3 Biggest Mistakes Guys Make When They Like A Girl

A big part of standing out to women and being seen as different is not doing the same things that 99% of guys do when they like a girl. So let's review the biggest mistakes guys make when they like a girl so you never do things that repel girls and only do things to attract them.

[murphsviews]

“You don’t want to appear needy”.

At the end of the day, it doesn’t matter how you “appear”, it matters HOW YOU ARE.

Worrying about how you “appear” is needy in and of itself, and if you’re needy, it’s going to show through one way or another, sooner or later, no matter how much you try to hide it and to “appear” non-needy.

So don’t worry about how you “appear”, focus on how you ARE. And if how you are is needy, deal with that core issue.

And if you’re wondering if you are in fact needy or not, ask yourself whether you feel the need to get anything from a woman.

For instance, do you feel a need to get her to like you? Do you feel a need to get her to respect you? Do you feel a need to get her to approve of you? Etc etc.

If any or all of those apply to you, YOU ARE NEEDY.

And that’s unattractive, and no matter how much you try to hide it, it will shine through sooner or later.

So quit worrying about how you “appear” and start working on HOW YOU ARE.

[carlosverde-datingtips]

Great tips! You should never chase after a woman… but you do need to show interest!

If you chase after her, it’s only natural for her to want to run away - it’s human nature!

What you want to do instead is: “Take two steps forward, one back”, that’s the method you should want to use…

meaning, when you give her attention, or do things to show her that you are interested - you need to take a step back…

and see if she reciprocates - meaning, starts doing what you were doing…

because in order for any relationship to work, it’s going to have to be a two-way street.

Anyway, that’s my two cents.
-Carlos Verde - Dating Tips

[Adam]

I did all these mistakes. How Can I reedem myself? How Can I become right? She rejected me btw.

[initiatorhater]

this is something i have always hated and i forever will, but i doubt it will ever change, Why the fuck is it always about what guys have to do? We literally have to do everything from get that career, style, game, conversation skills, social-skills, how to talk a certain way, behave a certain way, have certain social skills, leading skills, flirt, tease, and probably more things, etc etc etc just to please and attract a fucking chick. Meanwhile it seems, girls, women, simply just have to be attractive, thats all, and they have several dates, options lined up already, etc.

Seriously, i sometimes hate being born male due to the cards i was dealt with, and yet i get even more annoyed and enraged, pissed off, when people and society still think men have it better than women do when it comes to dating and attracting someone, i will never understand that.

Because even if a guy is average or decent looking, overall, his looks are not a problem, but he is lacking what i mentioned above, he won't get a girlfriend, or just at least struggle, but if a woman is just decently attractive, average looking, she is fine, she will have plenty of options.

what are you gonna do complain about it or level up and do something about it? Because complaining about it ain’t gonna solve anything my guy 🤷🏽‍♂️, yup, women don't have to do jackshit about it, but only men do if they want to have options in their dating life

[anthonylovquist]

Yeah i know that but never wrong to be remembered of it

[Spiderblaze-pwbz]

I remember watching one of his videos on how to get a woman and it worked

[MorrCris]

1st and love the content keep it up i hope to have as many subs as you one day

[jaxkman]

Easiest way is to just stop pursuing them altogether. There is no right answer, only wrong answers

[santacruzpatricia]

Take it slow 😅
I’ve been texting with a guy for months…actually before Covid
He said I like you I care about you .. but his words doesn’t match his actions..
I reply his msgs but I don’t expect nothing from him….
😊😊