Can a Friend Date Your Ex?

Is dating your friend's ex ever acceptable? Is it a heck no, or are their exceptions to the rule? The hosts share their thoughts in this Girl Chat.

[Empressive]

Why are some of y'all getting aggravated if they speak spanish? I think it's cool

[tdepp]

I love how Tamar's personality can just be imagined haha
"Oh no no no no no What chu mean Loni??" *closes eyes and smacks tongue* "First of all" *a little head rollin' "if she yo good friend she wouldn't have no interest in your ex. I mean I would feel like you knnnoowwww she was checkin ol boy out while you was with him! to me that's not what a good friend does."

yup. it sure isn't!! because you vent to your bff about everything and that's the shadiest of all shades when you don't work out with him and she's seen you CRY over him that's bogus AF.

[_porshav]

You should date your friend ex after they breakup, thats the unspoken rule. A real friend who see her friend going through a real tough and heartbreaking relationship wouldn't even like the dude. So I think people who do that are envious of their "friend" or been feeling the dude the entire time.

[clairew]

Hahah! When Julissa started speaking to A in Spanish it was giving me life!!!! Friendship Goals😍

[Yuli]

She said in Spanish, "no le vamo a decir"


Translating to, "we're not going to tell them".

[KeraAshley]

I would LOOOVE to hear Tamar's opinion on this topic. Haha. 😂

[aaq]

it's just code that you don't date any of your friends ex's period!!! If they are meant to be and it's their soul mate yata yata then good bye Felicia! peace out! it'll be too weird! been there done that!

[jbrich]

It depends on the situation, how and why you two broke up, and if you still have feelings. Right now I am friends with my ex-boyfriend and have no romantic feelings for him anymore because it has been almost 10 years since we have been together. I would not mind at all, and would encourage him to date one of my girlfriends. Life is too short to let something like a girl code get in the way of true love. If my friend was genuine and honest with me about her feelings for my ex-boyfriend, why not let them be together? He is not my property, and I have moved on. In addition, my friend's happiness is more important than my ego. I personally have never wanted to date any of my friend's exes, but I had a girlfriend who went out on a date with my ex and lied about it. Now that was shady, and she did apologize later.Therefore, just be honest with your friend because we are all human; and, honestly friends normally have similar taste in men and it is not all that unlikely that you would fall for your friend's ex.

[estherjean]

I could understand if it wasnt a serious relationship. but if you seen me cry over this dude seen us go through it i came to you and you knew how hard things were for us and how hard our breakup was and to go back in date him just means that you not a real friend. you can date him if you want but dont expect us to be freinds while you doing so

[ashasheera]

Adrienne is obviously talking about Rita Ora. Duh..

[TiffanyRayneOfficial]

By general unspoken code rule, no you should never date a friend's ex. But if you're honestly over the relationship (and you may have moved on yourself), it shouldn't phase you. Otherwise, there's feelings still lingering. And if friend and ex hook up despite your feelings, they never cared no way. So let them be happy or miserable together haha.

[BabydollChelsea]

Personally I feel like it depends on the situation. If it's like a situation with Adrienne and I was crying over the guy to her and she was my "friend" through the break up etc and all of a sudden a week later they're together then yea that'd be a problem. But if it was a guy I dated in high school or some dude I haven't even heard from in 10 years I don't see the big deal. I've moved on, he's moved why not? If that's who you want then go for it. Especially if I'm married with kids etc why would I be mad that a friend is dating my ex from forever ago? We're obligated to one another anymore.

[Xkrsx]

I can hear Tamar throughout this whole thing like 'LIES! Girl that's my ex, MINE you get your own!' 😂😂😂😂

[ModestbyOC]

TRANSLATION FOLLOWS:
+Enes Kekec I didn't see an option to reply under your comment; however, to answer your question: 0:35 Adrienne asks Julissa, "You know who I'm talking about, right? " and Julissa confirms saying, "No les vamos a decir = We're not going to tell them." This is why Adrienne responds saying, "No, I know." :)

[MariposaDoncella]

Julissa said "no le vamos a decir" which means "we're not going to tell them".

[DavidLee-vpnr]

"Never put passion in front of principle" Mr Myagi

[itszbebabaybee]

Everyone complaining that's Julia's spoke a SHORT PHRASE in Spanish is in there feelings. It's America, people can speak any damn language that they want. If you are so curious to know what she said then use google translate. Tamera pointed it out as joke, not because she was actually offended. You people are sensitive. Get over yourselves

[Caileyxoxo]

I don't think a friend should date an ex whatsoever. That's just crossing the line.

[forewarne]

I wish there was more of Adrienne and her friends speaking Spanish. It gives me life to hear Adrienne speak her native language, and it would be great to see a whole conversation with her and either Julissa or someone else speaking Spanish for at least one minute.

[aspiringjourney]

God also showed you that is not your real friend... Next