50 Signs You’re an INFJ

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[RensRoom]

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[michaelpease]

You know you’re an INFJ if the most burning question imaginable is “why am I here?”

[GO-FORTH-MINISTRY]

"You don't need people but you REALLY do need people" YES 😔👏

[zebrastripes]

You know you’re an INFJ when you have a near panic attack when someone takes too long to respond to a text message & you rehash every conversation you had with said person and come to made up conclusions why they are mad at you and they finally respond normal and you go damn I did it again overthink the shit out of situations..what I hate most of being an INFJ 😒

[bevm]

You know that you are an INFJ when meeting another INFJ in real life is almost like a religious experience —- YES!!!

[MVPA-ioee]

*You know you're an INFJ:*
1) Pretty sensitive but rational
2) your friend wonder where you disappeared
3) analyze others emotions than your own
4) enjoy the idea of travelling, but travelling in your head
5) people don't really understand you
6) feeling guilty about feeling misunderstood because feeling unique is a bit vain
7) when you get angry - an absolute configuration
8) sick of people telling you're a unicorn
9) decent in math but also good in literature, history - a bit of everything (all rounder)
10) life is a perpetual quest to under what you're looking for
11) people find you kind of mysterious
12) you're intense (deep) - in nice friendly way
13) most of your friends enfp (or none at all)
14) soft spot for intp and entp?
15) never seen as the best but think you're the best in some domain
17) if stressed turn into SC dominance ESTP
18) when you're confident you feel like you're not ESTP but ENFJ
19) single criticism will shake of your confidence
20) when in good mood people see you as extrovert
21) don't understand PJ different (I don't understand this point)
22) an advocate - you don't need people but also need them
23) a lot of stuff you do, nobody knows about
24) try to be nice to everyone unless they don't make an effort
25) very cold to someone when you know that person betrayed your trust
26) worst door slam can be seen as a little bit sadistic
27) you have many different type of personality to different person (chameleon)
28) feels like an actor but also seem detached
29) think you can win more debates if you're shameless
30) neither right nor left brain but both
31) missing an infj in real life feels like religious experience
32) talking to another infj could be source of warm and relief
33) unique kind of charisma
34) your phone in airplane mode/offline so not to be disturbed
35) your empathy can be a source of pleasure
36) your music taste is like an infp
37) you seem preoccupied or lost in a dream@ daydreaming?
38) attracted to paradox eventhough you're logical
39) strong sense of kinship with INTJ
40) never the best strategies
41) your mind is not made to thrive in capitalist economy
42) try your hand at poetry
43) sense of humor is far less PC - people can be surprised with what you come up with
44) you're a logical person
45) your thoughts doesn't translate into ordinary language
46) can feel powerful emotions and bless with that ability
47) hold grudges more easily than you would like to admit
48) Absorb another person emotions before they speak
49) 1 compliment that you would hear is that you're profound and fundamentally interested in others

I don't know what point i miss... It should be 50 😅

[AlexAnder-rins]

Another one: you know you're an INFJ if you're kinda obsessed with mbti because as a "logical feeler" it really helped you understanding the human world around you. At least that's the point where I noticed that I'm an advocate lol

[tofusamurai]

The traveling is in your head -- YES!

[dksdmusic]

The worst part about being an INFJ is the 16 personalities that are within me. I am every single person I've met, every single book I've read and all the experiences in my life. I don't have a sense of self. I don't really know who I am. If I read about an ENTJ, I become an ENTJ. If I talk with an INTJ, I become the INTJ. I am who you are.

[batleon]

Here's a list to all of you INFJ brothers and sisters out there. I took most of it from the captions so there might be a few mistakes. Take care out there all of you!

1. You know that you're an INFJ from time to time if you really are an INFJ.
2. You know you're INFJ when you're pretty sensitive but also pretty rational
3. You know you're INFJ when your friends suddenly wonder where the hell you've disappeared.
4. You know you're INFJ when you'd much rather analyze other's emotions than your own.
5. You know you're INFJ when you enjoy the idea of traveling but most of the time the traveling is mostly in your head.
6. You know you're INFJ when you feel like people don't really understand you.
7. But you also feel like an INFJ when you feel guilty about feeling misunderstood because feeling unique is a bit vain.
8. You know that you're an INFJ when you really get angry but when you do it's an absolute configuration.
9. You know you're INFJ when you're sick of people telling you that you're a unicorn.
10. And you also know you're INFJ when you're often decent at maths in school but you were also kind of good at literature and history and a bit of everything.
11. You know you're INFJ when your life is a perpetual quest to understand what you're really looking for.
12. You know that you are INFJ when people find you kind of mysterious.
13. But you know that you're INFJ when people find you intense but in a kind of nice and friendly way.
14. You know you are this type when most of your friends are ENFP's.
15. And you know also that you are of this type when you often have a soft spot for INTP's and ENTP's.
16. You know you're INFJ when you were never seen as the best but you kind of think you are the best in some domains.
17. You know you're an INFJ when your kinesthetic intelligence the movements intelligence is very low and very bad and is nothing to boast about.
18. But you also know that you're INFJ when you're stressed you turn into your kind of SC dominance ESTP.
19. You know that you are of this type when you go through a confident patch you feel like you're not an ESTP but an ENFJ.
20. Now unfortunately you know that you're INFJ when single criticism is enough to shake you off your confidence and you're no longer an ENFJ.
21. You know you're also an INFJ when you're in a good mood people often see you as an extrovert.
22. And you know you are of this type when people don't really understand the PJ difference which often pegs you as a P.
23. You know that you're an advocate when you don't really need people but at the same time, you really need people.
24. There's a good indication that you're an INFJ if a lot of the stuff you do nobody knows about.
25. But you also know that you could very well be this type when you try to be nice to everyone and your family for example unless they're really making no effort.
26. You know that you're of this type when you can become very cold to someone when you feel like that person has betrayed your trust.
27. Even more so you know that you're INFJ when some of your worst door slams can be seen as a little bit sadistic in their brutality.
28. You know you're INFJ when you feel sometimes as if you had 12 different personalities adapted to different kinds of audiences and have an intuitive feeling of what would be the best mode of expression to them.
29. You feel like you're an INFJ when you often feel like you're an actor in a film and present and detached at the same time.
30. You know that you're an INFJ when you know you would win so many more debates if your skin was a little thicker.
31. You know that you're of this type when you're neither left nor right brain but kind of both.
32. And you also know that you're this type when meeting an INFJ in real life is almost like a religious experience.
33. You know that you're an INFJ when talking to other INFJ's online can be a great source of warmth from a tough world.
34. You know that you're this kind of type when you have a unique kind of charisma which is subtle yet present and all your own.
35. You know that you're an INFJ when sometimes you put your phone in airplane mode not to be disturbed by mankind.
36. I think another tell-tale sign that you are this type is when your empathy that can be a source of difficulty sometimes can be a source of pleasure and you can utilize almost as a source of pleasure. For example when you put yourself in the shoes of a movie character or musician and feel like you can actually experience the fragments of their lives.
37. You know that you're an INFJ when your music taste is basically those of an INFP except that it is the INFPs that tell you about how to get a music taste.
38. You know that you're an INFJ when people are looking at you, you seem preoccupied or lost in a dream.
39. But you also that you are of this type if you're attached to paradox and even though you're logical you're interested in what can not be explained by logical means alone and that you're interested in what's behind that.
40. You know that you're an INFJ if you at the end of the day you feel a strong sense of kinship with INTJ's despite your differences.
41. You know that you're an INFJ when you were never the best at strategy games or board games of any kind it's almost if your intelligence lied elsewhere and whenever you were focusing on these games your intelligence was misused.
42. You know that you're an advocate if you often feel like your mind is really not made for thriving in the capitalist economy but maybe you would thrive in a different kind of economy.
43. And you know that you're an INFJ if you've tried to hand the poe at poetry once or twice in your life at least or maybe more.
44. And you especially know when your sense of humor is far less politically correct and proper than people think and in certain circles, people can be surprised by what you come up with.
45. Another telltale sign that you are of this type is that you're kind of a logical person but one way to make sure to convince people if they need to be convinced that you're not T is if you're in the presence of a cute animal.
46. You know that you're an INFJ when your thoughts simply do not translate into your ordinary language.
47. And you know that you're this type if you can feel extremely powerful emotions and mostly you feel blessed for that ability can be a source of pain which you would not exchange for anything else.
48. You feel like you might be an advocate if you hold grudges easier than you'd like to admit and don't easily let go of them although you can.
49. You know that you're an INFJ if you sometimes absorb another person's emotions even before that person has spoken it's almost as if the aura around the person has done the job already you'd absorbed all the waves.
50. You know that you're an INFJ if the one compliment that people would never take away from you that you would hear is that you're profound and you're someone who's fundamentally interested in others.

[leighlong]

Great list Ren! How about also, you know you are an INFJ when you become extremely irritable, stressed to the point of lashing out at others if you do not get enough alone time.

[loref]

Present, yet detached. Yes. Our paradoxical nature can be maddening.

[spikedbeetle]

“Infj can be a source of pain but you wouldn’t trade it”....
Pretty spot on!


I literally just told someone I wouldn’t choose this personality but I wouldn’t trade it either.

[dori]

I listened and laughed, smiled, nodded, reflected...yes INFJ. Thank you for your work.

[fharhunachoudhury]

You know ur an infj wen uve bin through or are currently in the process of going thru a spiritual awakening :)

[brandonb]

You know your INFJ when many many times in your life you meet people for the first time, sense something from them, ask if everything is ok with them, and end up hearing details about a person that you are not on a relationship level for that information.

[rishabhshukla]

You know you're an INFJ when only you can tell yourself whether you can do something or not. Always gotta try!

[BryanChance]

The best and most accurate "signs of an INFJ" video on the internet.

[awurama]

you know you're INFJ if this video makes you emotional because someone finally gets you

[ceetteet]

*You know you’re (probably) an INFJ when you laughed and nodded in agreement to pretty much all of this*

What an awesome video that really resonates...thank you for sharing!