Watch This If You've Ever Had A Crush On Someone Else While In A Relationship

Kimberly Caldwell, Cari Champion, Amber Stevens West and Steve Harvey agree that crushes are hard to avoid, but there's also a line you can't cross.

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[Luvbengs]

Attractive and crush are two different things

[WolfvineGaming]

If you’re in a relationship and you find interest in someone else, you need to realize that you’re going to find interest in many people throughout your life whether you’re single or in a relationship. You got to realize though that it’s not always greener on the other side. You may have someone great and you may have feelings for them still, but don’t waste your life hopping from one relationship to another thinking they’re the new “one”.

[RGE_Music]

physical attraction is common, but an emotional connection is rare

[highwayTY]

“having a crush” is beyond “finding someone attractive.” = 2 TOTALLY DIFFERRNT THINGS

[serious]

Crushes are hard, especially in the workplace...it takes real self control to keep your mind right, man or woman.

[abbypepper]

it all starts with an innocent crush innocent flirt and that the start of opening the door to cheating 😩

[nawalmuhamed]

“A lot of men cheat because there are a lot of women willing to cheat “ - Steve Harvey 3:08

[demetriusdavis]

If my lady found other me Attractive I wouldn’t care because it’s natural and I find other women attractive too. But if she fantasizes about that person and constantly thinks about that person that’s a problem. Especially if she sees that person on the daily.

[lx]

I had a crush on someone who also had a crush on me while we were both in separate relationships and we never crossed the line. Two years after we got out of our relationships (different times) we finally ended up together.

[ChiaraMarandellas]

You cannot stop anyone from cheating, point blank. No matter what you do...

[KeaYang]

Matthew 5: 28 But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart.

[daluvofnikki]

A crush is infatuation. People mistake infatuation for love all the time. I don’t think you should find yourself infatuated with someone else if you claim you are in a committed relationship. It doesn’t make sense. How committed are you really then? Finding someone else attractive or cute is completely different than finding yourself crushing on that person. A crush involves feelings. People tend to act on those feelings. So no I think it is wrong to have a crush on someone else while you are in a committed relationship. Nothing wrong with thinking someone other than your significant other is cute or hot, but when you start dreaming and picturing yourself with that person which most people do with their crushes trouble is a brewing.

[zeshanelle]

The first lady had it right. Control your self. There is a difference between having a crush on someone and being attracted to someone. The last two did not answer the question correctly. They tried to make it seem like it was okay.

[fah]

Finding someone attractive and having a crush is two different things, totally.

[amandaclbn]

People are human beings

- Steve Harvey 2018

[the.wanginator]

Having a crush and acting on a crush are two different things

[Himsofinee]

For me I feel like if you have a crush on anyone while you have a partner or in a relationship then your partner doesn’t make you feel whole or your not in love. Which is nobody’s fault in the relationship that’s totally normal, it’s just that it’s not going to work if you don’t have a crush on your partner. Because if you have a crush on your partner you wouldn’t even see/look at anyone else.

[gregorycarlson]

I’m a professional who has dealt with situations like this for many years. It certainly is possible to recognize that someone is attractive in an appropriate way. But call it a crush, infatuation, or whatever you will, I will state emphatically that it will not happen in a truly committed relationship where all is as it should be. It’s unthinkable. A person may be in serious debt, but if they’re a decent person, they can drive by a bank and not even consider robbing that bank. If you or your partner is infatuated with someone, I advise you to get on it and deal with it now. I’ve learned in my counseling that infatuation leads to emotional affairs, and emotional affairs lead to a bedroom.🤔

[Thomzz]

Its best to stay single. Dont gotta worry about anybody cheating on you or finding attraction in someone else👌✌.

[Laoriginal]

No it is NOT ok to have a crush on someone else while you’re in a relationship.