One Question to Repair a Relationship After a Big Fight

Conflict is unavoidable in relationships, but it's also healthy. But most of the time we storm out of the room or explode with bad words, only to make things worse. That's the problem. Here's how to repair things.

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Dedicate yourself to the pursuit of love. Love in relationships. Love for yourself. Love for the world!
FEEL THE LOVE

[ShaveontaeJefferson]

If a person is not willing to try and work it out / repair the relationship. They don’t want the relationship anymore. People work for what they want.

[flyingstump]

This works when people can be rational and arent narcissists

[rileytymofichuk]

Man reading some of these comments is really eye opening, I’m so grateful that regardless everything myself and my boyfriend have been through; that we’re still able to come back and talk about it after.. I just wanted to find what to do with myself now that we finished coming back together and I still feel like a piece of shit for how I reacted in the first place

[AntjeMoench]

This is Epic! Love your creativity I'm heartbroken imagining life without him. Memories of our laughter and quiet nights haunt me. Every day feels empty without him. I miss him terribly and wish he'd come back to me.

[lunarae]

Here for help to figure it out because I really love him and he is worth learning new ways of communicating for but he doesn’t want to learn so I can’t make him change I can only change myself 😢hoping it goes well ❤

[Antoniathinks]

All of this is great, and….when another has depressed or anxious mood, filters things, this leaves one partner over-tending and the other under-tending. Not a sustainable balance. If the thought filter returns again and again like a skip on an old vinyl record, it can be very hard to find what is needed….to leave them space or regroup…whatever the need is before the hands are rejoined.

[BeUnstoppableWithKalpana]

Thank you @Stacy for choosing to eradicate loneliness. This is such a big pandemic around us . People are suffering at all different levels n they have no one to lean on to, who could understand loneliness is all about.
Great tip 👍 btw to connecting after disconnect 😊

[JorviksWitcher]

Finding a video like this after the argument I had last night with my fiance helped somewhat. But I still feel lost, we went to bed without reconciliation what so ever. Normally we cuddle but it was very divided and hard to sleep last night. It wasn't even that bad of an argument but now I'm feeling overly paranoid, crying and apologizing for even answering a text to them. And this morning they were loving and affectionate like nothing happened but i couldn't stop thinking about it and still can't. When hes upset he goes quiet and doesn't speak to me I vocalize probably more than a should. I don't know what to do at all

[juns]

I'm not sure if that's that best way to come together after a big conflict, especially when they were mean.

[blyssH]

Seen, heard, understood and loved. Amen

[maryharris]

This advice is good and not just for couples it could be applied to children too it would stop a lot of alienation 😊

[patrycjaszlachta]

So good to see you Stacy. All the best for you❤

[beverleybrangman]

Very helpful. I needed this. I would like to try it the next time I have a conflict

[FrankyboyFloyd]

Great… but impossible to do with people with avoidant attachment… Very sad

[johnrainsman]

I'm currently mad at my girlfriend. See, we've had arguments so many times, and so far, it's always been my fault. I was always the one who was wrong and had to apologize. The one who had to redeem themself. And I have no problem with owning my mistakes. It's just, I'm tired of being _that guy._ Yesterday, I told my girlfriend that I was jealous of her. Jealous that she was always right and I was always wrong. That it brought me so much pain and self-doubt. And she said, "It's not always about right and wrong."

That actually angered me. Can anyone guess why? I don't want to have to explain it. I want someone to understand how I'm feeling without clarification. So again, I told her how I was jealous of her for always being right...how I was in pain by constantly being "the bad guy" while she was "the good guy" in our conflicts...and she said it isn't always about right and wrong. Why do you think that response bothers me?

[gm-knjx]

Wow! Great message!
..more please😁and
Thank You. Just found
and subscribed.☯️

[cadunoyoutube]

I cant help to feel under attack at every comment my girlfriend makes. Sometimes i feel like there is nothing she actually likes about me, as im always being criticized. That self doubt makes me adapt a defensive behavior that always leads to arguments. It’s getting more often and nastier with time. Have no clue what to do to break that cycle. She doesn’t accept feedback well and its really hard to talk about relationship with her

[connorpena]

3:44 is the question for those wondering

[joshuascott]

I don’t say any horrible things that’s toxic to my girlfriend in massive fights with her

[hj_g]

My partner repeatedly ignores me for days after arguments, even when I try to my best to communicate right after the argument. I’m always the one who has to reach out to reconnect. I don’t know how to repair this at this point.