What Are The Effects of Emotional Neglect?

Are you hyper-independent? Do you relate?

In this video, I break down how emotional neglect can affect how you see yourself and other people in adulthood, causing you to push people away before they can get too close.

#emotions #dismissiveavoidant #attachmentstyles

[stephanieg]

Very accurate. Never lived w a partner nor got so close that i got close to marriage, so no kids. It s had a huge impact.

[Games-and-make-up]

This is me. I’m afraid to connect with people because I’ve been bullied and had bad parents. Its the truth. I have a fucked up life. And now people expect me to be normal and you wont get accepted if you’re not like what 😂😂😂 you made me this way ppl

[Anna-ifii]

The best most accurate description of this I’ve heard.. unfortunately I can relate very much to this. Knowledge is power so thank you ❤❤❤

[noway]

Children live what they learn, not only as children but even into adulthood. Live as she says, still!
All alone. What I want and need seems to never be found or available. Acceptance of reality is the only answer.

[sifublack]

I went through this as a child myself and broke through it before I understood attachment styles. It's essential DAs to be unapologetically outspoken about your thoughts and opinions regardless of how others feel about them. "Be who you are and say what you feel because those who mind don't matter and those who matter, don't mind." ~ Dr. Seuss

[victorialucci]

You’re amazing. You’ve helped me a lot.

[lunab.]

how to guide a child out of this process? i know inevitably they will personalize what happens around them/to them is their fault, but how to sort of teach them not to internalize the experience of others, especially their parents?

[EWARO]

What is the definition of attunement??

[nuez]

I rather disagree. Not me keeping them aeay. Reaction can come from 2 parties. Typical for me is always to get dumped in the worst possible emergency, when i was after surgeries, whe. I was burnout for unwanted child wish . Icant rely on someone cause theyre most of them immature irresponsible or addictive. dont think that blame and generalizinf is the solution. These repetitive pattern occur on their own like a washing machine program 😊at least so i feel . You attract cr.. until you heal