The Type of Empath That CAN Bring A Narcissist To Their Knees

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The type and style of an empath that can bring a narcissist to their knees, is nearly ALWAYS missed or underestimated by a narcissist who while never introspecting, never learns. This type of Empath's strong moral principles eventually force the narcissist to discard them as they become too hard for the narcissist to control and therefore a real threat to the narcissist. The aftermath of the discard becomes another crushing experience for the narcissist and brings them to their knees as they have their false reality rocked to the core, watching this type of empath Rise and Rise and Rise.

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Im surprised any of us are even alive and breatheing after what we have all endured.
Its like a horror movie.

EnzoIsabella
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God takes everything that was meant for bad and turns it into goodness. God prepares a banquet for me in the midst of mine enemies ❤

shellybailey
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Being merciless is something we don't like but when dealing with a narcissist we have to be.

rimbakei
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Good points.. the narc needs the empath.. the empath does not need the narc..

anndillard
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After dealing with a narcissist we're a lot stronger than what we think we are, that's the biggest mistake that the narcissist makes, they underestimated the power of the empaths👍 Paula thanks for the video 🙏

garycordle
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Once you figure out a narcissist, it forces you to analyze all of your relationships. And in my case, there are usually other narcissists you have been putting up with. Thank you Paula.

kimhumiston
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If you leave first, they turn into the stalker from Hell, unfortunately. Not because they want you back for the right reasons, but so they can then leave you &... "win". They really ARE pathetic.

Ad_Astra_
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They want an empathetic person to maintain things in their life. They think the empathic person is a fool. 😢

michignamymichigan
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I am that Empath that you described. I didn’t discard the Narcissist and he didn’t discard me. God got rid of him in a spiritual act. The Narcissist had an altercation with my daughter. She pushed him out the front door and the police arrived. She defended herself and a friend that the Narcissist was attacking. he went into a Narcissistic rage. I was out of town. GOD SAID NO MORE EVIL IN THIS HOUSE. I now see his evil agenda. A year and two months later he is nothing to me. No Contact- DAY ONE. Therapy, Prayer and listening to content creators has brought me back to life. My soul is too important to give away to subhumans ever again. They use us and think we don’t have strength. We are actually much stronger than them. God provides me with strength and discernment.

Ptowngirl
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Let the narcissists in your life go! Live your best life without negative energy.

realhealing
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This was so spot on for me. Especially the part where you said once the empath becomes educated on the subject of narcissism or the fact that the narcissist does not have their best interest at heart, we can't unsee that! I can't go back and it's a very powerful thing. Once I figured out my ex best friend was a narcissist, now I can't unsee that I am surrounded by narcissists! I am working on me now and distancing from toxic people.

alexismerrilldragonqueen
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Also remember due to our kindhearted, empathic nature we were a super fantastic source of supply. And even if the narcissist says s/he made the break they still have more to lose. Why? Because there was such an imbalance in the relationship where the ratio was 90 to 10, the narcissist has more to lose. And the empath has everything to gain no matter who initiated the break. And when it becomes apparent we are gone for good. And we are unrecoverable, this hurts the narcissist to his/her core.

larrysimmons
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They think they're slick but there's always someone smarter and slicker!

willowclay
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This is exactly what's happening now. Once in a while I'll pass the ex on the road and he'll wave at me and I pretend I didn't even see him. Just keep focused on healing, draw closer to the Lord, and make the right choices. Eventually, God will vindicate you and you'll be a stronger, happier person.

Flynow-
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Honesty is my choice. They are able to change my behavior but they couldn't change my core. We all have these traits for survival but they are extremists and unbalanced. They are paranoid monster toddlers

cmbr.
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My strength came from self dignity after turning and twisting to please that insatiable monster I realized that I must leave with dignity .. best decision ever

breakthrough
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I played dumb a lot towards the end. He could not get reactions out of me. I just focused on myself and goals. I LOVE how he warned me years ago that he would haunt me... he had it so terribly wrong.

pamaylward
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I'm an infj sigma empath, nobody can control me 😂 I see through narcs and toxic people like highly polished crystal glass 😊

OrthodoxChristian
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Boundaries and dealbreakers are so essential. More to the point, honour yourself and your values. Never again will I compromise my values and allow anyone to push my buttons or my boundaries. Leading an authentic, good and successful life is the best revenge. Trust me! (8 years out now!). Keep in mind that narcs will never evolve or flourish. They will be forever this: a spoiled, bratty, entitled 5 year old child in an adult body! 😂. Take care! I left the narcissist 8 years ago and turned their silent treatment into permanent no-contact. That was the ultimate injury to their sick ego. Value yourself, your time and your energy above all else. Paula you’re right! — they are parasites that mirror our good qualities, future fake to the hilt and are experts at the rushing of intimacy. Their actions NEVER match their words. Pay close attention. ❤

marie-francemercier
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I have loved my recovery journey and love the person that I have become, I am 3 years now separated, 1.5 years divorced. My children and I are happier then ever. I've relocated away from him, had his parental rights terminated based on grounds of abandonment, bought a brand new house, going back to school to get my Batchlors, which is what I wanted to do before marrying the narc. I have not only got myself back but I have gained so much self love, confidence and renewed my love for God, and I have discernment to spot other narcs, I cut them lose right away and I live such a peaceful life. I started educating myself once I had thoughts of him being a narc, it was so validating and became almost obsessive on narc videos, I started gray rocking him and watched closely. I started setting boundaries and sticking to those boundaries and then he raged, I was scared so I got a hotel with the kids and got a restraining order, he took off cowardly to his parents house over 3, 000 miles away, filed for divorce and have not seen him since. This was very hard at first because I was alone in Alaska with young children and time of covid, schools were closed and I had to work to pay all the bills, I didn't know how I survived BUT GOD provided everything we needed and brought us to the promise land. I love my life now, and happy that I broke the chains of abuse!

lauraswanson