John Mayer on Marriage

[LadybugsTX]

It's not about "having" to rely on someone. Being able to is the key.

[dna]

One of the most beautiful things I've ever experienced as a woman with a man was being in the kitchen cooking up a meal, doing what I like to do which would ultimately bless him because he loved home-cooked meals & him being in another room with an electric saw cutting wood to fix a window frame that would ultimately bless me. He was totally in his element doing what he loved to do and it was beautiful 🙂

[debramurphy]

That was my late husband. I miss him, and am so lost without him.

[TheSevenJr]

I'm a grown man but my wife is so nurturing, when I get sick all I want is for her to take care of me because her presence is so comforting.it really goes both ways.

[mrstired]

I would love to have a marriage like this.

[misstbikini]

I needed to hear this. I lost my husband in February. He was my whole world and I trusted him with everything and I relied on him for everything. Little did I know that this is something that he found endearing and wanted to do. Thank you for this post.❤😢

[wendygalligan]

My husband is not a Mr. Fix it naturally but he has a Helpers heart and always helps especially when he sees I’m burnt out or can’t get things done. If I say I’m struggling he goes “behind my back” & researches what can help my issue. It makes me feel so loved and makes me want to reciprocate so our marriage flourishes. This is how God made us & intended it 🥰❤

[briannehawks]

I learned just how much my hunny loves me recently when I fell and got a compound fracture. He walked into my hospital room and said, "I've got this, I've got you. You're gonna be fine." And he proceeded to take care of me in ways I never thought about. He used to be a Lifeguard on The Strip (we live in Vegas) and took care of his grandmother and aunt when they were dying from cancer. He knew his stuff. And though now things are back to normal, it brought us closer. I'm proud to say I can rely on him. And that doesn't make me less independent or less of a woman for it.

[gmmartines]

Yep. Always said sexiest thing a man can ever do is protect his woman/family.

[SusieQ]

The best thing about my husband is he is as steady as a rock. I love how dependable he is, and I appreciate all that he does for our family ❤

[KathytheMama]

I know how to do a lot of things a man can do. Change a tire, change a battery, use a saw, lawnmower, drive a tractor etc.. but the other day my car needed a new battery and I was stuck in front of a grocery store. I called my husband right away. Even though I know how to do those things doesn’t mean I want too. My husband finds such JOY In helping me and doing these things for me so I called him. Made my day seeing him so happy. He never complained, just said “ babe I’ll be right there.”
We have our roles and I’m proud to be his wife and a stay at home mom of 4 ❤❤❤

[aryanchatterjee]

John mayer is my GOAT 🐐
His songs are absolutely beautiful.

[kiannaquick]

That’s my favorite thing. I’m a pretty sure woman but I got in a hit and run a month ago. I was rattled someone hit my car and left so I pulled over and called up my husband. He was at work calmed me down and told me step by step what I needed to do.

[llkg]

I'm tiny, and I changed TWO tires for an ex boyfriend. I CAN do it, but d*mn I love knowing that if I call my husband, he'll come and take care of me. ❤
Likewise, I know he appreciates being able to rely on me too.

[MrJes]

We need to be needed. A good, thoughtful woman recognizes that and will want to be taken care of.

[UnidadFamiliarCristiana]

I've listened to this guy's music for years and this is a recent event. He did not think this way when he wrote all those songs

[christina]

I love hearing this, especially from John Mayor... I feel like God layed him on my heart the other day to pray for him....

[noskalborg]

In a good marriage it positively goes both ways instead being onesided or codependent or spitefully independent.

[johnmcwick]

I am still single, but hope one day I too will be relied on just like that!

I’m working on my life though, so I’m not just sitting around and doing nothing. Wish me luck!!

[crunchybeen]

I love that I can rely on my husband. God provides.