21 Lessons I Learned at 21

or it was technically last week, my birthday was on 09/18/03 (also ignore the last lesson lol)

these are all based upon my experiences so feel free to disagree or share your own thoughts :)

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[indranidango]

Emotions are like poop. The longer you hold it in, the stinkier they'll come out.

[winnnerm-mktj]

The fantasizing one was so me, i was the typa person to imagine the best life and being delulu in my mind but that wasn't true you have to create your life instead of extra living in the imagination like i did, just look around and be grateful for the things u have this is the fondemtal step then go for the change

[jonathans]

The last one has some hidden meaning, aside from the humor of it: friendships are fragile and not all of them last.

[userdreamcatcher]

Life is like a fart. It will last but it will disappear eventually.

[yangyangjeong]

1:30 DIDN'T HAVE TO CALL ME OUT LIKE DAT

[Janhvi_sonii]

2:33 he's trying so hard to not to laugh😂😂😂

[SepnioJohnpaul]

This is why I followed you because of all the good advices and insights you give that is relatable and life changing when realized to one's self because "understanding the self is not simple, it takes time and effort"-Socrates

Thank you Tulio or may i say Tulip!

[vitoriacaetanov]

If you had posted this video 3 days ago I would still have friends...

[yorusan]

I think friendships can exist as long as you have common things to share but as long as you are changing your values, things changed. Not because of your fault or his but the conflicting values.

[oubiler_nieve]

Happy Birthday! Your advice really hit towards raw reality and growth. I thought the last one was going to be something like "Friends are like snowflakes...they're all different in a way that makes them inherently unique. Each have their own stories and struggles. Cherish the good moments you've had even as they may be there one moment and gone the next..." or something like that. The pee on them and they go away is relevant too though! 😂

[lorezfr]

i wasnt expecting the last one LOL! Also brazilian here, nice watching your stuff!

[anikasuraiyasura]

Thank you for making such a short yet such a big and valuable thing for us.

Right now I'm 19 and I'll turn 20 in 34 days (Jaunary 4th, 2025)
I'll keep coming back to this❤

And yeah...I'm grateful to all my sorrows and mistakes and problems I had in past and I'm sure the current discomforts will bring blessing in my life too. It's just that life is always trying to give you test and cute little rewards so that you, me, we all can improve ourselves.

[DreamersStudyLife]

As a writer, I quite disagree with the 14th point. Thank you for sharing these ❤

[alii]

The tips were so helpful thank you for making this video and happy late birthday!! I am also turning 21 this October ! :)

[Mari.Araujo_]

Tulio, seu conteúdo é maravilhoso. Me traz uma paz tão grande. Estou me sentindo muito ansiosa nesses últimos dias e todas as vezes que eu venho aqui, eu me sinto melhor. Por favor, nunca pare de gravar. Seus vídeos são muito importantes.

[grumpyy_vallll]

i literally cried watching this. as someone who excelled in school, going to college and finding out that i'm just average at best stole my identity and gave me the biggest heartache. i'm also '03 born turned 21 last year. I strongly resonate with everything you've said. i just want to be happy with myself just as i am. 🩷 so glad to have found this channel 🤩 will be returning to this particular video everytime i need the reassurance 😤

[suzywaffle]

You really are becoming my therapist, thank youuuu 🥹💖

[chandrikitiwari]

The last one is so true because when I start trusting someone and want to share something, it all falls apart. They reveal who they truly are and why they've been hanging around these past days—because they've now found someone more fun than me, maybe

[Deisy_fairy]

happy (late) bday take care of your petals 🙂🌷

[Yuuuyaaayy]

The only thing I feel rn is LOST, and it's not about what I wanna be or how I am gonna be that it's about how no matter how much I try I still make the same mistakes and the guilt, not achieving what I wanted to achieve....and I am stuck in this cycle I just don't know how to not make those mistakes again and again and again