Signs a guy doesn’t Like You | When Guys Don’t Contact You Often

How to tell if a guy likes you
This video is about a sign that a guy doesn’t really want anything from you. When guys are hard to get hold of or they take no initiative to contact you it should be taken as if they don’t like you. Is he interested in me? Probably not. Stop worrying about them and just cut them off? Can a guy like you even though he rarely contacts you? Does your crush like you even though he never texts you first? Find out.

[anasantana]

If he’s not contacting you, he doesn’t want you. Plain and simple. Thank you Kev

[akuasalaam]

"Stop talking to guys who aren't giving you attention!"

[Natashea]

Inconsistent reward creates an addict, be aware that his inconsistency is what makes you addicted to talking to him, if he isn’t consistent with you he ain’t shit sis!

[CrystalSicily]

Men don't Play "hard to get". They go after what they WANT! 😉

[susanstewart]

I think women should always date more than one man at a time until they are in a serious exclusive relationship. I would suggest that you just let them wonder why you are not always available and at their beck and call. Keep your dating life to yourself only.

[hatchettharley]

If he’s at home and he still doesn’t call, I think it’s pretty clear and when the world is back to the new normal he can kick rocks.

[macjones]

When you find out you gotta throw the whole man away🤦🏾‍♀️🤦🏾‍♀️

[flyandshy]

If he doesn't text you in 7 days - delete his number. I did that once and he flipped on me, said I should text him, I once did but he didn't text me the next time, then he complained that he has work etc. These men only keep your number if all these women he prefers cancel plans with him or stop texting them, then he will keep you as a plan B. If you are his priority, he won't leave you hanging and text every day or at least every other day. If he doesn't - you're an option.

[MissSarahGM]

They are not interested, not in a healthy way. Some will deliberately stop talking, leave you on read or unread, only to leverage their control over you. As Kev explained, in order for you to become the chaser. For example, I had this man, who stopped completely talking after we had a great time... I didn't contact him, didn't chase. Then after more than a month, he suddenly contacted me, asked about me during the pandemic. Then he asked if I was still online dating...I asked why would he care.. He said he was curious.. and then rubbed in my face he had "fun dates recently"...and he stopped responding to my message. So I know he expected me to chase him, because these tactics raise curiosity and work on the people with low self esteem. So he wanted me in his virtual harem and needed to throw a jab at me. Ignore these men back.

[kellegeez]

All these beautiful fine women in here getting played like a violin including me...my God there's no hope💔

[kaerose]

When you said, “They may not have a spot for you in their heart but they may have a spot for you in their bed”... I felt that shit!💯.. sad but true!😔

[mirembeleahaisha]

If his always admitting his busy 24/7 for you.. His online and he doesn't say hello. Delete his contact and run for your heart

[Kelema]

It’s somewhat ridiculous that this needs to be spelled out. If a guy likes you then you are on his mind and he will text you. Don’t buy into the “ive been busy” bs. No one is literally busy 24/7. Im a physician, I worked so many hectic jobs s with tons to do and late hours. But even I could find 30 seconds during the course of a day to check in with the people I care about. Typing a text takes less than 30 seconds.

[samarztk]

If he’ll like you— you’ll know! You won’t be confused. Once I accepted this I stopped wasting my time and became happy! Boy bye

[botshelo_M]

I'm mad at myself at this point for being naive 🙄😤

Damn didn’t expect so many responses 😂❤️

[NaturalDivineGoddess]

*When guy wants to talk to a woman?? 1. He's going to contact her.* 2. He's going to poke her. 3. He's going to text her even if it is something vague. *He's going to make sure he starts the conversation and then he's going go engage in the conversation .*

[userfriendly]

Yes, manipulative head games only result in women growing more annoyed and eventually bitter. So, it is best not to play this game with anyone and cut them off. A woman truly needs to just listen to her intuition. If this behavior bothers you, there is no reason for you to overanalyze anything, listen to your intuition and learn about yourself, not his/her childish behavior.

[amarie]

I'm officially depressed. The truth is obvious but still hurts

[candicesd]

“Unless your tongue is broken!!!” Listen! That part took me out 🤣

[cappygurl]

I am done letting men run game or put poor effort, I got back to the online dating app with a new perspective and new strategy. First of all I don't message guys first. I will match them but will not begin communication. Second I give them a day or two to see if they are trying to get to know me, still not starting conversations my self. Also wait and see if they continue to message me, If there is a 1 day long gap in their communication I stop communication. The guys who are serious about meeting up will continue to pursue also most people are home right now, if they aren't putting effort while doing nothing at home, they won't put any effort when life gets back to normal. We women really have to have higher expectations of men because if we don't we will only get and settle for scraps.