3 UPDATES: Parents Who Treated me Like Crap Suddenly Want to Visit me & Told me They'll be Bringing

3 UPDATES: Parents Who Treated me Like Crap Suddenly Want to Visit me & Told me They'll be Bringing a Surprise For me as Well....I Told Them to Keep The Surprise to Themselves Because I Moved States 2 Years Ago & I Never Want to Meet Them Again

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Growing up, I always felt like a burden rather than a child my parents actually wanted. My father, a corporate lawyer in his mid-fifties, and my mother, a real estate agent in her early fifties, were far more invested in maintaining their upper-middle-class image than actually being parents.

[mareelovely]

Again, if this level of harassment was from anyone but family, it would be felony stalking.

[tc]

Funny that the parents were seeing a family therapist without the FULL family. Which means they were able to tell their story and only their version.

[budsbunny]

Well... Tell them, It's clear that disappointment runs in the family😂😂😂

[dittymargoo]

What a champion OP's friend is. Finally someone told the real truth about OP's life...shows how little this family really cared about or knew OP.

[jordancross]

Very funny how some always play the "Family" card when it's only convenient for them

[rmhartman]

if YOU wanted to make amends?
what do you need to make amends for?

[frankrosenbaum]

OP, I have used the line "If I had said yes, you would have accepted it right? Well, why doesn't my NO carry the same weight?"

[rmhartman]

"isn't there a way to work this out peacefully?"
yes. but they keep ignoring it.

[Jasonfallen]

I can’t believe how much crap OP took without taking basic steps to protect her privacy and that she never made a huge grand effort to tell everyone at once exactly why OP will NEVER accept this type of bullying “reconciliation” effort.
One explicit message to everyone including cops and lawyers that any efforts to communicate on behalf of or in favor of the parents will be met with hostility, permanent separation and legal consequences whether a distant cousin or the nosy busybody aunt.
I just can’t stand seeing these cases where one good swoop of putting this crap in its place can do 99% of the work needed to stop the harassment.
OP is obviously the victim. But even as a victim there are basic levels of self protection to which one must avail themselves and in way too many cases we see people avoiding doing even that 😢

[nancyriggs]

Geez OP, I'd have told them to get bent and changed my number.. Blocked them in every form of communication.. That Aunt is not calling for your benefit, but for their benefit.. Id have told Aunt, she stood back and kept her trap shut throughout your childhood; so she can keep it shut now.. Cousin can pound sand also.. Good for your friend for ending their wooh is me story..

[inchpp]

What is it with these spineless doormats and not being capable of making their own decisions?

[elizabethrossi]

Oh, yeah..."FAMILY" is the new "swear word". And that "Grand Gesture" of a Trust Fund? THAT was CONTROL.

[msd]

Send your friend a bottle of champagne and some lovely flowers. She helped you more in one day than any therapist or lawyer could have!

[RickH-vg]

Sorry to say but the "surprise" the parents wanted to give you was most likely to move into YOUR HOME and to support them. Good for you for saying NO to them.

[CarolynBirkner-bh]

Why didn't she not block her Aunt and her parents? She really didn't need them in her new life!

[Mrwillie]

This is a perfect example of parents who treat their child like crap and wonder why their child want nothing to do with them

[destinyschultz]

If I were OP, I would give all the emails and voice messages to the therapist, telling them that it's not wise to advise abusers to get into contact with their victims regardless of the progress they made in sessions. If they continue to push the parents into contacting OP, they should report them to the board of medicine for the dangerous practice before OP takes everything to the cops for harassment and threats.

Plus, if OP were wise, they should give all family members a P.O. box address so they wouldn't have their new address.

[Questor-kyfv]

There is something that apparently hasn't occurred to OP. When her parents were unemployed for a while, they suffered a severe financial setback. At their time in life, even with eventually getting jobs again, their future retirement funding and plans will have had to have been scaled down, probably a good bit. I suspect that they may have been planning on using OP to boost their retirement lifestyle in some way. Possibly by living together. OP should not share her new address with ANY relatives. I have a really strong gut feeling that I'm right about why her parents are doing all of this. I'm sorry that OP's parents are the type to try to take advantage of and use their own child. Fortunately, we can make our own family through marriage and friendship.😊 Enjoy your future, OP!

[lesleygreen]

Just block them and change all numbers. Be careful who you give any new addresses and numbers to.

[ravynshea]

I would honestly block the entire family, cause damn. Also family therapy without the whole family? yeah okay