3 Ways to Activate His Deepest Desire | Dating Advice for Women by Mat Boggs

Mat Boggs shares dating advice for women and 3 ways to activate his deepest desire as a man.

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VIDEOS ABOUT COMMUNICATION WITH MEN (Communication Advice)

3 Things You Can Say To Make Him Feel Like a Man

5 Things Never to Say When Fighting (How To Communicate)

What to Say When a "Vanisher" Comes Back

VIDEOS ABOUT DATING ADVICE

7 (FALSE!) Reasons You're Still Single

Funny First Date Story! Gotta hear this?

What NOT to do on a First Date (Strange But True)

VIDEOS ABOUT UNDERSTANDING MEN

Why he acts interested, then disappears? (The inside answer most don't know)

Scared of getting hurt again? Use this mindset:

When Should You Sleep With Him?

VIDEOS ABOUT WHAT MEN WANT / HOW TO TELL IF HE LIKES YOU
The Kind of Confidence Men Find Sexy

5 Unusual Signs Your Man is into You!

How to tell if he is emotionally available

VIDEOS ABOUT CONFIDENCE AND SELF-WORTH

3 Affirmations to Attract Love

3 Ways to Create More Self-Love

Uncool is the New Cool (5 "Uncool" Things I Do)

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Mat Boggs Bio:

As a sought-after dating and relationship coach for women and international speaker, Mat Boggs has helped thousands of women understand men, improve their relationships, and attract the relationship they want.

As the best-selling author of Project Everlasting, and creator of Cracking The Man Code, Mat Boggs? dating and relationship advice has been featured on national media including The Today Show, CNN, Headline News, Oprah and Friends, and many more.

Mat's Mission: To increase love in the world, one heart at a time.

As a dating coach for women, Mat believes that your history does not determine your destiny, and that you are more powerful than any circumstance you are facing. The relationship dream in your heart really can become the life you love living!

Mat Boggs highly acclaimed relationship programs have served women around the world in all age groups.

Directed and Editing By: Luke Dejoras
Written By: Mathew Boggs

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[annadawson]

When my husband was really sick and couldn't work or do a whole lot like he used to, he got pretty down about it of course. Anyone would when you can't do what you are used to, women do too. So one day when he was really down, I said I loved him and had to go run an errand and will be back soon. In addition to that errand, I got him a blank card with cute animals on it and inside I listed all the things he does for me even when he is limited to the house. It was a long list as I filled that card up on all sides except the front, and I sneaked it in the bedroom and put it on his pillow when he was in the washroom, and went to start dinner in the kitchen. I had a huge grin on my face the whole time as I listened to him go back to the bedroom and hear him open the envelope and a minute or two later he came in the kitchen with tears streaming down his face and hugged me for like 5 minutes!! I said see? I will always need you, no matter what, I would be a wreck without you, I love you. It made me feel better that he saw what I have been saying to him all along. It really helps a lot when someone actually sees on paper all the things that they contribute, it makes it feel more tangible. It made him feel very needed, desired and loved even when he didn't believe it himself because of his health at the time. He also said he loved me just as much as the day we met. Always surprise your partner with lots of little things, because it is fun to see their reaction and it makes the giver that much happier too.

[NickNotas]

Eye contact, a warm smile, and laugh at his jokes. He’ll melt every time.

[IM-uhtk]

Video summary:
Men want to provide and be respected.
1. Choose to need a man (3:50)
2. Let him take control; believe in his ability to provide for you (5:15)
3. Celebrate his job well done (9:50)

[TarotbyGlow]

I’ll be honest, I watch a lot of coaches on YouTube but this is the first time in a long time I’ve felt like I can actually use a strategy without feeling as though I’m playing a game and/or manipulating my partner. Matt, you’re the man! Thank you 😊

[rebeccastevenson]

My husband had a gorrible day today and I used the phrase "You do an amazibg job of being my man, " and I've neverbdelt his energy shift so quickly into melt mode. It touched him where he needed it and breathed a little more wind back into his sails.

I've veen watching your videos and have found so many good things to glean from them. Many things and concepts i eithwr already do or have known but its nice to know I'm on the right track after almost 17 years of marriage. Thank you, Mat! ❤ 🤗

[SamElle]

i struggle with showing men that I need them. I have been firecely independent my entire life and my parents have taught me to be okay just on my own and as a result, its a struggle to let people help me. I definitely feel like guys that have been in my life in the past feel like they weren't needed and this is something Im working on

[joheming]

Married 37 years and this is some of the best marriage advice I've heard! And I can promise it works, too. Sharing with women in my family! Thank you.

[Rene-poim]

Wow. I was just imagining how I would feel if my guy said, "You're doing a great job at being my woman.". The idea makes me want to cry. I want that validation too.

[paulinanakabugo]

Matt, u do a great job of being our coach. Much respect.

[michelemeyer]

Hey Matt, I love your videos. My husband is my best friend. Married 10 years, living together 17 years, friends 25 years since I was 12 and I am still head over heels in love and have a crush on him like a high school girl. I utilize a lot of your strategies because I want him to feel like the man I feel he is... and it has definitely strengthened our relationship and built confidence in one another. I would love your thoughts on how to let him know areas that I need/desire a little more without making him feel inadequate or not enough or seem like I'm nagging. If you already posted a video about this, sorry.. but then can you share the link. God bless you and your family. Thank you for pouring into this generation resources that it needs for a healthy loving relationships and the lense to clearly see our roles as wives and the way to give our husbands the platform to be the men they were created to be. It's so important for us to model this for our children so they too can share the same experience.

[jjpl]

I thank him for always making me feel safe and protected.

[vickief.]

Mat, I'm glad you have PATIENCE. Because, I am a female and I might have not corrected your cutting. I get to cut all my onions all by my little old self!

[Urobam]

This is an amazing way to treat your husband, partner, lover, friend. The fact that he use and went back in history and saw how man provided and needed to do an incredible job, and for his partner to praise him; Mr. Boggs did not just came with a new theory, or something he created, he used actually facts. Mat, you are doing an incredible job! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[coffeefordinner]

Great advice. Essentially you're lifting his confidence and bigging him up as a man. Very easy and wholesome to do when you're with a man you really like or love!

[jameslakewood]

Thanks for explaining what it means to respect a man and what makes him feel respected

[vhayashi]

When they know you don't need them for anything, that's when they will treat you right. Getting there is hard since most of us have been sabotoged by Narcissists. Most just want attention and not a relationship so be aware of that ladies. Love yourself and you will be happy. We don't need someone to love us especially since most aren't capable. Men don't need love, they need Respect like he says. Don't let them disrespect you either! Listen to your gut!

[terriestes]

Mat, you have such great advice! Thank you so much! The way you describe everything makes it so much easier to understand the process again. I was with my man for 27 years and he passed away going on 6years. Now I want to start again and it’s very intimidating but it’s exciting too. Thanks for refreshing my memory how it all comes together again.
Wish me luck! Thanks again.

[rose-mariedurand]

A good advice of mine for yourself and for your loved one,
is to always (as much as possible) be happy when you go to bed at night, grateful for the day, excited for the next one, and letting him know either with words of just a state of being.
As an example, I love hot weather, and when it's 30 degrees the next day, I tell him how excited I am to wake up with the sun and have coffee or breakfast with him the next day. How it feels on my skin, on my health, etc...
Find things that make you happy on a daily basis and be grateful to share them with him.

[alicebadler]

Hey Mat - I have been doing inner work for 20 years (still doing inner work) and added dating/relationship work about 8 years ago. Have read books and done seminars and now finding these great youtube vids. I have done programs with leaders in the field and I have to tell you that you are AMAZING !! You give us such important information, in a language we understand, that entails both how men feel, what they need AND inner work type stuff (for us). Fantastic - thank you so much. I have a lot of your vids to watch, I see :-)

[jennahudson]

I have said, “Do you want to know what I love about you?” Then I list 3-5 things and I express my appreciation for him.

Another thing I told him that I made a New Years Resolution to concentrate on seeing the positive in my man and concentrate on building him up. That was my 2020 New Years resolution. Later in conversation, he parroted that phrase and said, “I want to build you up”