Master the Art of Influence + Communication (Become MAGNETIC) | Charles Duhigg

Today, we are joined Charles Duhigg, a Pulitzer Prize-winning reporter and the brilliant mind behind 2 New York Times bestsellers, and his latest book "Supercommunicators: How to Unlock the Secret Language of Connection". Charles has been a prominent voice in the fields of productivity and habit formation, sharing groundbreaking insights that have transformed countless lives.

In this episode, we'll delve into the captivating world of communication, exploring the secrets to unlocking the power of connection that lies within all of us.

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0:00 Intro
00:03:42 - The Importance of Connections and Conversation
00:07:21 - The Power of Super Communication
00:10:51 - The Importance of Being Understood
00:14:16 - The Power of Listening
00:17:54 - Different Types of Conversations
00:21:19 - Understanding the Needs in a Conversation
00:24:49 - The Importance of Communication and Experimentation
00:28:22 - Creating a Safe Space for Vulnerability
00:32:01 - The Power of Courageous and Vulnerable Conversations
00:35:42 - The Importance of Emotional Conversation and Authentic Communication
00:39:32 - Creating Relatability: Unlocking Abundance through Conversation
00:43:23 - The Importance of Laughing and Asking Questions During Communication
00:46:35 - The Power of Vulnerability
00:50:14 - Recovering from Success
00:53:54 - Finding Joy and Self-Improvement
00:57:37 - Overcoming Fears and Taking Action
01:01:44 - Overcoming the Fear of Rejection
01:05:22 - The Importance of Sharing Personal Values
01:08:58 - Motivational Interviewing for Conflict Resolution
01:12:26 - The Power of Effective Communication
01:16:09 - Investing in Relationships
01:19:56 - The Joy of Giving

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[lewishowes]

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[bigd]

Oh man that part about not giving solutions to people when they just want to be understood is something I’m working on. I’m very good at making friends but when we get to the point where they start to become deeper with me and telling me their problems, I will relate to a degree but then I give solutions and it can get to a point where I start to slowly polarize from the person because I’m the kind of person who wants to fix their problem and not feel like I’m dwelling in their problems with them, but I realize that it’s not about dwelling with them but just hearing them and showing I hear them, and if they ask for advice/a solution, then I will give it. Thanks so much lewis, I swear your videos make me a more high quality person, they’re just phenomenal.

[ThePersonalDevelopmentSchool]

When you cannot connect with yourself, you will always feel lonely even in the presence of others

[madelineortiz]

Been alone can increase your risk, been around the wrong people can be even worse

[sirsmalls]

My assumption is that those of us that listen to these interviews have a desire to learn something new or to learn how to better ourselves. Relationships are a key component to our happiness longevity and we would like to communicate and experience life with likeminded people. How can we go about our lives and find those likeminded individuals and have a real legitimate relationship with them? I find myself learning all these things and yet I don’t have an established circle of people outside of our immediate family that I can call, go to or experience life with. It’s just me my spouse and my kids in a bubble and for the longest time I’ve desired more meaningful relationships to experience and educate myself more.

[MsLinda]

People no longer know how to distinguish between friends and acquaintances. Emotional diarrhea at inopportune moments is not welcome. We need to get back to reading classics to re learn what friendships are, and start practising the art of friendship. It takes time to build a friendship, and in order to have good friends, one must be a good friend. But skipping steps in building friendship is like skipping steps in courtship. Miss a step, and the whole relationship falls apart like a house of cards that it's built on. Sharing too much too soon is like expecting someone to sleep with you when all you've said is hi 10 times at the gym, or shared a cup of coffee. Maybe there's been a friendship expert on this show, but I'd surely like to see more friendship experts talk about how to build friendships; this would eliminate a lot of loneliness. It would also eliminate a lot of toxicity in relationships, including the one we have with ourselves. I'd also like to see a list of good books that illustrate what true friendship is, and how it was created. I'd love role play; conversations that illustrate what is inappropriate and how it could be corrected. I blame movies for showing incorrectly what friendship is.

[martymaker]

"You cannot be lonely when you like the man you're alone with" Dr Wayne Dyer. Quote from: What Am I Here For?: Discover meaning, joy and steps to success in the human experience. Valuable read.

[Higherlovemeditations]

Do you need me to Hear you, help you or hug you? Game Changer for Thankyou!!! ❤

[pavilova]

Lewis is such a great interviewer! Charles has been on a few of my favorite podcasts recently, but nobody could make it as engaging, meaningful and tactical as you!!!! ❤

[sisisisi]

Ok, but He had the BEST answers to the famous last questions!! And he’s the only one who has asked Lewis what his are 🤯👏🏾

[eso]

Such a great episode , I will never forget that " The journey is more important than the destination, the destination is half an hour, but the journey is years" .

[paradymelift]

“Recovering from success”. WOW. I heard that. His story was incredibly vulnerable and the loudest “cautionary tale” I’ve ever heard. Excellent interview from both sides! ❤

[leadgenjay]

The insights from Charles Duhigg are always mind-opening. For entrepreneurs looking to leverage communication, remember that active listening is key. It's not just about talking; it's about understanding the needs and pain points of your audience to truly connect and provide value.

[madelineortiz]

I’m 45 with 3 mindful relationships plus family, don’t suffer from any physical ailments. Everyone thing I am about 28, work have kids and prefer love people from the distance that have toxic people around me, I have a lot of people that I now but don’t have them in the day to day

[valeriechua-semmens]

I learnt this in med school 20 years ago. Use it all the time and love it! ❤️

[heatheroffer]

I can express the value I have gained for listening to the conversation! I plan to listen to it daily for a while, then return to it monthly. Ty🙏🙏🙏🙏

[xurvxgj]

Im a new subsciber Lewis. The first video of yours Ive actually watched. I mostly see your shorts. This was particularly interesting to me. My husband and I moved from our home state about 5 yrs ago to be closer to his siblings whom I have very little in common with. 2yrs later he became ill and passed away in 2022. So here I am living alone very ruraly seperated from long term friends that are concerned that Im lonely. I personally think its a perseption thing. Some people need to be around people all the time others don't. I keep myself busy and actually enjoy the time and peaceful environment to decompress after a busy day. I may not stay here forever but for now until I decide my next life chapter being alone has been a good thing.

[DominionAnako-bbry]

Oh, you're interested in communication! That's awesome. Being a communication expert involves understanding the different aspects of effective communication, such as verbal and nonverbal cues, active listening, and clear expression of ideas. It's all about helping people connect and understand each other better. If you have any specific questions or topics you'd like to explore within communication, feel free to ask!Absolutely! Communication is such a fascinating topic. It's all about how we exchange information, ideas, and emotions with others. Effective communication involves not just speaking, but also listening actively and being aware of nonverbal cues like body language and facial expressions. It's about finding common ground and understanding each other's perspectives. Good communication skills can help build stronger relationships, resolve conflicts, and foster collaboration. It's a skill that can be developed and honed over time. So, what aspect of communication interests you the most

[loiswall]

Yes absolutely! You have to listen to what each other has to say in a respectful way and in a relationship together

[missheartbreak]

Was searching for an interview with Charles, and was over the moon that Lewis got him on the pod. I knew it would actually be deep. Wild, but human, to hear about Lewis being checked by a recent guest for "interrupting" as any interjection from him is quite obviously enthusiasm based not ego serving. Still, appreciated his ability to give us this insight into a less than perfect moment. Proof hat humility keeps us in the game. Congrats on 11 years!!!