Does He Like You or Is He Just Being Nice?

Does He Like You or Is He Just Being Nice?

Have you ever wondered if the charming guy you've been chatting with is genuinely interested or just being friendly?
It can be tricky, especially if you're naturally playful or come from a culture that values teasing. As a Latino Cuban American, I've been there myself. Women often mistook my playful banter for romantic interest. It's essential to understand the subtle differences between a man who's simply being nice and one who's genuinely interested in you romantically. To help you navigate this common dilemma, I've identified 5 key indicators to distinguish between friendly and romantic vibes.

CHAPTERS
00:00 Introduction
00:42 Interested vs Not Interested
02:13 Signs A Guy Likes You 01
03:00 Signs A Guy Likes You 02
04:45 Quick Dating Advice for Women
05:09 Signs A Guy Likes You 03
05:57 Signs A Guy Likes You 04
06:41 Signs A Guy Likes You 05
07:33 Conclusion

5 Ways to Spot He Likes You or No:

01. Conversation Style
Does he initiate conversations?
Is he genuinely curious about your life?
Does he remember details from previous chats?
A man who's interested will invest time and effort into getting to know you.

02. Eye Contact
Sustained eye contact often signals attraction. However, it's essential to consider the context. If you've just met, he might be shy or intimidated. Don't hesitate to initiate a conversation to gauge his interest.

03. Advertising His Relationship Status
A man who's interested will be upfront about his relationship status. If he's hesitant to answer or avoids the topic, it's a red flag.

04. Focus
Is he fully present during your interactions?
Does he put away his phone and avoid distractions?
A man who's truly interested will prioritize your time together.

05. He Makes It Personal
A man who wants to build a deeper connection will ask personal questions. These questions show that he's invested in getting to know you personally.

While it's traditional for men to make the first move, don't hesitate to take the initiative. A simple compliment or asking for help can open the door for conversation. Differentiating between friendly and romantic interest can be challenging, but you can gain valuable insights by paying attention to these 5 key indicators.

Ismael Gomez III
I'm a Cuban - American Relationship Coach, Author, and Speaker.

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[oweber]

1. Conversation style (Attentiveness/Body language)
2. Eye contact
3. Advertising relationship status
4. Focus
5. Make it personal

[Imjustagrl]

I'm latina, so I understand the latin charm, charisma etc. It's still difficult because these men are usually affectionate, attentive by nature, or raised this way. Like the men in my family. I am having a hard time telling if he is just being playful. From what I am hearing, it seems very clear when a man is interested, so I will maybe help him out and see where it goes! Muchas gracias ❤

[YM-wjdr]

And avoid a guy or girl who says they're in a relationship but it's not working out. The relationship could be just fine but they want a chance with you too. Usually if a person will cheat to see you, he or she may later cheat on you too.

[charlottepeukert]

I don't like it if a man approaches me in a so called playful way, acting as if there's a romantic interest.
I'm not flirtatious and I don't like people who are. A friendly conversation is nice, but these latin lovers are acting as if they're on their way to the altar, thinking this is the right way to impress.Not for me.I like shy, reserved, humble men. If one starts bragging and making a fool of himself, I'm gone.

rest.

[ykt]

Your examples are always the most engaging and really help understand what you are trying to explain. I love watching your videos. I always get so excited when I see you've posted something new. I can't wait for your next one. Thank you.

[DivyaSingh-mmpk]

Thank you so much dear ❤😊
That's true always be his priority rather than just a option.
How far or close that person live doesn't matter if you are his world 🌍 he will always stand by your side .
🥰✨👍☺️🥰

Just like whenever I see ismael video 💐 a big smile comes on my face
😃😃

[patgiogi]

Ma ci sono uomini che conoscono queste tattiche e le usano per farti credere che sono interessati a te ma invece vogliono solo portarti a letto … conquistarti ma
non hanno intenzioni serie vogliono solo flirtare

[staywellandstrong]

WOW. 🎉😊 Thank you for sharing your amazing observations

[swapnamishra]

Hiii. You're always mentioning and making videos about men, how they like or don't like a women etc, but can you please also make videos on what are the traits should a woman raise in her relationships, what must be a dating standard for women, how to become high valued, which values muzt be developed, how to become a high value woman etc.

I see that many women these days including me are not skart enough to recognize and analyze who iz the right guy for them and what that guy really wants, some of women starts quarreling or shouting at their partners in their relationship while somewhere this behavior makes them toxic. So there must be a balance of kindness and self love with genuineness.
There are lot of things and questions like this in my mind and I would like to learn more about this from you. I hope no one hurt or cheat their partner in their relationship.

Thank you 🙏🏻

[Midnight_]

Please make a vid with more reference to texting and such. Im an introvert and most of my socialization happens online.

[Versatile]

Well for one thing I wouldn't be messing with them in or out of my account in that way.

I'm just trying to reassure you or anyone else that I'm not messing with in that way in or out of my account no need to have to worry about that

[Miracle-Needed]

*** 8 Signs of Poor Boundaries

1. Inability to make decisions
2. People pleasing
3. Endless guilt
4. Lost sense of self
5. Oversharing
6. Resentment towards other's boundaries
7. Passive aggressiveness
8. Fear of rejection/abandonment

How tragic is it
that we are terrified to be noticed,
but dying to be seen?

* Here's a few tips:

1. Change boundaries ONLY based on observable behavior,
not based on your feelings, or on their wants

2. Don't move people from one status to another, e.g., acquaintance to friend, too quickly

3. Some people start off respecting boundaries then become more manipulative over time,
so continue to exercise healthy and firm and clear and honest boundaries
(inside already established relationships)

To the person reading this, repeat after me:

Boundaries teach people how to love and care for me.
It deepens intimacy and love. It's safe to set boundaries.

Boundaries are about taking care of our heart, mind, body, and soul!
It is about loving and cherishing and honoring and caring for ourselves.

REMEMBER:

Just because someone gets
when you say 'no'...
Doesn't mean you should've said 'yes'!
It means they have to learn
how to deal with 'no',
they have to learn
to self-regulate.
You're saying no, IS YOUR ABSOLUTE RIGHT,
and in fact, it's your obligation to yourself!

* 10 "Survival Lies" You May Tell If You Have CPTSD:

1. fawn response

2. you start lying from very young to become socially included

3. story of yourself that is not actually true (you crafted it to adapt to environment)

4. lying to avoid loss

5. lying to secure resources/safety

6. lying due to shame

7. you find yourself in scenarios (due to past traumas) where it becomes easier to just tell overt lies

8. you lie after experiencing an emotional flashback

9. you lie because you don't want to have to caretake the other person's feelings

10. you lie because it feels nice to pretend to be (and therefore to feel)
somewhat normal, sometimes

* 4 things people with severe trauma do, without thinking:

1. Obsessing/ruminating

2, Assuming our feelings are wrong

3, Attaching to others in unhealthy ways

4. Viewing ourselves as others see us (without them knowing our back-story!)

* YES, You Can Heal Childhood PTSD -- These Actions HELP:

1. Learn to emotionally regulate

2. Save your social/romantic energy ONLY for people who are available and who reciprocate

3. Get really good at ending relationships that aren't healthy/reciprocal

4. Choose friends who are working on themselves and are doing things you admire

5. Find activities/hobbies that bring you HEALTHY growth/evolution

6. ALWAYS ASK: How do I feel after I hang out with this person? Inspired/energized?
Or drained and bad about myself?

ANYWAYS,

This will seem random, but...
I need help
I need unbiased advice

please, if you're reading this, and you feel called to respond to this comment,
I'm open to hearing from anyone who has something to share...

I have been plagued with an awful dilemma

I have been ruminating and obsessing over this for over 8 months now

I had a therapist

an AWFUL AWFUL AWFUL therapist

the absolute worst of the worst

instead of helping me and healing me
he damaged me and traumatized me

but I was too traumatized to do anything about it, at the time
I basically saw him for all of 2023

then I KNEW I could NEVER see him again

HE'S AWFUL

but...

he's also somehow wildly successful

and I can file a formal complaint
but if I do this
I must do it soon

the filing seems like a long and arduous process
and in the end, it's his word against mine...

I also don't know if I reap any particular benefits?
except he may get somewhat reprimanded
and I may get to speak up and use my voice

I don't know what to do

I must make a decision soon

thoughts, anyone?

[charlottehomosapiens]

I can't even focus in my daily life😂😅 already failed the task at hand

[mukalutahubahzaituni]

Assalamualaikum! Can you please 🙏 add us in the videos who dating a man in a long-distance relationship thanks 🙏

[mariaa]

Can you have as a future topic how to get out of the Friend Zone, thanks

[RR-kvzj]

Ismael there is a guy who starts a conversation and makes me smile, so he gets some financial benefits from me. His conversation is always to impress by telling lies, stories, jokes, so I believe and do something for him financially

[-EVs-]

For no. 1, what if he doesn't initiate a conversation with you, but whenever you initiate a conversation with him, he seems bubbly and interested to text you? He doesn't act so much like that in group settings, but he does initiate conversations more when he's with a group of people.

[empanke]

If a guy already has a girlfriend and is doing all the things you mentioned, is he looking to cheat on with you?

[susancampbell]

My friendliness gets misconstrued as flirting. Guys have 1 train of thought Ive left the station

[nihariyaps]

So I had a crush on this guy this whole year and now I understood that he is not interested 😅