Hey Steve: Feeling Pressured To Get Married

She’s from a big Southern family and they’re pressuring her to get married and have kids. However, she isn’t ready and wants them to back off. Can Steve help?

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[nizarkrari]

''Same man different clothes''
Steve : well why you keep opening the damn dowwwr ? 😂 😂 😂

[ryanlordjanie]

She said her family are trying to rush her into getting married and having kids so Steve introduces her to some men 😂😂

[Leoo]

This girl is already doing the right thing by not giving into pressure from others, and also being careful not to fall for a man that doesn't really care about her. The proper advice for her would be to continue not to be in a rush. Parents sometimes put pressure on their kids because pressure was put on them to rush, and in a lot of cases, they gave into that pressure. So they subconsciously, and sometimes consciously put that same pressure on their children, which is not good.

[BenTamanaOfficial]

I’d go on a date with her. She seems like a very nice person and family oriented

[yasminjamaal]

I feel you sister! My mum and aunt has grown tired of asking me about marriage. So they now carry my photo on their phone and brings me up in every conversation they have. Making it clear to people that : “my daughter is single and ready for marriage”.

😅So here I am walking down my street the other day only to be stopped by a lady I don’t know asking me “are you the single daughter Would you want to date my son?”😅

[TheRideemedStudio]

Aww thank y’all for being so kind! ☺️🥰

[marthaskidmore]

I love this Mr Steve you be doing your thangy thang & helping the ladies out. I remember when I was in that particular situation & now that I am married I am happy that God Finally sent my King. God won’t send him until both of us are ready. I love you Mr Steve🥰🥰🥰😘😘😘🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

[anthonyword]

Take ur time and live ur life. Don't be pressured into something u'll regret later. I wonder why? Every guy Steve knows is PERFECT. Just bcz Steve says he's perfect. Doesn't mean he's perfect for you. Ur a beautiful young lady. Take ur time. In God's timing he'll send ur soulmate.

[trachelle]

She needs to start telling these men who like saying, "I'm not ready for a relationship" but who like receiving "relationship and title benefits" that she's "just not ready to give out relationship and title benefits" for someone who who isn't ready for them.

[lindsaysumpter]

At this point we all just need to go on Steve’s show 😂😂

[hyacinthwilliams]

Man don't think with no heart girl.🤣

[sheritownsend]

When she stated the type of men she had been running into, Steve looked surprised. Men wanting women to do everything for them without being married is the typical man out there. This is what women have been complaining about. Yet, Steve didn't seem to have any answers.

[tinebean]

What a gorgeous chocolate beauty. Something is so wrong out here when her caliber isn't receiving what she deserves.

[nickcraig]

I would be so humbled in taking her out while get to know her spiritually, emotionally and mentally on a deeper level! I’m a medical student working towards multiple degrees. Family means everything to me which I keep near to my heart but most importantly a man of God. Who do I need to get in contact with?

[camronjones-kennedy]

Listen ima just say this. Marriage and kids is an expense! Take your mf time! It’s your choice and your choice alone don’t let people pressure you into something that has nothing to do with them. Once you have kids your life changes forever.

[melissalitus]

Do what's best for you, it's not a race or competition to see when you'll get married or have kids.. Don't let society or family pressure you. It's your life at the end of the day

[LadeOla]

Steve be hooking these women with great men only for his daughter to end up with Diddy. 😔

[deficator]

He has to be god fearing, love his mom, have a job, think with his heart/feelings.

Hot bad boy walks by.

This Girl: gets infatuated. “He’s the one.”

[julianacheriza]

My advice to the young lady is don’t let anyone pressure you into getting married your mom, grandma, dad, sister, aunt no one!! In my personal experience most of the ppl in my family didn’t even get married because they love the person it was either to have a title or to move out of their parents house

[Xx-pofu]

Women often say they want a man who's tall (at least 6 ft.). That eliminates 85% of the men and greatly decreases your chances of every finding a man.