5 Misleading Things Men Say and What They REALLY Mean

When you have strong feelings for a guy, it can be really tricky and confusing to grasp the true meaning of the words he says to you.

What’s worse is there are certain phrases that are BIG RED FLAGS most women miss that can end up making you waste months or years with the wrong guy.

So today, I’m going to reveal the true meaning behind five misleading things men say that consistently get women in trouble so YOU can avoid being played.

[AlishaConn]

The thing I enjoy most about watching your videos is you are always smiling, which makes the situation I’m in more enjoyable to watch! Thank you so much for the video and advice Bern!

[smores]

These are all accurate points, especially the second one. Met a guy online and he had given me a few yellow flags but against my better judgment, I went on a “date” where we met at a park because of Covid shut down and no businesses were open. Within the first 15 mins he gave me huge red flags and after another 15 mins, blatantly asked if he could come to my apt. When I told him I had just met him, his reply “I didn’t know you had so many rules” I couldn’t end the “date” fast enough

[roselynschannel]

It’s okay to be single and stay single until someone deserves you.

[MyLaura]

Become the best version of yourself first, you attract what you are, people are only reflexions of your self concept, only those that resonate with you show up

[fozytyw.]

Thank You! My exes always said: you're too good for me and I was just joking. Now I'm thinking that relationships were joke.

[katli]

I wish I'd had all this info and advice decades ago. My life sure would've been different today.
I hope young generations discover you and get a head up on manoeuvring through this toxic culture today. I love your work. Thank you so much.

[justjess]

"Testicular Fortitude " best thing I have heard in a while! 😂

[lindacooper]

Thanks Bern! You give realistic/ reasonable advice!!!

[TheJanCapricorn]

I'm busy has been his excuse since a while. I used to feel that we had a very good bonding. At times, he even said he wished we could have a family together. I'm just so confused now as to what he really wants.

[maidenmarian]

I am seeing a guy right now but I don't know if we will keep seeing each other.
Luckily I am starting a new job, so maybe If it does not become seeing each other regularly or getting more serious, I might NEED the distraction of the new job!!!
I hope that this does not become the case again.
I have known him for over 10 years.

[charlottethomas]

You really are insightful. Thank you Bern

[tj]

Very helpful Bern ! Thank you so much ! Appreciate you so much ❤

[kaia]

I got the I want to wait five years and see what to do then. It almost sounds like he has a plan, but he's just deferring his decision to the future.

[JudyF]

Thank you ever so much Mr Bernardo Bendez your logics is so so edifying, inspiring, and motivating, I intend to connect both inspiration and motivation to bring out the best version of me. Thank you again this is very helpful❤❤❤❤❤❤

[maryloudelossantos]

Thank you for the valuable, helpful TIPS.

[MsLilac]

I found your relationship videos beneficial. 😊👍 I have been married these 4 years plus now.

[Janiacster]

Thank you. I wish my dad ir mom would have been able to help me navigate all of this.

[Soleil]

What you say is always helpful.So grateful, thankyou😊

[solutionstenants]

Your content is awesome. Thank you so very much.

[nottherealmccoy]

How about “your very refined, I’m a little rough around the edges.” Or “let’s take each day as it comes” or “your overthinking it.”