Stop Choosing Love That Doesn't Choose YOU (The Cure)

Stop choosing people that are not choosing you in return.

If you find that you are attracting either emotionally unavailable people that don't want to get close, or you're attracting people that don't want to commit to you then it is due to a childhood wound that I'm going to be talking about in this video.

And if you change this one thing it will change the whole entire energy dynamic. But also I'm going to explain to you why you may keep attracting this energy dynamic, where people aren't choosing you and how you can change that in the most powerful way.

I've learned this recently. And it has completely transformed not only my outer reality with my dating life and just love in general. But also my inner reality and how I carry myself.

So in this video, we're going to talk about that right now.

[endlesssoul]

“Never choose someone who needs to think twice about choosing you.” ✌🏽

[LacyJane]

I was attracting someone that didn't choose me because I didn't choose me. Once I started to prioritize myself, so much shifted. Don't give up you guys.

[AhmetKaan]

*“You can’t go back and change the beginning, but you can start where you are and change the ending...”*
*―C. S. Lewis*

[realigiousrayne]

Sometimes the hardest person to love is yourself.

[gavinspeaks]

Love yourself until you feel whole. Love yourself to the point you feel like you dont need a relationship and a relationship becomes a bonus in your life.
Much love from a growing YouTuber 💜

[AhmetKaan]

👉 *7 things to master before this year ends:*
✅ *1. Don’t chase anyone*
✅ *2. Don’t beg anyone to stay*
✅ *3. Know your worth*
✅ *4. Save space for people who matter*
✅ *5. Accept what cannot be changed*
✅ *6. Leave what isn’t for you*
✅ *7. Love yourself*

[bellakim]

Relax. Sit back and allow people to come to you. No need to do all the work. When you stop needing is when you start receiving what you're worth.

[garycordle]

Stop making people a priority in your life, when they don't make you a priority in their life, good vibes everyone 👍🙏💯

[gavinspeaks]

You create your thoughts, your thoughts create your intentions and your intentions create your reality. – Wayne Dyer
~ Much Love from a Growing YouTuber💜

[AhmetKaan]

*Remember today is the tomorrow you worried about yesterday.*
*-Dale Carnegie*

[nosockaccounts]

Narcissist want people to want them, they don't want intimacy, they just want to be wanted.

[Montalvo]

Perfect timing. I got ghosted and ended up blocking that guy... that's self love. I deserve better!

[AhmetKaan]

*Compare yourself to who you were yesterday, not who someone else is today.*
*Jordan Peterson*

[purposewithangelina]

💖Heal your inner child
💖Fall in love with your own energy
💖Constanly spend time alone to know who you are and how amazing you really are
💖Meditate daily to calm yourself, raise your energy and become the OBSERVER of your life
💖Protect your energy from toxicity
💖Heal yourself and your inner child
💖Practice techniques that gives you the beliefs of I am worthy
💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖

[ConnorLipke]

Just got out of a situationship with someone who wasn't giving me the energy that I needed. I tend to choose people who don't care about me at all. I have a lot of childhood trauma, she did too, and she pushed me away, and prioritized work, her friends, partying, etc. I confronted her, she didn't like that and here I am. She reminded me a lot of my mother, in both personality and appearance. I should have walked away before it had even started, but I wanted to feel something and she gave me bread crumbs and in person, gave me attention. I'm trying to heal and stop making these mistakes, and your videos are helping a ton. I tend to be picky to the point, where people who do give me the attention I want, I'm not attracted to. So I chase people I feel are attractive enough or tick x amount of boxes, and get burned. Each failed attempt is a lesson.

[sherrita]

When I accepted my mom for not being the perfect mother, I began releasing the need to have her love

[ll]

That's true I find out years later that i felt emotionally abandoned when I was a child. So I choose emotionally closed people. Wow..

[divinelife]

Omg, I just broke up.
Because my boyfriend had become emotionally unavailable all of a sudden.
People are soo unpredictable.
But i am Worthy. 🙏🏼

[jayt]

You know why I like you? Because you’re authentic and the information does not feel superficial and scripted. Because you use language any person can understand and you structure your concepts simply.

[jayne]

18 years of not being chosen, I feel like I have wasted my life with this person. This video totally made sense to me, I never felt chosen as a child either. But I see now it’s me that feels I don’t deserve real love and only I can change that