SHOULD I MARRY AN 'UGLY' GIRL/BOY? - Mufti Menk @muftimenkofficial

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SHOULD I MARRY AN "UGLY" GIRL/BOY? - Mufti Menk @muftimenkofficial

Assalaamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa Barakaathuhu

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[mostafa]

Narrated Abu huraira:
Allah's Messenger (ﷺ) said, " two words (sentences or utterances) that are very easy for the tongue to say, and very heavy in the balance (of reward), and most beloved to MOST MERCIFUL. The words are: سبحان الله وبحمده سبحان الله العظيم
SubhanAllahi wa bihamdihi, SubhanAllahil 'Azeem."(Hadith number:6682 Bukhari)

[السيدالمسيحعبداللهورسوله]

حَسْبِيَ اللّهُ لا إِلَـهَ إِلاَّ هُوَ عَلَيْهِ تَوَكَّلْتُ وَهُوَ رَبُّ الْعَرْشِ الْعَظِيمِ

[lethalbullet]

Overall you end up with who is destined to be with you Allah is all knowing and knows who deserves who but attraction and personality also requires faith as a first on the list of criteria always pray and ask Allah for a righteous person

[munawarahmed]

Very nice commented by Hyderabadi Telangana India 🇮🇳 from Brazil 🇧🇷.

[JOAQUIMMIUQAOJ]

Get out of flesh the beauty is in the soul!!

[kulsoombhatti-vm]

How can i choose someone for me?if i don't know him, he can lie to me ?

[bimmerworld]

Im37 I’m not good looking no wants to marry me

I just stay isolated and read

I don’t want money I don’t want nothing just be left alone. That’s best way

I pray that Allah don’t make me old and vulnerable just take my death while I’m still healthy and young

I spoke to imam but they don’t want to know

No one wants to know you when you are nothing

[Asyncwav]

Daily Reminder: Try to supplicate this dua every single day to become a habit.
1. Dua That Guarantees You Forgiveness (Sahih Al-Bukhari)
Prophet Muhammad SAW (PBUH) said:
"Whoever gets up at night and says:
La ilaha 'illa Allaahu, wahdahu la shareeka lahu
lahul mulku, wa lahul hamdu, wa huwa ala kulli shayin qadeer.
Subhana allaahi, wal hamdu lillaahi, wa la illaaha ila Allaah,
wa Allaahu akbar, waLa hawla wa la quwwata illa billaah.

There is none worthy of worship in truth except Allah Alone,
He has no partners, He has the Dominion and for Him is all praise,
and He is capable of all things, praise is for Him,
and Far is Allah from imperfection,
and There is none worthy of worship in truth except Allah,
and Allah is the Greatest,
there is no capability nor is there any power except with Allah.

"Then he says:
Allaahumma aghfirlee.

O Allah forgive me!

Or he supplicates and his supplication is answered,
and if he makes Wudhu and prays, then his prayer is accepted.

2. Dua That Guarantees You Jannah (Sahih Al-Jami, An-Nasa'i, Ibn Hibban)
Prophet Muhammad SAW (PBUH) said:
"Whoever recites Ayatul Kursi, verse 255 from chapter number 2,
Surat Al Baqarah after every obligatory prayer,
then nothing is stopping him or her from entering Jannah,
except one thing: Death."

3. Dua That Wipe Away Sins (Sahih Al-Bukhari, Muslim, At-Tirmidhi)
Prophet Muhammad SAW (PBUH) said:
"Whoever says:
Subhana allaahi, wa bihamdih

How far from imperfections Allah is, and I praise Him.

"a hundred times during the day, his sins are wiped away,
even if they are like the foam of the sea."

4. Phrases That Are Heavier On The Scales Than An Entire Morning Of
Recitation (Sahih Muslim)
Prophet Muhammad SAW (PBUH) said:
"I recited four words three times after I had left you.
If these are to be weighed against all you have recited since morning,
these will be heavier." These are:
Subhan-Allahi wa bihamdihi, 'adada khalqihi, wa rida nafsihi,
wa zinatah 'arshihi, wa midada kalimatihi.

Allah is free from imperfection and I begin with His praise,
as many times as the number of His creatures,
in accordance with His Good Pleasure, equal to the weight of His Throne
and equal to the ink that may be used in recording the words
(for His Praise).

5. Dua To Stay On The Right Path (Sahih Muslim)

Ya musarrifa-l quloobi sarrif qalbi ala ta’atik.

O, Allah! The One Who turns the hearts,
turn my heart towards Your obedience.

6. Dua To Be Save From Totrments Of Grave

Allahumma inni wa a'udhu bika min adhabil qabri

O, Allah! Saves us from the torments of the grave.

7. Dua For The Best In The Dunya And Hereafter

Rabbana atina fid-dunya hasanatan, wa fil'akhirati hasanatan,
waqina 'adhaban-nar.

O, Allah! Our Lord give us all the good of this world,
and the good of the hereafter,
and Save us from the punishment of the Fire.

8. Dua To Help Pay Off Your Debts (Sahih At-Tirmidhi)

Allahum-makfinee bi halaalika 'an haraamika wa aghninee bifadhlika
'amman siwaaka

O, Allah! Suffice me with what You have allowed instead of what You
have forbidden, and make me independent of all others besides You.

9. Dua Of The Treasures Of Paradise (Sahih Al-Bukhari, At-Tirmidhi)
Prophet Muhammad SAW (PBUH) said:
"Shall I not tell you of a word which is one of the treasures of
Paradise?"

La hawla wa la quwaata illa billah

There is no power and no strength except with Allah.

10. Dua To Literally Boost Your Energy
Before you sleep recite:
Subhana allaah 33x, Alhamdulilah 33x,
Allahu akbar 34x

11. Dua That Protects You From All Evil, Magic And Affliction
(Sahih Ibn Majah, Abu Dawud, At-Tirmidhi)

Bismillaahil-lathee laa yadhurru ma'as-mihi shay'un fil-'ardhi wa laa
fis-samaa'i wa Huwas-Samee'ul-'Aleem.

In the Name of Allah, with Whose nothing can cause harm in the
earth nor in the heavens, and He is the All-Hearing, the All-Knowing.

12. Dua To Get Prophet Muhammad SAW (PBUH) Help in Yawm Al Qiyamah
(Sahih Al-Bukhari)
Prophet Muhammad SAW (PBUH) said:
"Whoever says the following, after hearing the call of adhan,
the call of prayer I will intercede for them yawm al qiyamah."

Allaahumma Rabba haathihid-da 'watit-taammati wassalaatil-qaa'imatah,
Aati Muhammadanil-waseelata walfadheelah, Wab 'ath-hu
maqaamam-mahmoodanil-lathee wa'adtah.

O, Allah! the Lord of this perfect call, and the lord of the prayer
that is about to be established, grant Prophet Muhammad (PBUH)
al waseela, Resurrect him with that status, that is so praise worthy,
which you have already promised.

13. Dua Forgiveness All Believers

Allahumma ighfir lil muslimeena wal-muslimaat, wal-mu'mineena
wal-mu'minaat, al-ahyaa'i minhom wal-amwat.

O, Allah! forgive the Muslim men and Muslim women, the believing men
and the believing women, the alive from them and the dead.

14. Benefits Reciting Surah Ikhlas
- Reciting 3 times a day is equivalent to reciting the whole Qur'an.
- Reciting 10 times a day and Allah will build for him a house in paradise.

15. Sayyidul Istighfar (Sahih Al-Bukhari, Sahih Al-Jami, At-Tirmidhi)
Prophet Muhammad SAW (PBUH) said:
" If somebody recites this invocation (given below) during the day, and if
he should die then, he will be from the people of Jannah. And if he recites
it in the night, and if he should die on the same day, he will be from
the people of Jannah.”

Allahuma anta Rabbi la ilaha illa anta, Khalaqtani wa ana 'Abduka, wa ana
'ala 'ahdika wa wa 'dika mastata 'tu, A 'udhu bika min Sharri ma sana'tu,
abu'u Laka bini'matika'alaiya, wa abu'u laka bidhanbi faghfir lee fa innahu
la yaghfiru adhdhunuba illa anta.


O, Allah! You are my Lord! None has the right to be worshipped but You. You
created me and I am Your slave, and I am faithful to my convenant and my
promise as much as I can. I seek refuge with You from all the evil I have
done. I acknowledge before You all the blessings You have bestowed upon me,
and I confess to You all my sins. So I entreat You to forgive my sins, for
nobody can forgive sins except You.

16. Dua For Protection From Shirk

Allahumma inni a`udhu bika an ushrika bika wa ana a`lamu wa astaghfiruka
lima la a`lamu

O, Allah! I seek refuge in You from knowingly associating partners with You,
and I seek Your forgiveness for that which I do not know.

17. Allah is sufficient for me Dua (Sahih Ibn As Sunni, Abu Dawud)
Prophet Muhammad SAW (PBUH) said:
"Allah will grant whoever recites this seven times in the morning or evening whatever
he desires from this world or the next."

Hasbiyallahu la ilaha illa huwa, 'alaihi tawakkaltu, wa huwa rabbul 'arsyil 'adheem.

Allah is sufficient for me. There is none worthy of worship but Him. I have placed
my trust in Him. He is the Lord of the Majestic throne.

18. Dua when entering market (Sahih At-Tirmidhi, Al-Hakim)
Prophet Muhammad SAW (PBUH) said:
"Whoever enters the markets and says (the dua below) Allah shall record a million good
deeds for him, wipe a million evil deeds away from him, and raise a million ranks for him."

Laa ilaaha illa Allaahu wahdahu laa shareeka lahu, lahul-mulku wa lahul-hamdu,
yuhyee wa yumeetu, wa Huwa hayyun laa yamootu, biyadihil-khayru, wa Huwa alaa
kulli shayin Qadeer.

There is no Lord except Allah. He is One and has no partners. His is the Kingdom
and for Him are all praises. He gives life and gives death. He is eternal and
everlasting In His control is goodness, and He has power over everything.

Insya Allah, may it benefits you guys.

This hadiths and duas that I learned are from many Islamic channels like
MercifulServant, TheProphetsPath, The Daily Reminder, ilovUAllah, Sense Islam,
OnePath Network and more. May Allah bless the speakers, the Islamic channel teams
for sharing this knowledge. May Allah grant all of us Jannatul Firdous! Ameen!

Copy it, save it, act upon it and share it. Hopefully by sharing it to others will be
recorded by the Angels as sadaqah Jariyah.

[fuwadhasan]

Now i got it 🤣🤣🤣🤣 i was also confused but after watching math it became clear 😃

[Dr.]

Oh So and So, think about how many People You have offended: With That Derogatory Term; Nust to get back at One Person; You are very contradictory to a statement You made just recently.

[Dr.]

Is it better to marry Blackbeard the pirate I love aboard a ship?

Hardy har har Matey!!!

[islamtube]

DAILY DHIKR TO REMEMBER ALLAH (SWT)

SubhanAllahi wa biHamdihi, Subhan-Allahi 'l-`adheem (Glory be to Allah, and Praise, Glory be to Allah, the Supreme)

Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "Two words are light on the tongue, weigh heavily in the balance, they are loved by the Most Merciful One." [Sahih al-Bukhari; #7:67, Sahih Muslim, #4:2071]

2. Whoever says SubhanAllahi wa biHamdihi (Glory be to Allah and Praise Him) a hundred times during the day, his sins are wiped away, even if they are like the foam of the sea
[Sahih al-Bukhari; #7:168, Sahih Muslim; #4:2071]

Abu Dharr reported that the Prophet (salAllahu alayhi wasalam) said, "Shall I tell you the words that Allah loves the most?" I said: "Yes, tell me, O Messenger of Allah." He (peace and blessings be upon him) said: "The words dearest to Allah are: subhanAllah wa bihamdihi”. [ Muslim and at-Tirmidhi.]

3. La Hawla wa la Quwatta illa Billah (There is no Might or Power except with Allah)

[the above is] a treasure from the treasures of Paradise.[Sahih al-Bukhari; al-Fath al-Bari #11:213, Sahih Muslim #4:2076]

4.SubhanAllah, walHamdulilah, wa La illaha ilAllahu, waAllahu Akbar (Glory be to Allah, All Praise is for Allah, There is No God but Allah, Allah is the Greatest)

The above are mentioned as the four most beloved words to Allah. It does not matter with which one of them is begun.[Sahih Muslim; #3:1685]

Abu Sa`id (may Allah be pleased with him) reported that the Prophet (salAllahu alayhi wasalam) said, "Perform the enduring goods deeds (al-baaqiyaat al-SaliHaat) more frequently." They asked, "What are these enduring good deeds?" The Prophet (salAllahu alayhi wasalam) replied: Takbir [Allahu Akbar], Tahlil [la ilaha illallah], Tasbih [Subhan'Allah], alhamdulillah, and la hawla wa la quwwata illa billah.
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[mostafa]

Heavy on the scale♥️♥️♥️
سبحان الله وبحمده سبحان الله العظيم
SubhanAllahi wa bihamdihi, SubhanAllahil 'Azeem

[fardeenmahmud]

Well for one, "ugly" or average-looking women are easier maintenance. To marry them is like buying a Honda or Toyota, which are very reliable. "Beautiful" women are human versions of BMWs, Mercedes-Benz, and Audi. Quite expensive to maintain, aren't they? And don't even get me started with Range Rovers. They are luxury cars with terrible reliability, Like pretty women with horrible character and zero imaan. And Range Rovers are not uncommon on the roads.

If you want a good-looking Muslim woman who is also pious and knowledgeable of Islam, then this type of woman is a Lexus. High-maintenance, but very reliable.

The reality is, most of us will settle with the Hondas and Toyotas. If you're lucky enough, Allah might bless you with a Lexus-type wife. But for Allah's sake, steer clear of the Range Rover, BMW, and Mercedes-Benz-type women. They'll cause lots of crashes on the marriage highway.

And that's my two cents of wisdom for today, brothers and sisters.

Assalamu 'alaikum wa rahmatullah

[Haooryu]

Checklist:
1. Good Looking
2. Rich isn't necessary
3. Educated
4. Popular

Me who is neither of the 4: depression intensifies...

[ahmadtamilan]

(He's the one who performs ikamah (modhinaar)and he's orphan)He asked her parents that "please marry your daughter & I will good care of her ", her parents accepted his compliment to marry their daughter :* And she shouted to her parents while he was waiting at hall that "he is so ugly and i can't marry him(as in stairs) and also she said to get this man out 🙂" .

[kalijasin]

Saying a woman is ugly is the same as saying Allah make mistakes.

[mobidick]

" marry women of your choice...."