMBER, when God put the FIRST Two people together, Adam and Eve, they were BOTH PERFECT People. That doesn't EXIST anymore. People CHANGE over the years. I know I have. You could wake up one morning sleeping next to a total stranger or a DEMON after a few years. Every woman DON'T want to get MARRIED. Not every woman wants a BALL and CHAIN they have to be SUBMISSIVE to. In other words, you have to REDUCE yourself back to being a CHILD....We had to be SUBMISSIVE to our PARENTS when we were children, now when you get MARRIED you have to go RIGHT BACK into having to be OBEDIENT or SUBMISSIVE to some Dude...A LOT of MATURE, INDEPENDENT, ADULT, MENTALLY and EMOTIONALLY HEALTHY WOMEN are NOT INTERESTED in SIGNING on for that.

[kidnpigtogether]

Marriage needs love to survive, love doesn’t need Marriage because it can breathe on it’s own.

[nailakofficial]

I’m someone who doesn’t want to get married or have kids too so you saying this must have been hard. I thought I was the only one but I’m happy I’m not thank you for sharing this Renee love ya ❤️❤️❤️

[ShanaJahsintaWalters]

I am 39 and I still don't care to get married. If it happens, fine. If it don't, fine. Either way, I am good.

[DaishaView]

Personally, I don’t want any children so I feel like being legally married is pointless.

[lifeisbeautiful]

Girl, I been single and celibate for years, having the time of my life 😁😁😁 I love my freedom.. I’m a free spirit! I never had that dream either. I grew up in an abusive house hold. My mother was a victim of domestic violence and she passed at 39 and I was 14.

All the reasons that you stated, men want that from me, for me to make them my life and to be subservient to them and cater to their every need and pop out babies and clean and cook. They feel it’s their duty to lock me down. I no thank you!

I’m never getting married. I’m about to buy a house this year. I love my freedom and I’m not giving that up for no one. I have better things to do and evolve as a person then be tied down. But I totally agree with what you said and then some.

[kandacenoire]

“You’re too pretty not to be married” -what every older male patient says to a gorgeous woman like yourself.

good for you for knowing yourself. Im 30 and trying to shake off the marriage craze. I barely know why I want to be married.

[madisonblanding]

"i am so much more than my relationship." THIS !!!

[chill]

I just never understood why do u need to marry a person just to be with them long term? To me that's a gamble like real love is u being with that person without a piece of paper .

[oneluckypit]

So do I, I don’t want to have a relationship and I want to be my own.

[lex]

I am also in a similar boat and don't want to get married or have kids. But I'm also weird in the fact that I don't want to date or be with people either sooo, take that as you will lol

[Eliza-]

I dont want to get married and alot of my reasons are ones you mentioned in the video. It's tough because I'm from the midwest and the culture is to get married and have babies. And that is not for me