Masculine men should be dangerous...

Masculine men should be dangerous...
#dangerous #masculinity #realmen

[Fiery]

That aggression and competition just needs to be directed towards the right and appropriate avenues.

[ryancampbell]

As a teenager growing up in youth group, I watched that group of girls date exactly the opposite of what they claimed they wanted. I watched good, nice guys constantly get rejected and looked over for the bad boy player types. This guy speaks absolute truth.

[ElAnvaBar]

As Jordan Peterson once said:
"A harmless man is not a good man. A good man is a very, very dangerous man who has that under voluntary control."

[robertmacintosh]

Violent men are not a problem. Raising them to have no impulse control and they are both victims and the devil.

[blah]

agression and competition are not toxic masculinity - having no *control* over your agression and competitiveness is toxic.

[stephenfournier]

The problem isn't the competition or the aggression or the violence. The problem is glorifying those to the point that everything else is considered second class. You can be an athlete, competing every day to better yourself and also be willing to cook for your partner or take care of a kid.

I grew up with martial arts in my life. If I ever have kids I will put them into it as well because I want them to know how to defend themselves. It also advocates for so much more than physical strength, martial arts did not focus on how hard you could punch someone. It focused on discipline, on resilience, on focus, and also on compassion. Toxic feminism is just as dangerous as toxic masculinity, don't use the existence of it to avoid looking at the good parts of feminist learning.

[justinc]

Wise man once said, be kind, my compassionate, be gentle, and be the most dangerous man in the room should the situation require it.

Paraphrased from John Lovell the warrior poet society.

[RJMazz]

People say, these days, that you as a man need to have more feminine traits and back that argument up by saying that communication, vulnerability and empathy are feminine traits, when they necessarily aren't.

You can be masculine, communicative, vulnerable when the time is right and empathic. Balance is everything.

[mamavswild]

I show my 17 year old son your videos all the time, I’m a single mother raising him on my own because I don’t want to give him a stepfather who won’t love him and I MOST OF ALL don’t want him to EVER be able to say that he saw his mother bring men home or leave to go out on dates instead of making dinner.

His father died in Afghanistan in 2012.

Your videos are helping him understand himself because he is constantly indoctrinated at his high school and I have to work to bring in the money of two people because feminism changed the economy to a two person income system so I cannot homeschool him.

Thank you.

[TShirtAndReeboks]

Women don't want to be the target of violence, but do want a protector.

[whyomgwhywtf]

bridled strength. Teaching boys to understand their strength while also teaching them how to contain it until its needed.

[kodyfrost]

Jordan Peterson said it best, become the most dangerous person and then learn to control it

[gracec]

I'm in awe of a real man. Be you... don't change who you are and what you stand for. We women need you men.

[heidirobinson]

Speaking as an older woman...with unfortunate experience of this dangerous world....I totally agree with you!
When i was being violently attacked, in public by my (now ex husband) while holding and trying to defend an infant...all the men...yes ALL of them ran away. A little old lady....interupted by saying "excuse me! Can I help you?" Which caused him to pause, look around n he then stormed of (back to the pub)...my unborn Son died as a result of that attack.
Many years later....post divorce...my then partner....whom Id chosen as he was a non-agressive, considerare man... actually physically hid behind Me when he felt threatened by my ex. Who actually laughed n told him " I cant possibly hit you...your not a man - you're a mouse!"
That incident endeded that relationship...as I'd mistakenly believed that if anything happened he would stand besides me t defend my children n myself n not actually be a liability n anadditional person I'd need to be looking after!
Its NOT about chosing aggression or violence as a first response! Its about when all else has failed...being able t ensure survival ! (Of the vunerable, weak, dependents!) The natural world does this all the time!

[Loosensloppy]

It's better to be a warrior standing in a garden than a gardener standing in a war.

[ianperry]

You know what I did when I felt aggressive as a kid? I went to martial arts class. I learned to discipline myself. I learned self control. Integrity. courtesy.
And forged an indomitable spirit that has has carried me through my life. I took all my anger and rage and tempered into something productive.

[Sempiternal.Traditions]

When my guy was a child and was being bullied by a neighborhood kid 3 years older than him… his momma pushed him out the door and said ‘YOU GIT BACK OUT THERE AND STAND UP FOR YOURSELF.’ He knew his momma wouldn’t let him in until he did…worse than that she probably would have taken the switch to him if he had cowered down. So he went over and had his first for real knock-down-drag-out. He won that fight and he kept fighting. He’s always ready but he doesn’t look for it either.
Boys fight. It’s what they do. His momma did right by him. There’s no usefulness in raising soft men who can’t stand.
These silly women raising boys to be women are doing a terrible injustice to young men. We don’t have to fully understand it but it IS a right of passage for them. At least that how it is in the south..

[ionecuff]

You are so right Nick!!! EXACTLY RIGHT!!!

[WarThnderMudnen]

"You need to be a monster, an absolute monster.. and then learn how to control it."~ Jordan Peterson.

[jennisonb]

You want the guy that is capable of being dangerous. That line is powerful!