The reason men will stop giving effort…over 50% of 60k men said THIS #shorts

[nauticalgaming]

This is true. I've noticed that many ladies will stop chasing once they think they got the man. But what ya gotta realize is that if you want to keep the man you gotta chase just as much as he does. It goes both ways, can't just always be the guy planning all the dates and always making an effort to connect. If he feels like you don't want to connect, he'll go and do other things like play videogames with the bros or go fishing. If you think he's not showing you enough attention, then the chances are he probably feels neglected and don't wanna give you much until he sees you put more effort in. And if I get anyone bitching in the comments, notice: I said it goes both ways. Both parties need to take actions to show they love and cherish each other. If they don't, that's what leads to feelings of neglect and eventually separation. So for the men, chase her everyday like you were when y'all were first getting together. And for the women, do the same. Because you can SAY you love someone, but in the end actions always speak louder than words, and neglect speaks volumes more than the words "I love you" do. You can live everyday loving someone, but if you don't show it they don't believe it. So, if you love someone, give them your 110% and maybe, just maybe, they'll love you back enough to give 110% back! 😁

[billcoupe]

Yep... if she's not at least matching my energy, I'm out. When she's giving back more... Wow!! Then I'm immediately ramping up my efforts! ❤

[rickbuchanan]

I admire how you put yourself out there!

[TowerFiftyFive]

No effort is required, just provide respect and loyalty. That’s it.

[renegademarauder]

And she'll say we stopped for NO reason.🤦‍♂️

[vaporholichouston]

I like being told "I already told why" but doesn't realize she had that conversation in her head and never said a word to me about anything conversation

[partypants]

So many women dont understand that and if a guy tries to explain, its complaining.

[Dire_Database]

You make too many good points about relationships, ma'am 🤣😂🥺🙃

[tigerwoods]

Some men might like doing everything but there comes a point you think she just isn't interested in you anymore. It's not hard to show a little initiative.

[julesvreug]

Its a two way street. I find lack of Gratitude these days is a big one. Eg High expectations and always wanting more which is unrealistic and unsustainable. Men just stop trying if what she wants is unrealistic and never can be pleased.

[davidgleeson]

Women should learn the power of reciprocation.

[alexfrederick]

I gave effort to her, she gave nothing back, so I gave my effort to my work, got a promotion, tell me why I need to keep trying with women, at least my job (that I hate) gives me something in return for my efforts.
I make enough to support a family, I want a family just can't seem to find a girl worth putting in the effort.

[nickmv]

I can't even count the amount of women that I talk to on dating apps who put no effort into the conversation and then wonder why I stopped talking to them

[zaosh]

You live and you learn ! Who is worth your time & who is only passing by 😅😅😅

[Lurch]

100% factual and what I’m going through right now.

[kodanis]

That and having every effort we make get taken the wrong way

[DreamingSheep]

Or completely refusing to acknowledge or dismissing the effort that he's put in.

Why put in effort if you're being actively told that you aren't?

[Onmysheet]

She's probably left a mark on her floor from all that sliding.

[Mithril_Antimarr]

reciprocity is how a good guy tells if a woman is serious... thought everyone knew this

[joselozano]

Then they wonder why they are 30 & single, & still blame men for it.