Why I worry for the people pleasers - Dr. Gabor Mate

Why I worry for the people pleasers - Dr. Gabor Mate
Podcast: The Diary of a Ceo
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[CassandraWhitelock]

It took a lot of blood, sweat, and tears to be this gentle. Thank you God for seeing me through all the pain and darkeness.

[khalidabdelmoneim]

Once again this man reads me like a book..

[marlenordonez]

Wow this definitely describes me, always wanting to help even if it burns me to core.

[rawbarbie]

Because we grew up and got so hurt by the ones who were supposed to protect us. We don’t know what to do.

[BoycottTaxes]

I am a proud people pleaser. I will give all I can give.. Because I love relentlessly. Because thats what love is. Giving love gives my soul love. Because someone has to do it…Uphold the true meaning of love. I have watched people take from me..all of me.. and give little in return and I watch. Stoically. I watch them as they show me the depths of their depravity. Take for the sake of taking. To fuel the ego. Deprive me in an attempt to bring me to feel their level of pain. But I am love. I feel loved simply by loving. Being the love is enough for me. Its not about the answer.. the “getting” in return. In doing so, I put myself first by putting others first. I will love the lepers like Jesus taught us. Love the ones that have nothing to give in return. Because my love is enough to feed my soul. And I love myself for being this way.

[nicoletrueangellawson]

It's so true.. I'm 42 years of age and I'm just genuinely nice... Love people... But I get taken advantage of all the time.... I'm aware of it but don't know how to turn it off... Why .., .I'm so afraid....I'm still like a child in the mind... A joy to be around love unconditionally but this means nothing to people... Some times I just want to leave earth

[soulscream]

Funny thing I’ve learned.. is I get more of what I want when I just say no to what others want or expect, feels cold at the time but after.. wow

[wilder]

I'm a people pleaser. And this is so true. The problem with people pleasers is they just give regardless of the situation, the person receiving, etc. Its unbalanced and ultimately an unworthy and cowardly form of sacrifice. You end up bending the knee to people you shouldn't, giving what you need not give just for that pat of the head. Or at least, avoiding scorn.

Becoming a Christian has been helpful to me in this regard. It simultaneously reminds you to keep giving regardless of the consequences - and allows you to say no to ridiculous and unscrupulous people.

Christ both helps you give more than you thought possible - and gives you strength to stand up to the wicked and the selfish. I feel so much more able to say "no" than I used to. But I still give of myself. Or, at least, I feel compelled to.

I don't always measure up. Just saying...Christ and His church will change your outlook on this. Giving is commanded and celebrated, and so is courage.

[RDot-eqvk]

I will be nice know matter what it brings
Im not here to prove myself to people
Im here to prove to god 🙏🏽

[AntonioQuintal-bc]

The real criminality, or criminals are not nice, but live amonst all the rest of us..

[nadinealpmann]

I almost could hear him, maby if you turn down the music a bit

[TobiasLA]

How to change to project oneself when you're too nice?

[GheJhgi]

U should not worry who love s u or not
But worry if GOD doesn’t
E careful and mindful ❤

[analalanizromero]

I’m friendly but don’t let people walk all over me. I have boundaries, and I stand up for myself. I love the Ava Gardner quote, " When I lose my temper, you can't find it anywhere.” That is me as well 😊

[heidioxendale]

This is a mixture of trauma, but ultimately is SIN, we must repent

[xbeebsterx]

Niceness is from weakness. Say it point blank. Its a risk, because The World is genuinely Evil, and calls itself Righteous.

[alethealenning]

I don’t see being nice as the problem. It is the stupid people that worry me.

[BLKEND]

So glad I don’t care about other people.

[AntonioQuintal-bc]

Orchestrated crime, is real disregard to normal, real life..

[AntonioQuintal-bc]

All are in danger of the piutred, getting around..