Let's Talk About Sex: The Reality of the Sexual Pleasure Disparity | Grace Wetzel | TEDxStLawrenceU

[jessicaascano]

When you're single and still watch this.

[dsmay]

One moment of silence for those who came with their parents to this tedx without knowing topic

[carmenbalko]

I AM an 89 year old Granny and by golly never in my Life did I ever believe Woman would finally Hear THE TRUTH…OMG SO GRATEFUL…ALL WOMAN SHOULD HEAR THIS…I MEAN ALL …I SO APPRECIATE THIS VALUABLE INFORMATION…❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤.

[Africatv]

Yho, the silence in this room was of another level.

[aidanrezvani]

I'm going to single handedly fix this problem.

[asandax]

The reason people are quiet is because They are so so focused in taking mental notes

[rixseixe]

Talking about equality of pleasure is significant. I think the first barrier to get across this inequality is communication. Speak to your partner - your likes, your dislikes and all that make you feel happy and content. The act is for both to enjoy - that is what all of humanity does.

[Chad_Thundercock]

She makes a few good points, but there is one glaring issue with her assumptions.

Biology and evolution don't give a single, cross eyed, red headed damn about 'social constructs' and 'gender roles'. Men orgasm easier than women becuase if men don't orgasm, they don't reproduce. Women can reproduce without orgasm, so the selective pressure of orgasm is not a factor.

So yes, it's absolutely possible, and even probable, that women have a harder time reaching orgasm due to biology. But it's not that women are hard to bring to orgasm, but that it's so comparatively easy to bring a man to orgasm.

Want to get off more often? Tell your partner what you like and need. Help out, even. You're adults. Take responsibility for yourself.

[infidelheretic]

I wonder if this was all secretly directed at her boyfriend.

[ishwindersinghwalia]

This was much needed!
Thank you for opening up a conversation about it!

[asithaperera]

If this is recommended to you, there is high chance that you are single or long distance relationship 😂😂

[tylerdurden]

Ok YouTube, I've watched it. You happy?

[Prodiggy]

What she did really well in this talk, unlike many other equality discussions in today's day in age, is she was very open about saying that this wasn't all just because of men or a certain group of people. She did an excellent job in pointing out that as a collective society, men and women, we should change how we look at this issue not to take away the benefits that it already gives but rather add more benefits for the other party involved. Greatly worded and put together talk.

[catkeys]

I don't know about anyone else, but for me, the woman's pleasure was always the main goal. They deserve all the pleasure we can give them.

[Ouhlyh]

A lot of women are bad at saying what they like. For me, I always focus on the women having a good time too, because I don’t have a good time unless they do too.

[rayana]

"Today, I'm gonna be talking to you about sex".
I'm genuinely surprised no one in the crowd yelled "YES!" after that bold statment

DISCLAIMER: I have no idea why this video was recommended to me. Honest.

[rohitk]

Dear youtube, i am single, why am i being recommended this? Is universe sending me some type of signal?

[akiragrant]

This lady is absolutely first class. She really is.

[keylas]

That's a voice that needs to be heard on repeat. Thank you.

[michaelware]

Men are not mind readers, generally speaking, women need to speak up, and let men know what they want, different women like different things, I think most men would be happy to oblige!