What to say when you approach a girl?

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What to Say When You Approach a Girl.

Yes! You have finally gathered up the courage to walk up to the girl of your dreams and talk to her but wait; you do not know what to say to her. You have been contemplating for a while now, and finally, you got the guts to walk to her and say hi, but then what do you say next. You need to be prepared for any outcome and how the conversation will go. Here are some tips to get the conversation going without sounding like a creep who has been stalking her

Embrace your shyness

If you are a shy person treat it just like any other challenge in your life. She will probably notice that you are shy by simply looking at your body language. Do not be ashamed of it instead of embrace it. Come out and own your shy nature but throwing in statements like “I get a bit nervous when talking to pretty women” do not try covering up your shyness because it will make you look more awkward and weird when talking to her.

Keep her engaged

Ask her questions to make her elaborate what she means when she is talking about something. Remember to not interrogate her; there is a huge difference between asking questions and interrogating. Avoid close ended questions because they usually sound rude and interrogating, rather go for open ended question which will keep the conversation going. Try making observations about your environment and her, give your honest opinion and be an active listener, give her time to speak. Be as polite as possible. Respect her views and try to have a genuine interest in her observation too. Offer her your view on the issues too. This will keep your conversation going and very interesting. You will notice that you are less tense and warming up to her

Iain Myles is an executive dating coach of Kamalifestyles. He's highly experienced in live training of our clients on streets, in bars and clubs. Iain teaches the core principles of the approach that every guy needs to know to become successful in dating.

Gabriella Ryan is Kamalifestyles youtube presenter and she regularly publishes videos on different dating topics on KamaTV. She also takes part in infield training's by helping our dating coaches. She brings the female perspective and gives honest feedback to the clients in relation to what women think in certain situations. Our clients say “her honest feedback into the female mind is very good and shockingly interesting”.

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[richardschiffman]

I tried talking to a girl once. The court hearing is in two weeks.

[Nikpendar_TV]

omg..i cant beleive you are making all these conditions, it shouldnt be difficult, simple steps, 1. appraoch her no matter what, 2. imminently say can i have your phon numebr. 3. if yes, get her num, talk to her more, and share/ if she was a no, smile, say have good day.

[endangeredmexican]

Ok I am gonna do it this Monday. She's always alone in the library I always see her walking alone. Idk If I should approach her when she is walking or when shes in the library but then what if she has earbuds and doing homework and doesnt want to be bothered. Idk if she has friends because I see her alone all the time. Everytime we cross paths in the hallway we just look at eachother and I am stupid because I try to smile but I feel like I am frozen just staring at her.

[aharonaryeh]

Keeping a person engaged in conversation is always a good thing - you know they're interested in what they have to say.

[terminator]

I'am currently listening to this while completely high and the amount of things i have to do just to approach a girl makes me wanna crawl back in my corner and wallow in despair. I had to stop the video at 1:32 because i couldnt understand half of what was being said by that point

[petermitchell]

Try taking to a girl on the street is not that simple.

[uchihahikaku]

Hey Anna Palmer. Here's a question you can ask.
Ask girls how long they can go without sex.

That'll be interesting.

[inferno]

If i Ask her If she has eye shadow? Wilk i Get her number?

[jacksugden]

I only ever talk to women on the tube or in the bus, I always keep myself to myself if in a pub, wont take any baits if she smiles at me.

[Mr.Plug]

Please make a video on how to do it please

[alia.]

It's okay to talk to a girl with her friends

[kenselin]

according to renown, U.S. writer, Stephen King, GOOD CONVERSATION leads to a "friendly" time (GOOD SEX - Ha! Ha!) (BTW, GR8 series of up-beat videos: CONGRATS!)

[initiatorhater]

"a man doesn't need to respect a woman in order to feel attracted to her, but a woman needs to respect a man in order feel attracted to him"

[nenogirich]

What is the case with someone in really thick or weak
How to make it up and feel not defeated from the minute one?

[faheemwaqar]

Sorry, but that was about a married couple but not being batchelors

[nicholascoke]

I like this video but am a Jamaican and I know how to approach a ladie and wat to say

[anonymousbankaccounthacker]

What do you do when a hot girl approaches you?

[yobolion]

Money might be attractive to both men and women but love cannot be bought.

[TheSaNdMaN]

"Be you" but what if I'm a piece of garbage?

[dogchance]

Look like the mythological god Adonis or give up.